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I once believed that certain academic challenges were insurmountable, but Ellen Busch's story, shared in her memoir "Disempowered: How I Turned an Academic Death Sentence into My Life's Greatest Adventure," taught me the power of transformation. Her tale is not just one of conquering dyslexia, but of embracing life's adversities to chart a path filled with purpose and wonder. Together, we navigate the misunderstood world of dyslexia, from its challenges within the 70s education system to the unique strengths it can bestow, like impressive visualization skills. Ellen's personal experiences underscore the necessity of support and self-belief in redefining one’s potential.

Have you ever felt trapped by your circumstances? Ellen's journey through a manipulative marriage opens a candid discussion on the dark shadows of narcissistic abuse and the profound impact of low self-esteem on our choices. Yet, her rise to empowerment reveals a blueprint for healing, with therapy and holistic practices like CrossFit and Mark Devine's five mountain training playing instrumental roles. Ellen's personal evolution from survivor to warrior, eager to empower others, proves that the path to self-discovery is fraught with hurdles but ultimately rewarding.

In the delicate dance of life's dynamics, Ellen and I delve into the art of setting boundaries—a topic close to my heart and vital for well-being. Her advocacy for dyslexia awareness and her wisdom in personal growth teach us to face our past traumas and build healthier relationships. Ellen's inspiring narrative serves as a beacon for those looking to own their stories and as a reminder of how embracing our unique journeys can lead to a life of adventure and authenticity. Connect with her mission, be part of the conversation, and remember: owning your narrative is the most thrilling adventure of all.

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Website: https://www.ellenbusch.com/
IG: @ellenbusch1500
LinkedIn: @ellen-busch
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Ever stumbled upon a date that left you questioning the very fabric of reality? Kayla King joins us at the Love Laugh Lounge to swap such tales, leaving no stone unturned as we navigate the tempestuous seas of modern dating. From the outright comical to the downright sobering, we dissect the modern nuances of the dating scene. This episode, brimming with candid exchanges, will have you nodding in agreement one minute and gasping in disbelief the next, as we strip back the layers of single life with humor and unapologetic honesty.

Hold on to your hats, because we're not just skimming the surface of texting faux pas and the enigma of communicating in a digital age. Our banter leads us through the minefield of grammatical gaffes and the art of the perfectly-timed text joke, all while sharing horror stories that might have you think twice about that flirty GIF. With Kayla's vocal prowess and my musical aspirations in the mix, we're harmonizing the conversation with a touch of personal passion, proving that there's more to us than our swipe-worthy profiles.

Wrap up your day with our deep dive into the heart of modern relationships, where we scrutinize the concept of 'situationships' and 'friends with benefits' through the lens of our own colorful experiences. Drawing from the wisdom of attachment theory and insightful literature, we broach the tender topic of rejection and the balancing act of expectations versus reality in love. Our heart-to-heart might just reshape your view on connection and contentment, whether you're laughing over a shared dating misadventure or pondering the possibility of a situationship in your own life. Join Kayla and I for an episode that's a genuine mosaic of mirth, musings, and modern love lore.

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Embark on an enlightening journey with Alyssa Samuel, a seasoned corporate M&A attorney and all around boss of a woman! In our latest episode, Alyssa opens up about the triumphs and trials of a successful single woman navigating an evolving landscape. With a backdrop of her academic tenure at Denver University Sturm College of Law, she delves into both her professional and personal pursuits – a mix of marathon running, yoga, and her dedication to animal rescue. Her story isn't just about professional milestones; it's a tapestry woven with personal passions and a candid reflection on the journey many woman endure.

Society's perception of women in power is ever-evolving, with pop culture icons steering the conversation. This episode contrasts the indelible marks left by Madonna and Taylor Swift, two trailblazers who have shaped our notions of femininity and strength. We dissect how Madonna's dare-to-defy attitude in the 80s and 90s bolstered women during a pivotal era of workplace equality battles, while Swift's narrative of vulnerability and romance might herald a quest for balance. The dialogue ventures further, stirring up thoughts on how socio-economic advancements and the omnipresence of social media sway public sensitivity towards today's female icons.

As the curtain falls on our profound exchange with Alyssa Samuel, the episode serves as a gentle reminder that your voice and story are paramount. We encourage interaction, eagerly inviting potential guests to connect and share their individual journeys. The conversation with Alyssa may have ended, but the dialogue within our community continues to thrive. Thank you for joining this exploratory venture where personal anecdotes intermingle with cultural dissection, and here's to the continual pursuit of authentic self-expression and empowerment.

Check Out Alyssa's latest article, "Sex, Drugs, Rock and Roll: What Madonna, Taylor Swift, and the "Queen of Pop" title says about Feminism and the State of Drug Policy" 

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In this episode, I am joined by Blake Roberts, LPC, MA, a practicing psychotherapist of nearly 30 years, where we dive deep into the topic of solitude. We get into topics such the relationship between solitude, isolationism, and loneliness. We debate whether loneliness is an emotion, a state of being or both and how it relates to solitude. We discuss how awareness is the key to everything, including healthy solitude and the start of one’s journey to embracing solitude, therapy in general and interpersonal relationships. We get into the science of solitude or the lack there of, how people can go about embracing it and including it in their daily lives, the benefits and even some downsides if not managed appropriately. We touch on the 8 domains of wellness, Buddhism, the philosophy of Eckhart Tolle, Johari’s Window, and debate whether growth and comfortability can actually coexist. Blake’s elegant perspective, wisdom and 30 years of expertise is well on display in this episode and if you were ever curious about the benefits of solitude, do not miss this recording, listen now!!! 

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Blake is a practicing therapist in the Denver, CO area, along with his wife Lindsay Roberts, MA, LPC they own and operate The Gift of Psychotherapy practice and are taking new patients on limited basis. 

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In this episode, Dallas’s very own Scott Fischer, host of The Single Dads Podcast joins me in the Lounge to share in Dating Festivus, airing of our dating grievances for the world to enjoy, all while dishing out a handful of biased dating advice for the benefit of y’all. Scott graciously shares some war stories from the Dallas dating scene, opens up about his type and what his relationship aspirations look like when his nest is empty in a year. We both agree that we are unicorns, and loosely justify this fact with our own rating system of course, while contemplating what a modern relationship looks like or if relationships actually exist at all in the modern age. We end the episode ranting about all the lying on the apps, particularly about children and age, and agree that its best to just put your true self out there and stop playing games with the algorithm. This is a fun packed lounge and I enjoyed hosting my first male in the lounge, boy’s club!

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IG: @actionoverwords
LinkedIn: @scottfisch

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In this episode, I am joined by the Co-Host of The Single Dads Podcast, Scott Fischer, where he opens up about his journey as a man and single father after losing both his mother at an early age followed by losing his wife,  the love of his life, to cancer when their son was only 5 years old. His story is one of not just overcoming adversity, but of a man impacted and certainly changed by loss, but not defined by it. He shares stories of getting past drama, helping other single dads, raising a fine young man as a single father, dating, traveling all of the world, and just doing his best to maintain perspective so he can keep on living a meaningful life full of awareness and empathy. Scott is an extraordinary person, and it was a privilege to host him on the podcast and set the groundwork for a new meaningful friend in my life!

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IG: @thesingledadspodcast
IG: @actionoverwords
LinkedIn: @scottfisch

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In this solo recording, I humbly lay myself out there, and open up about why I have started The Owning Alone Podcast and help provide a bit of my background on myself and how I came to starting this Podcast. I lay out the framework of the podcast, who it is directed at, why it is important today in modern times, then get into the thesis, my vision and the mission. I get vulnerable about my past and who I am as a human and end the episode sharing my perspective gained from reading a recent article published in the Atlantic by Derek Thompson, titled “Why American’s Suddenly Stopped Hanging Out.” 

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On this Valentine’s special of The Love Laugh Lounge I am joined by 28 y/o, Miranda Hickman, a Zillennial and fellow cusper. You won’t stop laughing as we compare and contrast dating experience across our separate generations, and I attempt give her hope that most men will eventually grow up. She shares her “icks,” and a detailed story about when her date assessed whether she could give him D-1 babies. We then go on to debate the merits of getting up and leaving a date. Finally ending with me admitting a successful cougar run in my late 20s, followed by the usual game of Red Flag/Green Flag.  

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Description: Recorded live from Pasadena, CA, I was given the distinct pleasure to interview my good friend and mentor, Michael Bowman. Born and raised in rural eastern Colorado, Mike is as close as it gets to a modern-day renaissance man. He is a father, grandfather, farmer, climate change and agricultural hemp lobbyist, movie producer, distillery owner, marijuana drink owner, involved in M&A and Co-Founding a new moderate political platform with George Nolfi call Civil. In this interview, he shares stories of developing a life-long friendship with Annie and Willie Nelson and their family, working with them and Woody Harrelson on biofuel and ag hemp policy, secretly getting a hemp flag flown at the nationals capital on the 4th of July and producing Elevation a movie directed by George Nolfi with actor Anthony Mackie. We get into how important it is to say “yes” and talk to strangers. It’s an incredible story, told by an incredible man that won’t leave you disappointed and maybe even gain some wisdom. 

Follow Mike on Instagram @bowmanmichael , check out the news platform Civil, find the movie Elevation when it comes out later this year! 

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In this premiere of The Love Laugh Lounge, the comedic sub-series of the Owning Alone Podcast, I am joined by lovely ex-wife, Lauren Palumbo, where share war-stories of our online dating experiences both pre and post-divorce, share in some of the all but too familiar banter and get into the topic of gender roles between men and woman when it comes to dating in the modern age. I get candid about which head is doing the swiping, how I feel about Boulder woman and swimsuit pictures. Lauren tells men how to be direct with their messaging and can’t get enough of the new term “kittenfish.” You won’t be disappointed by this series premiere between two former lovers back out in the wild!

If you are in the non-profit world, looking for executive level support, get ahold of Lauren through her company at Third Sight Strategies.

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