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In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E (aka "the Sausage Queen) dive headfirst into the evolving world of relationships and challenge the idea that love has to follow a predefined path. From navigating cuffing season to questioning the norms around marriage, monogamy, and cohabitation, this episode asks the bold question: What if traditional relationship models just don’t fit anymore?

Joel and E explore alternative approaches to love and commitment, discussing everything from living separately while staying connected, to the rise of open relationships, and the freedom that comes with creating your own relationship blueprint. Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, they reveal why "one size never fit all" and how more couples are choosing to break away from the molds set by previous generations.

If you’ve ever felt that love, relationships, or commitment should be different than the conventional models we were taught, this episode is for you. Tune in for real talk, laughs, and plenty of "aha" moments as they rethink what love can look like—on your own terms.

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In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Joel "Poppy" Poppert and his co-host, Emanuela "E" Messineo, dive headfirst into the age-old debate: Can men and women really just be friends? Sharing their own personal stories—including how their friendship blossomed after meeting on a dating app—they tackle the complexities of platonic friendships between the sexes. From navigating societal expectations to handling jealous partners, they leave no stone unturned.

Get ready for candid conversation, sprinkled with humor, as Poppy and E explore how friendships evolve in midlife, the pressures from the outside world, and what it really takes for men and women to maintain a solid platonic relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or just curious about these dynamics, this episode offers a refreshing and honest take on friendships, boundaries, and the occasional chaos that comes with midlife connections. Plus, the duo introduces a fun new segment, “You Know You’re Over the Hill When…” that’s sure to have you laughing out loud.

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 In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E face the classic "Can you hear me now?" tech struggle while recording remotely. They dive into recent travels, from Bermuda work trips to nostalgic family gatherings in Wisconsin, offering some hilarious and heartfelt reflections on midlife and reconnections. The duo also tackles the rollercoaster that is modern dating, discussing single parents, casual flings, and the complexities of "no attachment to outcome" in relationships. Along the way, they share funny stories, including awkward dates, impromptu "fortune-cookie" encounters, and Poppy’s upcoming guy's weekend in the mountains. Tune in for raw, unfiltered insights on the realities of dating, aging, and finding meaning in life’s everyday adventures. 

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Ever wondered what it feels like to navigate midlife with fewer inhibitions? We’re kicking off the newly rebranded "Midlife Uncensored" with a fresh approach to real-life discussions that blend humor, honest emotions, and genuine connections. From the unavoidable midlife crises to the perplexing reality of slowing metabolisms, we’re keeping it real for all our midlife peers. Whether you're single, married, divorced, or living the suburban dream, we promise candid conversations filled with laughter and a touch of vulnerability.

Curious about the foods we grew up with compared to today's choices? We explore the stark differences in ingredients and regulations, and how it impacts our health. Traveling dreams, especially those involving Italy, take center stage as we discuss the importance of wellness and maintaining health into old age. We also share the unfiltered joy of a spontaneous girl's night filled with laughter, meaningful conversations, and the irreplaceable value of friendship. From online dating woes to mental health struggles, we’re opening up about the complexities that come with midlife.

Ready for a mental tune-up? We emphasize creating an open, safe space for sharing stories and struggles, even when answers aren’t readily available. Journey with us through discussions about spirituality, meditation, daily irritations like driving and tech frustrations, and the existential questions of religion and humanity. We even contemplate humanity’s place in the universe, touching on everything from AI immortality to our generational nostalgia. Subscribe, stay connected, and join us on this liberating ride through midlife without the filters.

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In this episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and co-host Emanuela dive into a pivotal shift as they announce a rebrand of the podcast. After some laughs about Joel’s wardrobe malfunction and reflections on personal quirks, the duo shares the exciting direction of their new podcast name and vision. As part of their ongoing "Insecurities" series, Joel and Emanuela explore how insecurities manifest in midlife, from overcoming personal doubts to embracing aging bodies. They also share their own experiences of navigating imposter syndrome, body image, and financial anxieties. Tune in for a blend of humor, honest conversations, and insights on living authentically in midlife. 

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In this engaging episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite Denver Sasquatch, Poppy, and co-host Emanuela Messineo, E, dive into part two of their Insecurities Trio. Picking up from where they left off, they focus on understanding insecurities with an emphasis on gaining awareness. The duo shares personal stories, explores the impact of childhood experiences on adult insecurities, and discusses the importance of self-acceptance and emotional awareness. Poppy and Emanuela also touch on the challenges of navigating relationships, the pitfalls of attachment styles, and the significance of setting boundaries in both personal and professional life. Plus, they lighten the mood with some fun anecdotes from their recent outings and the upcoming podcast luau party. Tune in for insightful conversation, laughter, and a bit of self-reflection. 

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Join your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and his lively co-host Emanuela in this hilarious and unfiltered episode of the "Love Laugh Lounge." In true Festivus fashion, they dive headfirst into the dumpster fire that is modern dating, sharing their own grievances, war stories, and more.

In this episode, Joel and Emanuela dissect her recent plunge back into the dating scene, with all the awkward, cringy, and downright weird moments that come with it. From the perils of online dating profiles to the bizarre tale of a date gone wrong at the Cheesecake Factory, no topic is off-limits.

Tune in for some laugh-out-loud moments as they share their personal experiences and candid thoughts on dating, relationships, and why some single parents just don't have the time for anything more than a friends-with-benefits situation. Plus, Joel's epic story involving a drill rig, a first date, and a very unfortunate bathroom break is one for the ages.

If you're looking for raw, real, and ridiculously funny takes on the highs and lows of dating, this episode is a must-listen. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, share your thoughts, and rate us wherever you get your podcasts. Let the Love Laugh Lounge be your guide through the twisted world of dating!

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Can insecurities really shape our lives to the extent that they determine our mental health, relationships, and even career paths? Join us as we confront this provocative question head-on in our three-episode series on insecurities and their profound effects. We kick things off by acknowledging that everyone, from the seemingly confident to the openly vulnerable, battles with insecurities. From the fear of abandonment rooted in childhood to appearance-related worries amplified by social media, we dig deep into how these insecurities can spiral into anxiety, depression, and self-isolation, revealing the importance of awareness and identification as the first steps toward healing.

In the next phase, we examine the ripple effects of unresolved insecurities on sleep, eating habits, and even substance abuse. Hear personal stories that reveal how anxiety serves as an alarm for deeper issues that often go unnoticed. We journey through the importance of self-awareness in breaking negative cycles and improving relationships, stressing the necessity of inner work beyond temporary fixes like medication. You'll learn practical steps to start the process of self-improvement, from reflective writing and self-assessment to seeking professional help, all aimed at fostering long-term mental health and well-being.

Finally, we tackle the societal pressures that force many to project an unfaltering façade, especially among men, leading to ego-driven behaviors and damaged relationships. Discover the value of being true to oneself and the power of supportive relationships in overcoming these personal battles. As we explore the impact of insecurities on various aspects of life, including dating, career, and academic performance, we underscore the significance of embracing our emotions and accepting that it’s okay not to be okay. Tune in for practical advice on self-reflection, growth, and the journey toward authentic living. Don't forget to share, subscribe, and join the conversation on social media for continual support and updates.

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Brace yourself for laughs and unexpected twists in episode 28 of The Owing Alone Podcast! We kick things off with Emanuela, or E, who regales us with her latest escapades and a hilarious gig slinging hot dogs at Home Depot and Poppy's sidesplitting stories about a quirky hypothetical of meeting potential dates while shopping at Target or daydreaming of yard work in buttless chaps in affluent neighborhoods. 

Join us as we peel back the layers of maintaining long-distance friendships, sharing heartfelt personal anecdotes and practical tips. We dive into how our social circles change over time and the effort required to keep meaningful connections alive. You'll hear about the importance of meeting friends where they are in life and not making them feel guilty for infrequent communication. The conversation is filled with insights on mutual respect, genuine effort, and the beauty of longstanding bonds.

But that's not all! We'll also reveal creative ways to nurture long-distance friendships amidst a pandemic, from virtual get-togethers to thoughtful messages and cherished traditions. Learn how small gestures, like sending a meme or remembering a birthday, can make a huge difference. Plus, we reflect on the balance between socializing and personal time, with humorous tales of changing social habits and the challenge of staying up late. Of course, we couldn't forget our amazing listeners, especially those from Ireland, and we invite everyone to join us for future episodes filled with camaraderie and laughter.

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Ever wondered if playing hard to get really works in the dating world? Join us on this lighthearted "Silly Saturday" episode as Poppy and E, share their latest escapades—from Game of Thrones marathons to making new friends at Pilates class. Laugh along with us as we explore the quirky social perks of fitness classes and debate whether the right workout attire can indeed spark new friendships. Our discussion smoothly transitions into the age-old question of dating strategies—do they truly help in attracting a partner, or are they just outdated advice?

Navigating the modern dating scene can be a minefield, especially with the rise of dating apps. We dig into the delicate balance of being authentic while avoiding the pitfalls of endless messaging and first-date jitters. Sensitive topics like past relationships, divorce, and family loss also surface, reminding us of how these experiences shape our current dating dynamics. We stress the importance of recharging through self-care and staying true to oneself rather than getting caught up in overanalyzing every move or word of a potential partner.

We don't shy away from the complexities of relationships either, touching on ethical non-monogamy and the maze of communication etiquette in today's tech-driven world. From the implications of read receipts to the frustrations of miscommunication, we share our preferences and pet peeves. The episode wraps up with reflections on secure attachment styles and the significance of appreciating our audience. We encourage our listeners to share their stories and connect with us on Instagram, aiming to build a supportive and vibrant community together. Join us for a mix of humor, personal insights, and practical advice on navigating the rollercoaster of dating and relationships.

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