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Life’s challenges often lead us to profound self-awareness and growth. In this episode, Joel and Emanuela check back in on the history "owning alone," and what it truly means. We open up about our personal journeys, discussing how Joel's midlife crisis and the solitude that follows major life changes can lead to deeper self-understanding. Hear a candid story about overcoming loss and divorce, and how these experiences reshape our approach to life and relationships. As we reflect on the significance of internal and external awareness, we share insights into building healthier, more fulfilling connections with ourselves and others.

Ever felt trapped by a victim mentality? We tackle this pervasive issue, emphasizing the importance of taking ownership of our circumstances and fostering emotional resilience. Through a heartfelt discussion, we highlight the significance of setting healthy boundaries and fostering self-trust. To lighten things up, we end with a fun debate on generational fashion trends and play the quirky game "They're a 10, But..." Don’t miss out on this blend of humor, introspection, and practical advice for navigating life’s hurdles.

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Do you find it challenging to "let go" and allow things to unfold naturally without trying to control every situation? Join us for this post-4th of July episode, where Joel and Emanuela (E) delve into the lessons from Mel Robbins' "Let Them" philosophy and Mark Manson's "Let It Go" approach. We'll discuss how these philosophies can help you release control, foster healthier connections, and let go of unhealthy ones without the usual stress and anxiety.

In this episode, we explore how not taking others' actions personally can reduce stress and improve relationships, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and self-awareness. Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how letting people be themselves without making assumptions can lead to more harmonious interactions. We emphasize that often, learning to truly let things go is the key to living a healthy, happy life.

Are your relationships draining your energy? From setting boundaries to fashion debates, we explore the importance of preserving your well-being by stepping back from negative influences. And to add a fun twist, we introduce a new game to our podcast, "They Are a 10, But...," featuring a light-hearted discussion on the practicality of jorts and the fashion faux pas of socks with sandals, guaranteed to leave you chuckling.

We wrap up with heartfelt gratitude to our listeners and encourage you to share your stories with us. Tune in for a blend of fun, introspection, and practical advice!

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How do you navigate the complex landscape of love and loneliness in a world full of societal pressures? In this heartfelt episode of Owning Alone, we ask ourselves, why is it so challenging to balance the desire for connection with the need for independence? We discuss the internal and external influences that create psychological pressures to partner up, when maybe deep down we don't want to our we are trying our best not to partner up with the wrong person or for the wrong reasons. 

 Join us as we explore the shifting dynamics of relationships across different life stages—how motivations evolve from our twenties to our thirties and beyond. We delve into the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and understanding our own insecurities and non-negotiables. Listener feedback fuels our discussion on the societal and familial expectations that shape our desires, especially when it comes to modern-day empowerment and independence, particularly for women.

How do you stay true to yourself amidst external pressures and societal norms to partner up? By sharing candid reflections on the fear of compromise and the excitement of revamping social meetups, we emphasize the necessity of balancing personal priorities with societal expectations. Our conversation touches on the liberation of solo living, the importance of strong friendships, and the value of being honest about your readiness for partnership. Celebrate the joy and freedom of single life with us, and don't forget to share your own stories on Instagram or via email—we'd love to hear from you!

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Is Denver's dating scene really as wild as it seems? In today’s episode, we sit down with Hana Brownsell, a vibrant and accomplished real estate agent who has been navigating the Denver dating landscape for the past seven years. Hailing from St. Petersburg, Florida, Hana brings her spirited approach to life in Denver, where she balances outdoor adventures, local shows, and treasured moments with friends.

Hana opens up about her casual relationships, past dating experiences, and the unique challenges of dating in a city often seen as a temporary stop. We dive into the complexities of Denver's dating culture, from the perceived lack of male proactivity to the impact of dating apps and generational shifts in dating confidence.

Our candid conversation explores stereotypes, frustrations, and the transient nature of Denver that influences dating attitudes. Hana also shares how she balances her professional ambitions with the pursuit of meaningful connections, offering insights from her experience in the real estate market.

Inspired by Mark Manson's Models, we discuss the importance of authenticity and transparency in modern dating, the pitfalls of unrealistic expectations set by dating apps, and the need for adjusting one’s dating criteria. Packed with personal anecdotes, clear communication tips, and reflections on casual dating, this episode offers valuable insights for navigating the complexities of dating while managing professional life. Tune in for a lively, informative, and eye-opening chat with Hana Brownsell.

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Join us for a deeply moving and insightful episode recorded live from Denver, CO, where we broaden the traditional Father’s Day celebration to honor not just dads, but all father figures and mentors. We celebrate the invaluable contributions of traditional dads as well as those who have become role models in unconventional ways—coaches, mentors, and guiding figures who shape lives without the title of “Dad.”

This episode also shines a light on those who’ve courageously chosen a child-free path, whether by conscious decision or through navigating life's complexities. We delve into the fulfillment that comes from mentoring and supporting others, even without biological ties, highlighting how these relationships enrich both the mentors and those they guide.

Hear Joel's compelling story as he reflects on his journey with the desire for children. From grappling with fertility challenges and the impact of divorce to reaching a point where the idea of parenthood no longer resonates, Joel opens up about the profound weight of his decision not to have children. His narrative offers a poignant look into the pressures and emotional landscapes men face regarding parenthood.

We also explore how men and women differently experience the societal expectations around biological clocks, the fear of loneliness in old age, and creative ways to build community and connection beyond traditional parenthood.

Tune in for an honest conversation about evolving family dynamics, the profound impact of mentorship, and finding purpose and connection on diverse paths. Follow us on Instagram @owningalone and share your thoughts and personal stories—we'd love to hear from you!

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Ever wondered how being true to yourself can transform your life? Discover the powerful connection between authenticity and self-awareness as Emanuela and Joel engage in an enlightening discussion about what it means to be authentic and how it impacts our lives. Drawing from definitions—including the Urban Dictionary—and personal anecdotes, we unravel what it means to be genuinely you. From the struggles of defining oneself outside traditional roles to the liberating experience of making choices aligned with personal values, we explore the journey of knowing, owning, and expressing your true identity.

Our conversation dives into the benefits of self-awareness, such as reduced anxiety and more meaningful decisions, while tackling the societal pressures that challenge our authenticity. Learn how embracing your true self can lead to better relationships and inner peace, and why it’s crucial to foster self-awareness from a young age. Through candid reflections and a touch of humor, we emphasize setting boundaries and forming relationships that resonate with your authentic self, providing practical tips for navigating polarized environments and living a fulfilling life.

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Are you ready to reclaim your personal freedom this summer? Join us on Owning Alone as we explore the joys and challenges of single life and dating. Emanuela kicks things off by sharing her laid-back Memorial Day weekend filled with barbecues, home improvement projects, and a fun trip to Topgolf. Meanwhile, Joel recounts his adrenaline-filled adventures rafting and kayaking in Buena Vista. Together, we set the stage for a thought-provoking discussion on whether being single and dating is truly enjoyable, as well as offer creative solo summer activities to help you embrace the season with confidence.

Navigating the modern dating landscape can be a rollercoaster, especially as we age. This episode takes you on a journey from Joel's whirlwind experiences of dating over 150 women to a more introspective phase where the value of meaningful relationships becomes clearer. We tackle the importance of setting personal boundaries, avoiding game-playing, and ensuring genuine interactions in today's dating scene. Miscommunication and mismatched intentions can be frustrating, but better communication and understanding can pave the way for more fulfilling connections.

Solo travel and outdoor adventures offer unique opportunities for self-exploration and community building. We share our favorite solo activities, from cocktail classes and comedy shows to spontaneous city explorations. Joining seasonal leagues and volunteering are great ways to meet new people and build community connections. Whether you're dating yourself or planning enriching activities, this episode encourages you to embrace singlehood and find humor and joy in every stage of life. Tune in, and let's celebrate the unpredictable yet rewarding journey of navigating single life and dating.

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In our 19th episode, we not only share a laugh about confusing Memorial Day with Veterans Day, but also take a moment to honor the profound significance of these dates. Huddled within the enchanting walls of Emanuela's unicorn cave, we're thrilled to bring you a conversation that's as heartfelt as it is hilarious. Join us as we navigate the often turbulent waves of personal development With every anecdote and shared experience, we aim to fortify that invaluable bridge between us and you, our listeners.

Navigating life's emotional currents can be as tricky as dodging wayward bumper cars during rush hour traffic. But fear not, for we're here to equip you with an emotional compass. In this session, I bare my soul about my quest for emotional intelligence, revealing the lessons learned from facing my father's loss and the upheaval of divorce. As we unpack the ways in which minor irritations can morph into emotional tempests, we also illuminate the path to harnessing those very emotions for growth. Therapy, reflection, and sometimes a cheeky sprinkle of humor, it's all about becoming adept at the art of emotional regulation for the sake of mental tranquility.

Finally, we address the elephant in the room—or should I say, the Sasquatch? Personal growth can shake the foundations of our relationships, prompting the metamorphosis of a "new Joel" and the bittersweet farewells to friendships that no longer serve us. It's a journey through the thorny brambles of setting boundaries and the sometimes lonely pursuit of mental well-being. But the rewards? A richer, more authentic circle of companions. We end by asking ChatGPT for "her" advice and again she ends up being the smartest cohost of us all! And just before we sign off with a nod to our AI counterparts, we extend a warm invitation: follow, text, share, and become part of our ever-growing tapestry of mythical creature banter and genuine connection.

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Ever find yourself chuckling at the thought of life's expected milestones, like having kids or finding that 'perfect' partner, only to think, "Nope, not for me"? Well, you're in good company. Emanuella and I, peel back the curtain on our own journeys, sharing the realities and revelations we've found in forging paths less traveled. From sipping hot cocoa in snowy Breckenridge to swinging hammers on Denver construction sites, we swap tales that lead us to question the modern love conundrum: Is the single, child-free life really the road less lonely?

Trust us, this isn't your run-of-the-mill relationship gabfest. We're here to unpack the nitty-gritty of non-traditional relationships, the evolving desires for companionship, and the choice to embrace a career with vigor over the white picket fence dream. Whether you're navigating the murky waters of the dating world post-divorce, or simply curious about the healthy dynamics in a child-free lifestyle, our candid conversation shines a light on the diverse ways to pursue happiness and fulfillment. And for those who've wondered about the blurred lines between friendship and romance, we're reclaiming 'situationships' as an honest, valid form of connection.

As we wrap up this heart-to-heart, don't forget to join our tribe. We're building a community where every unicorn, sasquatch, and in-betweener can find solace in shared stories and laughter. So hit that follow button, slide into our DMs, or shoot us an email. We're eager to hear your take on the beautiful, messy, and utterly human journey of finding love and contentment in a world that's constantly redefining what those even mean. Until we chat again, keep living your truth — with or without that plus one.

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Ever wondered if your pre-date social media sleuthing borders on FBI-level intrusion, or if outfit repetition is a dating faux pas? Grab a seat in our digital den at Sasquatch Studios, where Emanuela and I dissect the frolics and facepalms of first dates with a generous helping of wit and a pinch of brutal honesty. We're divulging our own dating escapades, from navigating the singles scene post-divorce to taking a breather and embracing solitude. With tales about the ghosts of relationships past that still haunt our decor to the complexities of dating multiple people, we've got you covered.

Imagine this: you're perched at the bar, early for your first date, and a pressing question bubbles up—should you order a drink or wait? Picture us trading views on this modern dilemma, along with the virtues of comfy attire and the awkward charm of running into former flames on dating apps. We pry open the can of worms that is first date etiquette, from the strategic choice of venue to the delicate dance of showing you're interested without coming off as Sherlock Holmes in disguise. Our personal anecdotes and candid banter will guide you through the minefield of pre-date preparation and post-date follow-ups.

To cap it all off, we tackle the elephant in the room: the undeniable awkwardness that shadows first encounters. We're coining quirky phrases to defuse the tension and sharing hearty laughs over the bloopers that make first dates so endearingly human. It's not just about finding 'the one'—it's about relishing the journey and the occasional stumbles along the way. Finished off by asking our favorite robot, ChatGPT, what her dating advice is, hint.. jitter-tits! So plug in, kick back, and let us whisk you through a conversation that's as enlightening as it is entertaining. Who knows, you might just emerge with a fresh perspective on how to tackle your next romantic rendezvous.

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