Every single interaction you have sends a message about how you expect to be treated. Whether you realize it or not, you’re always teaching people how to treat you. People will only treat you the way you allow them to. Boundaries aren’t just something you set—they’re the blueprint for how people engage with you. Every interaction is a lesson in what you accept, what you challenge, and what you refuse to tolerate. If you tolerate mistreatment, disrespect, or inconsistency, guess what? You just taught them that it’s okay. Silence is dangerous—if you don’t speak up, you’re sending the message that you’re fine with whatever’s happening. People will push as far as you let them, and if you’re inconsistent with your standards, they’ll test those limits over and over again. Self-respect is the foundation—if you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect anyone else to either. Saying “no” but giving in teaches people your boundaries are flexible, and once they see a crack, they’ll keep pushing. The way you handle conflict tells people exactly how far they can go with you. At the end of the day, you don’t demand respect—you show people how to give it by what you tolerate, what you walk away from, and how you hold the line.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  @coachkate1  Mental Health Coach