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Sex Work can feel isolating because of society’s shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise…
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Touring as a Sex Worker
(01:10) - My Touring History
(02:35) - But I Love Solitude
(03:25) - The Benefits of Sex Worker Communitiy
(03:55) - Familiarity on the Road
(07:15) - Dating App Entertainment
(07:50) - Keeping Motivations Front of Mind
(09:20) - Totems and Spaghetti Bolognaise
(11:10) - Touring in Doubles
(12:30) - Much Love!

A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh’s view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template’ is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question from a Sexologist on the Origin of Fetishes
(00:55) - I’m Less Academic, More Pervert
(01:45) - Avoiding Pathologising for Experiential Thrills
(04:50) - The Neurology of Foot Fetish
(05:50) - Examining Me, Eva Oh
(10:05) - What Are Desire Templates?
(10:50) - I Think We’re More Similar Than Not
(12:55) - Maybe I Should See a Sexologist?

A cute story from a #teakink Podcast listener on bondage and bubbles reminds Eva Oh of the magic and importance of play as conduit for expressing and understanding the potential of our humanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Story on Bondage and Bubbles
(01:25) - The Importance of Play in the Complexity of BDSM
(07:00) - What BDSM Can Teach Us
(09:50) - My Play Preferences
(10:18) - Play and the Potential of Our Humanity?

It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
#teakink Episode, “Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/society-is-ashamed-at-the-dinn
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Social Interactions as a Sex Worker
(00:48) - Society is Ashamed
(02:15) - Some Options
(07:40) - Encountering Shock and Horror
(09:25) - Learning the Vocabulary
(11:20) - Leaving People Behind
(11:50) - In the Uber
(14:40) - It’s What You’re Ready For
(16:00) - Dolphin Trainers

We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships
(01:18) - What I Think the Question is
(02:00) - Ways to Drive Traffic to OnlyFans
(04:15) - Sex Work as Clickbait
(06:50) - On the Sex Work PR Campaign Trail
(08:15) - Sex Worker Friendships
(12:25) - Keeping a Wider Perspective

It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work
(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon
(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding
(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session
(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries
(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path
(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries
(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)
(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It
(11:15) - My Process
(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries
(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated
(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games
(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance
(02:00) - I Prefer - Service
(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games
(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance
(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top
(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play
(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers
(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com
(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps
(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients
(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding
(02:55) - My Bias
(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size
(05:50) - Application Quality
(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands
(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session
(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions
(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer