Today I’d like to talk about surfing and what it can teach us about living our lives on purpose.
I had not surfed in ten years and eagerly looked forward to getting up at 4:30 in the morning to surf dawn patrol in Costa Rica.
Little did I know that I’d see all the lessons I’ve been learning in meditation unfold before me in the white foam of heavy surf.
As I float out there in the Pacific Ocean and watched the Costa Rican sunrise, I started to think about what we can learn from surfing and how it could influence our happiness and productivity regardless of whether or not you catch a wave.
So, today I’d like to break down six tips we can learn from surfers
1. Paddle Hard
One of the hardest things when surfing, especially if it’s a beach break and not a point break, is busting through the white foamy surf. It looks easy but duck diving under an incoming wave or turtle rolling a long board takes some serious practice.
You have to learn technique and have to keep going.
So many people never make it beyond the break and get stuck in the tremulchious white water.
Keep pushing. There is calm water beyond the struggle. There is always a blue sky above the cloudy rain.
2. Practicing Gratuity
So many people think that surfing is all about catch the wave. It’s not. It’s about gratitude and practicing a grateful mindset. Floating out there in the blue water is absolutely stunning. Watching a sunrise or sunset is always memorable and meaningfulness regardless of how many you see.
Surfers know to be grateful for the beautiful nature and know to be grateful when there is surf.
3. Patience
Before I learned to surf, I always thought surfers caught waves all day. But the truth is, most surfers spend 80% of their time just floating there, waiting for a wave to come.
You don’t have any control of whether or not a wave is going to come your way.
Yes, you could look at as much data as you want and analyze when the next swell will come, just like you could always analyze the data of you web traffic or create a business plan, but that doesn’t mean a wave is going to come your way and conditions will be great.
You have to wait. You have to stay calm. You have to stay aware.
But when that wave comes, you have to fight like hell to catch it.
4. Now is the only present
Surfers know that when a wave comes, it’s do or die. You fight like hell to catch the wave. You can’t dwell on the past. You can’t say there will be one next time. The time is now and you must catch that wave.
Fight to catch it.
5. Your wave will come. Cheer on your friends.
As a surfer, I love watching other people catch a wave. They may only be 50 feet from me and I know that if I were 50 feet to the left, I would have caught that wave, but I’m so happy to watch my fellow surfers carve a beautiful wave.
Your wave will come and your friends will cheer you one. Instead of getting upset when people ride that wave you want to ride, choose to celebrate them. We all grow a lot stronger and live a bit higher when we build each other up instead of compete to stand up and push everyone down.
6. The Wave Will End
You know that feeling. We’ve all been there. It’s where you are at the top of your game. Feeling like the king of the world. It’s where you land that job. You get that promotion. He or she says yes to your proposal.
But you also know that other feeling. The other side. When you come down from that high.
It’s great to enjoy the happiness of a win, but not so much fun to stay in the doldrom of defeat. Instead of getting caught up in emotions, recognize when an emotion arises and intentionally choose to either accept it or let it pass. Regardless, know that the teeter totter will come back. Your wave will end.
That’s only natural.
And when your wave ends, you may be back at square one — having to fight through the incredible white water surf of struggle.
The wave will end and you will fight again to get back out there. And another wave will come.
Enjoy it while it lasts. Indulge in it. Tell stories forever about the waves you rode. But know that just because a wave ends doesn’t mean there isn’t another one waiting out there for you.
So, what story could you share? When have you rode a wave? Pretend we are at a campfire and you just have to tell me this story. I’d love to hear it.