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Join me in this podcast episode as I explore the fascinating concept of play personalities by Stuart Brown and how they can enhance various aspects of our lives. I share with you the different play personalities and how they can be applied in different areas.

In this episode I discuss:

• Embracing competitive nature can drive success and achievement
• Finding joy in bringing ideas to life and seeing them through
• Taking pleasure in curating unique collections and cherishing these special items
• Making things and discovering true expression through creative endeavors
• Using imagination to tell stories and tapping into the power of storytelling.

Tune in and reflect on play personalities. Discover which one(s) resonates with you the most and embrace it fully.  By embracing our preferred ways of play, we can find joy, fulfillment, and a deeper connection to ourselves. 

Join me on this journey of self-discovery and let's unlock the power of play personalities together.

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Join me in this podcast episode as I discuss the transformative power of play. I share with you my personal experience of prioritizing play and how it helped me confront and work through many of my underlying stories and beliefs. 

Play is purposeless and provides freedom from time, allowing us to experience joy and flow. Tune in as I encourage you to embrace play, challenging you to schedule it into your calendars and reconnect with your inner child.  Remember, play is not childish or unproductive; it is essential for our well-being. 

In this episode I discuss:

• Importance of play in bringing up underlying stories and beliefs
• My personal experience of taking time off and focusing on play
• Definition of play as purposeless and providing freedom from time
• The different themes of play

The book that I referenced in this episode:

Play : How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul By Stuart Brown, MD.

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In this episode, I share with you how to detach from your goals and trust that they are already on their way. I discuss how our attachment to our goals can stem from a lack of trust, and how we can learn to trust by focusing on the evidence that our goals are already coming to us. I also talk about the importance of clarifying our goals and why it's important to have a heart's desire, not an ego desire.

Here are some key takeaways:

• Trust is the key to detaching from your goals. When you trust that your goals are already on their way, you can relax and enjoy the process.
• Clarity is essential for manifesting your goals. Declaring WHAT you want and WHY you want it is your primary task. Then, trust and surrender the rest to higher power.
• Goals that come from our heart's desires, hold a staying power unmatched by fleeting ego-driven goals.   By focusing on these heart-born dreams, we can trust that they will come and stay because they are coming from a place of love, not the ego.

Works mentioned in this episode:
Dr. Joe Dispenza

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In this episode, I share with you how we often find ourselves seeking certainty and answers, craving a sense of security and control.

However, true growth and transformation lie outside our comfort zones, in the realm of the unknown.

When we can make peace with uncertainty and lean into it, it can lead to extraordinary outcomes.  I share with you some tips on how to release the attachment to knowing the future, surrender to the present moment, and generate feelings of certainty within ourselves.

Join me as we uncover the hidden treasures that await when we embrace the unknown and learn to navigate life's uncertainties with grace and resilience.

It's time to let go of the need for all the answers and embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Tune in and discover the profound joy and fulfillment that awaits us when we courageously step into the unknown.

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Dr. Joe Dispenza

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In this episode, I define what financial abuse is and how it can show up in our relationships.

This is a topic that I believe isn’t really discussed much. 

I want to note that I am not a therapist or doctor and I’ve seen this so many times between spouses/partners, parents and their own children, and at times with adult children and their parents.  

I believe the underlying theme and belief around financial abuse comes back to control and when we are trying to control someone, what we are really feeling is fear.

Ways that financial abuse presents itself in a relationship, whether you are on the receiving or giving end (this list isn't all inclusive): 

• You have set "allowances” or “budgets” without your input.
• You are required to account for everything you spend down to the penny.
• You partner feels entitled to your money or assets.
• There is control on how all of the household finances are spent.
• There might be a limit to your ability to attend job training, pursue higher education, or otherwise advance your career, yet they are buying all the programs, coaching, business education to further themselves.
• Limits your access to your own bank account or mutual bank accounts.
• Maxes out credit cards or simply uses credit cards in your name without your knowledge.
• Threatens to cut you off financially when you disagree.
• Uses funds from children’s savings account without mutual agreement.
• Having to ask for money for basic needs.
• Not listed as an owner on the legal paperwork for assets

If you feel that you might be on the receiving end of someone who is financially abusive, you can contact the National Relationship Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233.

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In this episode, I discuss the difference I believe between financial freedom vs. financial ease.

Financial freedom is defined as having enough cash, savings and investments to pay for your living expenses for the rest of your life.   Even though some of us might match the definition of financial freedom, we don't feel ease with our money.

For some people, financial freedom can be laced with actions like hoarding, protecting and limiting the use of our funds because it is coming from a belief seeded in lack, fear and scarcity.

I want us to change the way we think and feel about our finances and experience financial ease.  Ease in our bodies when we have, grow and generate our money.  

Questions you can ask yourself:

• What are some of the beliefs that I have right now that do not create financial ease in my body?
• What are the primary feelings that I am feeling when I think about my money?
• What are some beliefs that I can adopt that will allow me to feel neutral about money?
• How do I want to feel about money?

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In this episode, I break down the difference between 3D and 5D money.

As little as 8% (some resources cite 4%) of the money in the circulation exists in physical form.  The only reason why the system doesn’t collapse is because we all collectively believe in it. 

The true value is within us, WE are what creates money.

3D Money is the physical part of money like cash, investments (401K/IRA/SEP/Roth/Mutual Funds/Stocks/ETF’s, etc), debt, taxes, etc.

5D money is our FEELINGS about it.  

Money is energy, it is a vibration that we FEEL.  List out your thoughts about money, what are some of the thoughts you consistently think about money?  How do you feel when you think about your money?  

Many of us have generated our money from lack, scarcity and fear and even though we can do this, being able to generate money from a place of love and abundance feels so.much.better.

Before we can change anything, we first get to see where we are.  

Once you have gotten clear on how you currently think and feel about money, you can decide how you actually want to feel about it and what stories are standing in your way from feeling that way now.

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In this episode I dive into the 2 types of frustration that we typically feel as a Generator.

We can feel frustration because we are acting from our not-self and not following our design.  We are forcing ourselves to do things we don't want to do and we aren't tapped into our sacral.  Basically, we are "should-ing" ourselves with our life and decisions.  

The other type of frustration that we tend to feel is called the plateau of frustration.  Feeling this type of frustration invites us to explore one of 2 things:

• We can ask ourselves, "is this the place for me to dig deeper?"  This is where we get to check in with our bodies/sacral and re-confirm that this is still in alignment for us.  If it is and we are feeling frustration, then we are on the “correct” path. 
•  Or am I no longer a yes for this, this doesn’t light me up and I am ready to pivot?  

The key here is to slow down, be present, pause and check in with your sacral, your body knows the way.

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Feeling constantly frustrated and unsatisfied with life? As a Human Design Generator, you have an innate capacity for deep satisfaction within you when you are honoring your desires and your no’s.

Join me in this episode as I share my personal journey of moving from overwhelm to fulfillment by embracing my HD Generator energy.

In this episode we’ll explore:

• What satisfaction actually feels like in your body as a Generator in Human Design
• How to recognize sources of frustration in your life
• Using frustration as a guidepost to get back on track
• Honoring your sacral response to make aligned choices
• Tips for practicing self-love and compassion along the way

By understanding your unique HD Generator tendencies, you can use frustration as your guide to show you where you are off track. My desire is to inspire you to reconnect with your natural state of satisfaction.

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In this episode I share with you how you are designed to make decisions. 

As a Generator, you either make decisions from your gut in the now, or you make decisions from your gut and then you ride your emotional wave to get to an emotional neutral.

Emotional Authority

• I dive into why it's important as an Emotional Authority to ride your wave and how time is actually your friend.  This can be difficult in the beginning because we are a society of FOMO and making quick decisions.  I believe that this is part of our work, to decondition ourselves in regard to how we have been taught to make decisions.

Sacral Authority

• If you have Sacral Authority, you are meant to make decisions in the now and I discuss why it's important for you to ask questions like "is this correct for me right now?"

• Allow yourself to have fluidity because what was a yes for your sacral could be a no at some point later down the road, and that is totally OK.  Your sacral, your soul knows this.

No matter which way you make decisions (Emotional or Sacral Authority), it's important that you ask yourself yes/no questions or have someone you trust asking you yes or no questions. 

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