Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design

In this episode, I share with you how I believe the 1% is underrated and we don't celebrate it enough.

Often times, we have these BIG goals and we might want to fantasize about the huge leaps and bounds that we will experience.  This is natural, I've done this so many times.  We do this because it gives us the dopamine hit.

What we aren't practiced with is the celebration of our micro actions (the 1%).  When we consistently show up for ourselves, for our goals and our dreams, our actions compound over time.  

This is the work that most people don't talk about.  This work takes discipline and commitment.  It involves staying true to ourselves and being focused.  This isn't "sexy" work.  It won't hit the highlight reels of Instagram:)  

And yet, this is the difference for those that achieve their dreams and those that don't.

The 1% IS enough, and I believe it's actually everything.

So where are you already doing the 1% and how can you celebrate yourself more?

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In this episode I discuss: What Makes You A Generator?

The short answer is:  You have a defined sacral center; you have no connection between a motor and the throat.  And, you are meant to RESPOND to what life brings you, not initiate.

In my life, I acted like a manifestor for about 20 years.  I didn’t know any better or different.  I used to think something was wrong with me because I was initiating and exerting myself to create the life I wanted but I was burnt out, frustrated and unfulfilled.

It wasn’t until I learned about Human Design that I learned I was acting the exact opposite of my design!  

Human Design is a combo of the Chinese I Ching, Jewish Kabbalah, the Hindu Chakra System and Quantum Physics.  I use it as a tool in my life to live a more aligned life to who I truly am, honor my gifts, my wisdom and to let go of my conditioning. 

I ONLY use Human Design and any other tool for that matter to further empower me.  So you’ll hear me say this all the time, take what resonates and leave the rest.  

As a Generator, we have a tremendous amount of energy.  We are designed to work and do things we love.  When we are doing work we love, we can go for hours and hours, something comes alive within us.      

So how do you know if you are doing the right kind of work and living in alignment with who you truly are?  

You can ask yourself the following questions:

• “Am I excited to go to work every day?”
• “Do I have the Sunday night blues?”
• “Do I feel drained most days?”
• “Am I frustrated most of the time?”

The first step is awareness.  Once you know that you've gotten off track, it's no problem.  It's the first step to getting back.

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In this episode, I share with you how I have compromised myself for money.  Choosing jobs and staying in jobs based on money was how I lived a large portion of my life. I worked in jobs I wasn’t a hell yes for because they paid really well.   I thought that if I could just make the money and save the money, then at some point in the future, I could actually LIVE how I wanted to live.  

There's a term called the golden handcuffs and I have made decisions strictly from money, not from my sacral.  If this resonates with you, I want to give yourself some grace.  Guilt and shame have no purpose here.  Awareness is where your power lies.   

It wasn't until learning about Human Design that I realized I had it all backwards.  As a Generator, we are supposed to do work we love and when we do work we love, the money comes easier, and our life is more fulfilling.  

Questions to ask yourself to turn on your sacral and get into your body:

• If I had 100 million dollars, would I continue to stay in this job?
• If I had 100 million dollars, would I keep prolonging going after my soul’s desires?
• If I had 100 million dollars, would I start the business that I’ve been thinking about for months/years?
• If I had 100 million dollars, would I stay in this marriage?
• If I had 100 million dollars, would I take 6 months-1 year off and give myself time and space?

I use the if "I had 100 million dollars" in front of asking the question, because for me, it’s easy to turn on my sacral when I throw that in there because I am not in my head.  It removes the money block for me because I have been so conditioned around money.  As always, do what feels good for you.  Take what resonates and leave the rest.

Work mentioned in this episode:

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks

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In this episode, I share with you how I want each of us to think about money.

Most of us have been conditioned to think and feel about money in a scarce way.

My intention for each of you is to develop a loving relationship with money because it really is a mirror to how we see ourselves and how we show love both for ourselves and others.  

I want you to think about money like your best friend.  I also understand that each of you may not be able to jump to that place, and that’s OK.  I couldn’t do it in the beginning.  I was in such scarcity, fear, hypervigilance and also avoidance.

In this episode I discuss:

• Going from scarcity to sufficiency to ultimately abundance and what that feels like in your body
• When was the last time you paid attention to money and how do you think and feel about money when you have it, use it, generate it, etc?
• If you think about money like you would your best friend (or a complete stranger if you can't jump to thinking about money yet like it's your BFF), what would you say about it?  What would it say about you? 

There is no right or wrong here.  It is the PRACTICE of getting you to slow down and actually FEEL what you are feeling in your body when you are handling, having, using, saving and generating your money.

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