In Episode 8, Ashley takes you to a Southern back porch—birdsong, sweat, and all—to talk about what’s new in the lesbian world and what’s stirring in our hearts. From Maren Morris stepping into her queer truth to Meryl Streep’s daughter Louisa Jacobson coming out, Ashley shares the joy of “new and notable lesbians” making headlines.

She also dives into a listener question on sapiosexuality, breaking down what it really means to be attracted to intelligence—and how that plays out in lesbian dating. Ashley gets real about the challenges of finding community in the South, facing fears of putting yourself out there, and why sometimes the bravest thing is simply showing up.

Finally, she opens up about navigating old family triggers, healing childhood wounds, and learning how to regulate your nervous system in tough moments. Through humor, honesty, and a little sweat, Ashley reminds us that we can rewrite old patterns with compassion—and that community, love, and hope are always worth the effort.

✨ Highlights:

• Maren Morris & Louisa Jacobson: new queer voices to celebrate.
• What sapiosexuality really means—and why apps make dating harder for some.
• The fear (and necessity) of seeking community, especially in conservative areas.
• Facing old family patterns with compassion and breaking the cycle.

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Hey y'all! It's your Southern Lesbian, Ashley Hydrick, coming to you from my car in the parking lot of Goodwill. Desperate times call for desperate measures, but I just had to check in with you all.

In this special Pride Month episode, I share a bit about my recent family vacation in the South (and the challenges of finding a quiet spot to record!)

We dive into some of the exciting things happening in lesbian pop culture right now, with shoutouts to amazing artists like Billie Eilish, Chappell Roan, Fletcher, Renee Rapp, Kehlani (who was pointed out after publish date!) and the much-missed King Princess.

We'll also chat about the hilarious show Hacks and its fantastic representation of the lesbian community. Plus, I’ll share some tips on finding and building community, whether you're in a bustling city or a small town.

And for my solo travelers out there, I encourage you to take the plunge and enjoy the empowering experience of a solo vacation. Whether you're dining alone, visiting a museum, or exploring a new city, there’s so much to gain from stepping out of your comfort zone.

Happy Pride Month to all my friends in London and around the world! Let's celebrate our beautiful community and continue to support and uplift each other. Thank you for your wonderful comments and messages—they mean the world to me.

Stay brave, stay proud, and I'll see y'all next time!

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Welcome back, y’all! In Episode 13 of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley talks about the film Driveaway Dolls (no, not Driveway Dolls as she hilariously mentioned last week) and gives her take on this quirky dark comedy with some lesbian action. Directed by Ethan Coen and co-written by wife (and lesbian!) Tricia Cooke, Ashley dives into the representation (or lack thereof) of lesbians in film today and why it's so important to have real lesbian voices both in front of and behind the camera.

She also throws out the idea of doing a watch party for the film and seeks your input on how to make it happen—because community is key, y’all! Plus, she gets real about feeling out of control in life, sharing some personal experiences and offering advice on how to reclaim your own sense of direction.

This week’s deep dive includes some powerful thoughts on staying positive in tough times and embracing the uncomfortable, with tips on tapping into what lights you up. Ashley reminds us all to plan for joy and shares how we can take control by making small, intentional moves toward what we truly want.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments—Ashley loves hearing from you all!

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In Episode 14, host Ashley Hydrick dives deep into the complexities of dating as a mature lesbian, focusing on emotional availability and intentionality. Ashley shares candid stories from her own dating life, emphasizing the importance of not settling—even when the dating pool offers attractive, but emotionally unavailable partners. She reflects on her personal growth, six years of therapy, and how meditation helped her release emotional baggage from past relationships.

Ashley also discusses the significance of creating a realistic "partner list"—qualities you're looking for in a partner—without being overly picky, and how to handle the allure of emotionally unavailable women (especially if they're great kissers!). She talks about how alcohol and casual dating shaped earlier years, contrasting that with her current, more intentional approach to love.

Ashley’s honesty about her journey offers guidance for those who are re-entering the dating scene, particularly in midlife, and encourages viewers to be brave enough to choose partners that align with their values and emotional needs.

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In Episode 15, Ashley explores the world of lesbian meetups, pride events, and LGBTQ+ spaces—whether you’re in a big city like London or tucked away in a smaller, conservative town. She shares personal stories from both the South and London, plus practical tips on how to find your people.

✨ Highlights:

• Creative ways to connect through Pride, sports, workshops, and queer-friendly spots.
• How apps, online groups, and TikTok hashtags can uncover hidden LGBTQ+ communities.
• The power of volunteering and staying curious to meet like-minded women.

October’s theme is all about finding your people—so if you’re looking for love, friendship, or community, this one’s for you. 🌈

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In this episode of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley Hydrick dives back into the exciting world of lesbian dating and how to meet women in all kinds of places. Picking up from last week, Ashley gives you 10 more ways to find love (or at least a fun date)! From LGBTQ cruises to book clubs, drag theater, pottery classes, and even spiritual communities, there's something here for everyone. Of course there's a bit of her signature humor, chat of her "woo woo witchy" side, and encourages you to get brave, be curious, and dive into new experiences. Whether you're looking to expand your social circle or find that special someone to snuggle with this fall, you're covered!

Get ready to take notes and manifest your perfect meet-cute moment! Don’t miss this hilarious and heartfelt episode that’s packed with practical tips, a touch of spirituality, and a whole lot of love for the LGBTQ community.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome back and recap of last week

02:30 – Tip #11: LGBTQ cruises (Olivia Cruises, anyone?)

https://www.olivia.com

06:15 – Tip #12: Attending drag shows and LGBTQ theater

https://www.outfest.org/

11:00 – Tip #13: Crafting classes for hands-on connections

13:50 – Tip #14: Lesbian book clubs – real or virtual

https://www.gaystheword.co.uk/

18:40 – Tip #15: Finding LGBTQ-friendly spiritual communities

https://agapelive.com/

A google search of "gay-friendly church or spiritual center" pulls up so many options!

23:10 – Tip #16: Hiking and outdoor adventures with MeetUp

27:45 – Tip #17: LGBTQ film festivals and screenings

https://www.outfest.org/

33:00 – Tip #18: Lesbian sporting events – soccer, softball, and basketball

38:40 – Tip #19: Embracing social media (Lesbian TikTok, anyone?)

44:10 – Closing thoughts and encouragement

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🌈 Dear Aubrey, for Christmas I would like… a wife. Gorgeous, funny, kind, witty, healthy, and moving at my pace, please and thank you.

In this episode of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley sits down with LA-based Intuitive Coach, spiritual guide, and quantum life mentor Aubrey Kapree (@its.your.universe) to talk about what it really takes to call in healthy love – and why so many of us keep attracting the same woman in a different outfit.

From quantum mechanics to childhood trauma, from triggers to twin flames, this one goes full woo-woo in the best possible way.

You’ll hear us get into:

• How our perception and unhealed wounds “project” the reality we experience in love
• Why your dating patterns are often your inner child and family dynamics in disguise
• The difference between healthy intuition and trauma responses on a date
• Triggers as teachers, not enemies – and how to use them to heal instead of spiral
• Why communication, transparency, and boundaries are non-negotiable in grown-ass relationships
• U-Haul lesbians, moving too fast, and how to slow things down long enough to really see someone
• Why you are already whole – and how that changes who you choose and how you love

Aubrey also shares her own journey with spiritual awakenings, all the clairs, and how doing deep inner work actually amplified her gifts instead of numbing them out.

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Aubrey is offering 50% off a first-time one-on-one session for Your Southern Lesbian listeners.

In your session, she can help you:

• Identify blocks in love, life, or your spiritual path
• Understand why certain patterns keep repeating
• Receive intuitive guidance and practical next steps

To book:

• Follow and DM Aubrey on Instagram: @its.your.universe
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Whether you’re in London, Los Angeles, Charleston, or somewhere in between, this one’s especially for the femmes, the soft studs, the U-Haul romantics, and every Gen-X lesbian who’s ready to stop repeating the same old story and start manifesting a healthier Mrs Right.

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Welcome back, y'all! I'm Ashley, Your Southern Lesbian, and I’m thrilled to have you here for yet another fun episode. This week, we continue our journey of discovering places to meet other women-loving-women. In the last two episodes, we gave y'all a bunch of suggestions, and today, we're bringing you ten more! From the infamous Dinah Shore Weekend in Palm Springs to quirky speed dating stories and lesbian supper clubs, there's something for everyone.

Here's a sneak peek of today's topics:

Dinah Shore Weekend: Lesbians, pool parties, and debauchery in the desert!

https://thedinah.com

Brandi Carlile's Girls Just Wanna Weekend: Music, beach vibes, and community in Mexico.

https://www.girlsjustwannaweekend.com

Lesbian Speed Dating: Hilarious stories from my own awkward experience.

LGBTQ Choirs & Karaoke Nights: Sing your way into someone’s heart!

Mature Lesbian Retreats: Finding community at all stages of life.

Lesbian Supper Clubs & Vegan Cooking Classes: Bond over food and laughter.

Whether you're ready to explore your local lesbian scene or looking for fun travel ideas, today’s episode is packed with tips and stories to inspire you to get out there and meet your people.

And don’t forget—head over to our TikTok page, Your Southern Lesbian, where we’ve got a lively community in the comments section!

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Happy Halloween, y'all! We're in our final week of our October theme of 40 Ways to meet other lesbians.

This week's list includes:

Gaming groups: Lesbian gaming communities and online platforms.

Dance classes: Salsa, ballroom, and other dance classes.

Networking events: LGBTQ+ business networking.

Gardening groups: Queer women's gardening groups and community gardens.

Political activism: Getting involved in LGBTQ+ causes and campaigns.

Comedy nights: Attending LGBTQ+ comedy shows and events.

Adult education courses: Taking classes and workshops.

Photography groups: Joining nature or architecture photography groups.

Dog walking: Meeting other lesbians at dog parks and walking groups.

Horseback riding: Participating in horseback riding lessons or trail rides.

Game nights: Hosting or attending lesbian game nights.

Ashley mentions Esther Perel’s conversation starter card game “Where Should We Begin?”:

https://www.amazon.com/ESTHER-PEREL-Where-Should-Stories/dp/B0BSFVNHQW/ref=asc_df_B0BSFVNHQW/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693445938638&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7490866596980110532&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1015254&hvtargid=pla-1989460012994&psc=1&mcid=90bf14cf03973cb786d80559d3e5cd62

Halloween parties: Attending LGBTQ+ Halloween events and parties.

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In Episode 19, host Ashley Hydrick returns to talk about the real challenges of lesbian dating, sharing lessons learned and practical advice on overcoming fear, building courage, and recognizing red flags. After hearing from the community, Ashley dives into the hurdles many face in dating due to the fear of getting hurt and how her personal growth journey has transformed her dating life. She reflects on the concept that "like attracts like," and shares how self-work, setting boundaries, and stepping out of her comfort zone helped her attract healthier relationships. Tune in for a blend of humor, wisdom, and that Southern charm as Ashley breaks down how self-love and courage are keys to finding genuine connection.

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