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Dear Complaints Team

I have been left feeling disappointed, anxious and upset about the treatment of my case and the Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control I have suffered....

I first reported my perpetrator on the 31st of January (Year removed) I have gotten nowhere (we are now in June). The Police Force hasn’t taken my case seriously, and I haven’t been treated with dignity and respect. I fully understand there is an issue with manpower, and workloads are high. But people have a responsibility, especially when they are dealing with someone else’s life, someone else’s feelings and mental well-being. I am a person, not a case file being passed around an office.

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"The Stress Awareness Month

Stress and poor mental health are one of the biggest public health challenges that we’re facing. Sadly, even though that is the case, we are still not taking its impact seriously enough. We continue to separate mental health from physical health and vice versa. The reality is they cannot be separate – they are two sides of the same coin. There is no health without mental health and stress can lead to numerous health problems. From physical problems, like heart disease, insomnia, digestive issues, immune system challenges, etc to more serious mental health disorders such as anxiety and depression.

Stress Awareness Month has been held every April since 1992 to raise awareness of the causes and cures for our modern-day stress epidemic. It is the time when we have an opportunity for an open conversation on the impact of stress. Dedicated time to removing the guilt, shame, and stigma around mental health. To talk about stress, and its effects and open up about our mental and emotional state with friends, families, colleagues, and professionals."

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Goals Exercise

How to attract health, healthy relationships, money etc

In your Journal:

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"It's me, hi

I'm the problem, it's me."

Everybody agrees everybody agrees….

We all know those lyrics so well.

I never thought they would mirror my life in a strange and twisted way.

When I fled domestic abuse and coercive control, I was referred by the Police to a Domestic Abuse Charity for a non-molestation order. Unfortunately, that Charity gave my perpetrator my new address in a data protection breach and… blamed the error on me.

The song now sings

"It's you, hi

You're the problem, it's you."

(actually, nobody agrees….)

Victim blaming was the last thing I expected from a charity, especially one that educates others about the detrimental effect of victim blaming.

Well, isn't it ironic, don't you think?

This has been going on for years now.

I experienced feelings of unmanageable despair when I first found out. Their mistake caused a plethora of issues, and in turn, I had to agree to undertakings and drop the non-molestation order against my will.

Their responses made me feel physically unwell. I had been so careful not to tell anyone my new address, even friends, to keep safe. I find it unbelievable that a Domestic Abuse Charity meant to protect domestic abuse victims is victim blaming.

How can a traumatised victim's job be to ensure their personal information is not handed out? This Charity deals with incredibly vulnerable adults and has a duty of care. There must be procedures where the victim is asked if their perpetrator knows their address. No one ever asked me, which is why I stressed it so much.

Does this mean that if the domestic abuse victim didn't specify to withhold the personal information, the Charity would hand it out?

How could this Charity make a presumption that the perpetrator knows the new address?

I fired these questions at them and my solicitors. I wanted answers and never got any.

Even if I thought I mentioned it and didn't, they should still be held accountable for not asking. Unfortunately, their mistake impacted my case, and I have to live with this now. What makes the situation even more unbearable is that they behave like a perpetrator. They have made me feel like a problem, not a person.

When my address was given away, I did not run to the doctors to be prescribed anti-depressants. I was actually criticised for not taking them. I stood by my judgement, and I wouldn't budge. I was told because of MY actions, there was no evidence their error had a psychological effect on me. The only way to prove I was psychologically impacted was to agree to have a psychiatric assessment.

On Wednesday, the 22nd of March, I was assessed.

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Meditation Is Key

Why is meditation so important? Meditation can help relax the body, promote healing, aid memory, help come up with original ideas, change your perspective, change your mindset and connect us to the Universe. Meditation is Magical and can help transform our lives. Meditation helps keep the mind healthy, uncluttered and working to the best of its ability.

Concerning our health, meditation can:

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We Are All Made of Star Dust

In the 1980s, a theory came to light in a thirteen-part television series called "Cosmos" aired on PBS. It was hosted by an astronomer named Carl Sagan, who spoke about science and history-related topics on the Earth, its evolution, life's origin, and the solar system.

Carl Sagan (1934 – 1996)

American astronomer

Humans, animals and other forms of life are created of carbon, nitrogen, and oxygen atoms and atoms of all other heavy elements. These elements were first created in starts over four and a half billion years ago. Therefore we are literally made of Star Dust, or Star Stuff, as Chris Impey, a professor of astronomy at the University of Arizona, would put it.

The knowledge that we are created out of the same materials as the beautiful stars themselves, made in the image of God/Divine/Spirit/Universe, and all connected is an inspiration in itself. Moreover, we can tap into this infinite energy through various points in our bodies called Chakras.

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“You're the average of the five people youspend the most time with.”

Jim Rohn(1930 – 2009)

American Entrepreneur, Author and Motivational speaker.

When you start changing your life, you will notice the people in your life will change too. Sometimes our closest friends end up in a different place than us, and we drift apart. But, if it is meant to be, they will return. I have found this on several occasions when I am in a very different place from others. At first, I had trouble accepting this, but then I realised that if I wanted to change my future, the people around me needed to change too.

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This week I have been fighting some old narratives... The ones around being a single mum and the ones around the business.

I have been working through the masterclasses on the Freedom Era platform. As a result, I have started to question everything I have done in the past around business. 

I have started many businesses in the past, and they have failed because I didn't know what I was doing. I also questioned how a cottage business could compete with larger stores and their "professional" look and marketing strategies. I wondered how to design websites and everything that goes into business. 

What I love about my business now is that it is based around me. I don't have to have a "professional" look. I am the brand, and I just need to be me. The Freedom Era is a global community that has opened the doors with whom I choose to connect. It is a community of conscious entrepreneurs who are committed to bringing forth a change in how we do business and life.

I will never return to a job where I work for someone else. I will not build a dream that isn't mine. I am empowered to create more freedom of choice and time!

The Freedom Era not only shows you how to build your own business, but there is an offer to be a part of a sustainable business model that allows you to partner with an offer they recommend.

If you want to build an authentic personal brand and learn how to leverage social media to create a thriving online income and community of kindred souls, DM me 

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The Sun

DEBT HELLI had £20,000 debt wiped by bank after abusive ex-partner took out loans in my name

The Sun

'PSYCHOLOGICAL TORTURE' My abusive ex pawned my wedding ring, landed me with £80k debt and told me a double suicide was the only way out  

Natalie Curtis, Survivor Ambassador

Natalie is an inspiring and effective campaigner and activist who has worked with Women’s Aid for several years to help raise awareness of coercive control and it’s devastating impact.

Natalie was successful in securing an arrest, charge and conviction for coercive control after a six year relationship with a controlling and coercive partner. She credits the conviction and restraining order with allowing her time to heal and to rebuild her future.

Natalie says “The main reason for me to talk about what happened is I suffered so alone I became ill, and I don’t want people to get to that stage. Nobody is alone. There’s lots of support out there.”

NHS: How to get help for Domestic violence and abuse

Womens Aid 

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I think I have driven a few friends mad lately with this!

Recently I have had recurring dreams and signs that I will win the Lotto. 

The last few days, I have had SO many shifts around money. I have felt things come up that I didn't even know existed. Our subconscious mind is responsible for many things, including our belief system. I thought I had worked through many money blockages when I wrote my book, but this is on another level. I had never questioned my relationship with money to the extent I had done when I thought I would win large sums. 

I had so much fear that: 

+ Money would change me 

+ My friends and family would not be happy with the amounts I gifted them 

+ I had to give the money away the moment it hit the bank 

+ I would lose control and spend it all in a year 

+ I would lose all of my family and friends 

+ It would cause arguments. 

The list was endless. 

I decided to journal what I felt, and then I slowly started seeing where everything stemmed from. Finally, it all went back to my conditioning. The source of my programming.

I have been so lucky to have discovered the Freedom Era. This platform helps you build a thriving business and has countless workshops and masterclasses designed to support you. Working through the Money Mindset classes over the last couple of days has helped me process and recondition my old belief system. 

Winning the Lotto seemed terrifying because I didn't believe I was worthy. Also, I couldn't imagine "holding" that amount of money. I have always been in debt for most of my life, so feeling in abundance seemed alien to me. Then there was all that fear! I felt like I couldn't be given money! I used to find it difficult to accept a coffee from someone. Receiving was a new skill I had to learn, and I learnt it from having Harrison. I never used to have any money, so when he was first born, people kindly gifted me clothes and other items. 

So if I wasn't ready to win large sums of money.... Was I ready to earn it? You don't have to win the Lotto to become a millionaire. Money is money. 

Over the last few days, I have worked through what I learnt from my parents regarding money. 

+ What was my environment like between the ages of birth to seven, and what language was used to describe money? 

+ What beliefs around money have I had for my adult years? 

+ What has been the primary money theme in my life? 

+ Do I believe I deserve money and to spend it on myself? 

+ What words do I use to describe money? 

+ How do I speak to money? 

+ And if money was a person, what would our relationship look like? 

As for winning the Lotto, it could have all been a metaphor. My brain could have been telling me to let go of old beliefs that no longer serve me. I guess I need to buy a ticket to find out! I'm now ready to win!