In this week’s episode, I am discussing the personal responsibility we have as women to CHOOSE the men we are with. Many women tend to believe that they are somehow obligated to accept a man that is attracted to them. They hear people say, “like attracts like” and to some extent this is true. We are all energetic beings that are putting out certain frequencies based on our thoughts and beliefs. We tend to draw to us people who are in the same “frequency” as us.

I also believe that we will attract all kinds of people in all kinds of frequencies for all kinds of reasons. Just because someone shows up doesn’t mean we have to engage with them or accept them. I want every woman that I work with to be fully in her “feminine power” so that she can vet and qualify every man and determine if he meets her standards and requirements.

You get to choose the man you are with. You get to choose who will be the father of your children. You get to choose who you will marry. This is why it’s so important that you CHOOSE WELL!  I wrote a book to help you to determine who the best man will be for you. You can get a copy of it over on Amazon right HERE.

In this week’s episode, I wanted to talk about why so many women seem to struggle with letting go and moving on from people and relationships that aren’t good for them. Learning to let go or “surrender” is the key, I believe, to having real success in relationships and in life. I, myself, am still on this journey of mastering “letting go” of what no longer serves me. I will often get lost in the “weeds” of “would have, should have, could have” when I think about past events.

Remember this, nothing has meaning unless we give it. This is often how I educate people on doing EGO work. One thing we as humans don’t want to come to terms with is that everyone is acting as a mirror. They are reflecting back to us what we need to address within ourselves. When we find ourselves attracting and engaging with the same type of man, over and over and over again, there is a lesson there that we haven’t quite learned yet! We are getting the chance to take the test again in order to pass it.

Here are a few tips on how to “surrender” or “let go” of a specific man, a relationship or a past trauma that has happened in your life. If you want to make room for what you WANT, then you must be willing to let go of what you DON’T WANT!

If you want more information on learning to let go, check out Dr. David R. Hawkins book “Letting Go- The Pathway To Surrender”.

You can get a copy of my new book “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” on Amazon!

 

In this week’s episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing Janice Formichella of the Ex- Philes Podcast. Janice Formichella is a breakup coach, writer, and co-host of The Ex-Philes podcast. She supports individuals who are struggling with the pain and confusion of a broken heart to turn their breakup into a magical opportunity. With a focus on overcoming loneliness and living a desire-led life, she works with people to become passionate about being their own soulmates and using solo time as a superpower.

We discussed her personal journey with overcoming loneliness and how she turned this into her superpower! I have always believed that if we can become our own best friends, then we can come from a place of power when looking to partner with a good masculine man, instead of coming from a place of desperation and neediness.

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Instagram: @janiceformichella , @exphilespodcast

Podcast: The Ex-Philes

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In this week’s episode of the podcast, I am sharing a DM that I received from a follower on Instagram. It is a cautionary tale of what happens when you forfeit your vetting system and rely completely on your “feelings” for a man. This is one trait that I see women do over and over again! They focus on how they FEEL about a man, and not on his character, morals, and values. When we project our on hopes and dreams onto a man, we are blind to who he really is and if he can actually have the relationship we want to have.

Remember ladies, what you want and need MATTERS! You need to vet and qualify every single man that wants to engage you so that you don’t wind up breaking your OWN heart. Do the work on the front end so that you can actually enjoy the relationship on the back end.

Have you gotten your copy of my NEW book “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” yet? It’s out now and available on Amazon.

 

In this week’s episode of the podcast, I had the pleasure of talking with Okoye Ahmose of the Elderly Advice podcast and YouTube Channel. He is giving women of all ages “grown man wisdom” about love, dating and relationships. Okoye states “many of the young men and women today don’t have any older relatives or people to guide them in their lives. My advice a mature man is much appreciated today”. We discussed the importance subject of “female leverage”; what is it and how important it is for you ladies to keep it! I’m always talking to my feminine ladies about your “feminine power” in dating and relationships and this is very similar. Take a listen to this week’s episode and please tell me your thoughts in the comments!

You can get a copy of Okoye’s book, “How To Train A Man Like A Dog To Be The Man You Want” on Amazon by clicking the link HERE. 

Check out Okoye’s podcast, Elderly Advice 100 on YouTube HERE.

You can get my NEW follow-up book, “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” on Amazon right now!

In this week’s episode, I wanted to discuss all the ways your EGO may be ruining your chances at finding and keeping real love in your life. If you desire to be married and have a family one day, it is critical that you do the EGO work necessary to sustain this. We all need to learn how to get out of our OWN way at times and doing EGO work will help you to tame this part of yourself so you’re not walking around easily offended or prideful. Here is a book that I recommend you check out on dealing with the EGO. It’s called “The Untethered Soul- The Journey Beyond Yourself” by Michael Singer and it’s truly changed my life!

Check out my new book “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” on Amazon today!

In this week’s episode, I wanted to talk about ten ways to get a man to cherish and respect you. Remember, we “feminine energy” women require cherishing and devotion before respect. When we feel truly cherished by a man, we will naturally feel respected. Take a listen and let me know your thoughts about this week’s episode.

If you are exclusively dating, in a committed relationship, engaged or married, get a copy of my latest book “DO WELL! A Feminine Womens Guide To Relationship Success” out on Amazon now!

In this week’s episode, I got a chance to sit down with Alison Wellington of Align with Alison on Instagram. She has a great platform there and always has such creative content. She is giving you ladies some of her best tips for navigating the dating world in 2022. Alison believes in utilizing not just organically meeting men but using dating apps as well! She’s going to give you some much needed guidance on getting the best out of your dating profile and how to “sell” yourself online! Take a listen to this episode and let me know what you think!

A certified dating and relationship coach, Alison Wellington has been counseling clients for over 10 years. Most recently, due to her own love story, Alison has decided to dedicate her talents to work directly with singles age 30+ who are looking for guidance in finding the partner she deserves.

Please connect and follow Alison here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alignwithalison/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR6O-4ATvsYpa8rYq8HdVlg

Website: https://bookalison.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlignWithAlison

Divine Alignment Retreat for Women: https://www.the2222tour.com/

Please use the code ALISON for 10% off of your ticket to this event!

You can get the brand NEW book, “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” on Amazon right now!

In this week’s podcast episode, I am joined by Khadijah Tishan, a licensed therapist, on the importance of women supporting men’s mental health. For all of my ladies out there who are in a relationship, engaged or married to a man, I want you to listen up! We discussed the stigma of men getting the mental health help that they need (often when they are about to implode) and how you can assess a man’s metal health when dating. I have not discussed this important topic yet on the podcast, but we are talking about it today. Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

Khadijah Tishan is an author, speaker, licensed therapist and founder of REAL Healing Center. She offers clinical training and education around healing trauma. Her mission is compassionate collective healing.  Since releasing her first book “REAL- Radical Empathic Acceptance of Life, How to Live and Serve Abundantly” in 2020, she continues to challenge the world around the impact of trauma, culture, grief and compassion.

Khadijah has been featured on the African History Network, Radio One, and the CW. Khadijah’s latest online course “FEAR; A Healing Journey” challenges your ideas around trauma, grief, and compassion to create our personal narrative of healing.  This sacred space for women seeking to strengthen their roots in love and compassion.

Please connect and follow Khadijah here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/khadijahtishan/

Join The Course: https://khadijahtishanconsultation-realsessions.as.me/FEAR2

Buy The Book: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Empathic-Acceptance-Life-Abundantly/dp/1734357401

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/khadijahtishan

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/khadijah-tishan-a13787106/

The NEW book is out on Amazon! Head on over and grab your copy of “DO WELL! A Feminine Womans Guide To Relationship Success” today!

In this week’s episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing Yonci of @Chasing Yonci on Instagram. Yonci is a Mindset Coach disguised as a dating coach. She helps “hopeless romantic” women of faith enjoy dating without being emotional wrecks. She is a powerful woman of faith who is talking today about “The Spirit of Desperation” that many single women have and why this keeps them from being happy during their single season. Take a listen and let me know your thoughts!

Please connect and follow Yonci here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasingyonci/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ChasingYonci

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chasingyonci

Website: https://www.chasingyonci.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/chasingyonci

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