In this week’s episode, I wrapped up “Man Crush Month” with a discussion with George Hines Jr. of Wholeness University on Instagram. We had a wonderful conversation about faith and healthy femininity for women. Many are familiar with the Proverbs 31 woman, but we go a little bit deeper than that in this conversation. Whether you are a faith filled Christian believer or not, I think you will find something of value in this week’s episode!

George Hines Jr. is the Professor of Wholeness. He is happily married to his amazing wife MeKayla Jene Hines. George is from Rutherfordton, North Carolina and graduated from North Carolina A&T State University with a degree in finance. He is the author of “Strong Boys, Fragile Men” and a proponent for abstaining before marriage.

Please connect and follow George here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgehinesjr/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/georgehinesjr

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/george.j.hines

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-hines-jr-090a71103/

My brand new book “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” will be out on February 14th, just in time for Valentine’s Day! Head on over to Amazon to pre-order your copy TODAY!

In this week’s episode, we are continuing with another amazing male dating coach, Barry Selby. He specializes in masculine and feminine energy so this was a very exciting episode for me! Barry talks all about the importance of women reclaiming and maintaining their feminine power, especially in their relationships with men. You will hear what I’ve been speaking of for years but from a male perspective. Let me know what you think about our conversation in the comments. Enjoy!

Barry Selby is a best-selling author, spiritual guide, sought-after inspirational speaker and relationship attraction expert. He a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He helps women own and express their feminine magnificence in love, and in the world. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology and 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.

Please connect and follow Barry here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/barryselby

Website: https://www.barryselby.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/barryselby

Clubhouse: @barryselby

Twitter: https://twitter.com/barryselby

 

 

In this week’s episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing Kev Hick. I discovered Kev Hick on YouTube about two years ago and loved the simplistic style of his videos. He is a dating and relationship coach that also happens to be married, which is pretty uncommon in the male dating expert arena.

If you can handle a no nonsense approach to dating in today’s modern world, then you will LOVE Kev Hick! He made a video on his YouTube Channel entitled “The Number One Thing Men Want From Women and Five Ways To Give It To Them”. I loved the video so much, we decided to do today’s podcast episode on it. Take a listen and let me know what you think!

Please connect and follow Kev Hick of Girl Talk With Guys.com here:

Instagram: @kevhick24

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/KevHickTalksGuyswithGirls/videos

Website: https://www.girltalkwithguys.com/category/health/

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KevHick

Anchor Podcast: https://anchor.fm/kev-hick-talks-guys-with-girls

You can order my NEW book, “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” over on Amazon.

Welcome back ladies!! Happy New Year! I was thankful for the break I took during the month of December from the podcast as it helped me to relax and reset. I also had a chance to work on my latest book, coming out in February (just in time for Valentine’s Day) entitled “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success”. You can pre-order that book by clicking the link below!

I wanted to make this brief podcast episode to encourage everyone on their feminine level-up journey for this year. We need to continue to keep GROWING and becoming the very best we can be. Don’t be afraid to make the changes necessary to have the life you want and deserve. This year, it’s all about self-worth, self-respect, self-love, and self-esteem! This is where I believe your work lies.

Because I want to empower every woman that I work with, I always make it about THEM and no one else. I want you to believe that YOU have everything you need inside of you to have an amazing life. You just need to believe this. Keep growing, keep learning, keep striving for the best and that is what you will have. Believe it!😉

 

 

In this week’s episode, I want to address the ways that single moms may be unknowingly creating men in the world that they wouldn’t want to date or marry. While I strongly believe that a feminine woman cannot develop healthy masculinity in their sons, I do believe that a mom can show her son what feminine women like and how to please them.

When your son turns 11 or 12 years old, it’s time for you to scale back the nurturing, coddling, and enabling and start to have EXPECTATIONS of your son to behave like a young gentleman. You should start to instill responsibility in him for himself first, and for others second. This includes learning how to cook, clean up after himself, wash his own clothes, clean his room, and do other male-oriented chores around the house.

It’s also a good idea to teach him how to be chivalrous and a protector. He can open your door when you are walking into a building, and he can order for you in a restaurant or pull out your chair. Remember, what your son needs most during this time is your PRAISE and APPRECIATION for doing these things. That is the currency of healthy masculine men.

Lastly, make every effort to find him a few healthy masculine role models; men in the community that can mentor him. He will need to see other men and how they live to get a sense of what healthy masculinity is.

The new book “DO WELL! A Feminine Woman’s Guide To Relationship Success” is finally available for pre-order on Amazon! You can click HERE to pre-order your copy on Kindle today!

In this week’s episode, I wanted to address some of the most recent celebrity dramas involving relationships. This was a very sad past week for romantic relationships gone wrong! I am speaking on the Dababy/ Danileigh debacle and on the horrific video assault of Kristen Evans by her ex-boyfriend Zac Stacy. I will also include Jason Derulo and the split from his girlfriend Jena Frumes.

Ladies, this is where art imitates life, or maybe it’s the other way around. But there are so many lessons here for all of us! Who you choose to be with romantically MATTERS! And especially who you choose to procreate with. If you have not had any children yet, please, PLEASE vet carefully! Your children cannot choose their father; that is YOUR job!

These women (and COUNTLESS OTHERS) are continuing to make the same mistake. And now I realize that it isn’t even that having a baby by these men will get them to stay; it’s that they will FOREVER be attached to these men through their child’s DNA. The bad news is that this one fact will make it TEN TIMES harder to move on and away from them if the relationship doesn’t work out! Breakups are rough, but try doing it knowing that you may have to see the guy every other weekend when he visits his child.

Take a listen to this week’s episode and let me know in the comments what you think about this!

You can order your copy of my NEW book “CHOOSE WELL!: A Simple Formula To Determine The Best Man For You” on Amazon right now!

In this week’s episode, I wanted to give a refresher on what it means to “Be The Girl”! I have a lot of new followers and listeners that are asking me what it means when I say to them “Be The Girl”. I believe that most women are predominantly feminine energy women and in order to attract a high-quality masculine man, you want to offer him your femininity as a wonderful gift.

Take a listen and let me know how you feel about what I discussed and if you find it difficult to lean back and rest in your feminine. Which one of these traits have you struggled with and which ones have you mastered?

You can order your copy of my NEW book “CHOOSE WELL!: A Simple Formula To Determine The Best Man For You” on Amazon right now!

In this week’s episode, I am breaking down the ten traits that EVERY high-value woman possesses. The good news is that you can learn them all. It will require you to make a commitment to yourself to become the best version of yourself AND to never stop growing and learning. Take a listen to this week’s episode and please let me know which traits you have mastered and which ones you still need to work on.

You can order your copy of my NEW book “CHOOSE WELL!: A Simple Formula To Determine The Best Man For You” on Amazon right now!

 

In this week’s episode of the podcast, I wanted to discuss with you how you learned about relationships and how to be in them. Your family was your first teacher on relationships and for many of us (myself included!), those lessons weren’t all healthy and positive. Many of us came from dysfunctional homes where we learned how to “hide” ourselves and our feelings. Especially if you had a critical parent. Marisa Peer,  a world-renowned speaker, therapist, and best-selling author, says that the number one problem most of us suffer from is feeling like we are “not enough”.

This early “scripting” runs through us in everything that we do, especially in romantic relationships. We either become codependent in our relationships, seeking approval or acceptance, or we self-sabotage because we are deeply fearful of truly being “seen”. There is a small percentage of us who had emotionally healthy families and wind up with secure attachments styles. But these folks can also struggle in relationships if they are not aware that so many others have dysfunctional programming and they assume that others are more like them. These folks get blindsided by others toxic ways.

That is why I say it’s SO important for us as adults to do an assessment of everything our families of origin taught us and to determine what is working and what isn’t. Anything that is no longer working for you needs to be rejected and NEW habits need to be formed. Listen to this episode to learn how to create some healthy habits to have a successful romantic relationship.

You can order your copy of my NEW book “CHOOSE WELL!: A Simple Formula To Determine The Best Man For You” on Amazon right now!

In this week’s episode, I am giving you some information on creating your online dating profile. In the past year, I have helped hundreds of women write their online dating profiles and choose the best pictures to post. This is a service that I offer through my website and now, I am going to give you some of those tips for FREE!

I am going to use my own online dating profile as an example but I will also use a few others that I have helped to create as each woman is looking for different things. Some things to always remember: Men are visual creatures, so your pictures are VERY important. It’s worth the effort to grab a friend or hire someone to take some amazing pictures of you.

Here are a few of my online dating profile pics to give you some inspiration!