Girls Gone Deep

081: Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship, Creating a Sexy Environment in Temporary Spaces, and How to Pick Up a Vanilla Feat. Lolo and B


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In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. 


The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle.

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 Episode Breakdown:


Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication, and the story of how Lolo and B met. (01:27)


How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband. (7:19)


How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship.  (15:17)


How to keep it hot while being long distance: sexy content and FaceTime sex. (18:20)


Orgasms: Frustration losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath. (22:10)


Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips. (28:40)


Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials.  (34:49)


Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood. (38:53)


Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle. (41:50)


Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication. (46:48)


Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas’ (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration.  (51:56)

 

Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation. (1:02:18)


Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication. (1:04:22)

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