We just hit our ten year anniversary and want to share some of the wisdom we’ve gained after this time together. Getting married and establishing this bond between us has helped us in our success and it’s as if a divine help has been put over our lives to guide and direct us. “You marry the person you want to grow with, not the perfect person.” 12:39 Not keeping score in your marriage, or keeping track of who has done and deserves what for doing so much, is a very important part of having a successful and happy marriage. A quote from Adam’s grandpa after 60 years of marriage, ‘At some stage the lust will disappear. Those feelings and those desires will disappear, and that’s when the friendship is the most important thing.’ 16:46

Our legal wedding 0:43
Life thriving after marriage 6:59
Moving on to the next thing after getting married 10:20
Don’t keep score 13:01
Making and keeping a commitment 18:59
Moving fast in our marriage 22:38

“When you sign a mortgage, you’re all in at the bank. When you rent a house and you decide, if you decide, ‘You know what, I don’t like here. I wanna move somewhere else.’ you can move house. There is that moment and I definitely noticed. I remember my wedding day, I remember I just couldn’t stop smiling all day, but I had this emotion and then even the day after I still had it. There is a difference between being married or not and there's something you can’t explain.” 8:26

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