Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons

114. What Happens When a Woman is Forced into Fight or Flight Mode


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“She never wanted to fight her husband. But somewhere along the way, she stopped feeling safe—and started showing up in survival mode.”

In this episode, Jason and Lauren unpack the emotional toll disconnection takes on a woman, especially when she's forced to lead, manage, and defend in her relationship. They explore what masculine energy looks like in a woman, why it’s often a trauma response—not rebellion—and how emotional safety (not control) is the key to restoring connection.

You’ll hear:

  • A real coaching story of a disconnected couple

  • How a woman feeling safe, seen and known activates connection

  • What healthy masculinity is designed to bring

  • Practical steps to rebuild trust and intimacy

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