What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom.

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works.

Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage.

We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew.

We’ll talk about:

• The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battle
• Why “marriage will fix it” is one of the biggest lies Christian men believe
• The difference between sobriety and actual freedom
• What finally broke the cycle after countless “I’m done for good” moments
• The one thing that consistently helps men get free
• How to fight porn when the struggle started before puberty
• What to do if you only watch “once in a while” but still feel stuck
• How to talk to a future spouse about porn without destroying trust
• How freedom changes dating, intimacy, and marriage
• AI porn, fantasy chats, deepfakes, and what Gen Z is up against now
• Whether total freedom is actually possible

This episode is not about shame. It is about truth, freedom, and what to do when you are tired of starting over.

If you spiraled this week, feel hopeless, or secretly think this is just who you are now, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did.

This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time.

We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend 🫡), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective.

And yes… this conversation gets more honest than Part 1.

We’ll talk about:

- Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off

- When “getting to know someone” turns into leading them on

- If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out

- What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore

- Whether “friendship first” is wisdom or just indecision

- The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see

- What men actually think about a woman’s past and when it matters

- Whether there are sexual histories that become dealbreakers

- How to lead someone with shame from their past without becoming their therapist

- Where single Christian men actually draw the line physically while dating

- What to do when someone wants to push boundaries further than you do

- Christian dating hot takes the guys think need to die immediately

We also react to your comments from Part 1 in real time, including some very direct pushback from women.

So yes… some opinions got challenged.

If you are single, confused by Christian dating culture, or just trying to understand what is actually going on inside a Christian guy’s head, this episode is for you.

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Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women?

Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty.

We’re talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective.

We’ll talk about:

• Whether women are responsible for men’s lust

• What modesty is actually about if it is not just “covering up”

• What “don’t cause your brother to stumble” actually means in context

• The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation

• Whether modesty standards should change when you’re married

• How Christian women practically think through what they wear

• If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life

• Why modesty conversations almost always target women and not men

This conversation is not about hiding your body or being ashamed of beauty. It is about conviction, identity, wisdom, and honoring God without fear, shame, or performance.

If modesty has ever felt confusing, controlling, legalistic, or honestly just exhausting, this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married?

In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage.

Nothing is off limits.

Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud.

We’ll talk about:

• What is actually happening when you “get the ick”

• Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries

• What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning

• How to recognize and respond to gaslighting

• How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay

• Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words

• Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary

• Why Jesus never got married even though God said it’s not good for man to be alone

• How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation

• Whether you have to take your husband’s last name

This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level.

If you’ve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you.

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This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll:

1. Fornication — sex before marriage

• 1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3–5; Heb 13:4

2. Adultery — sex with someone outside of your spouse

• Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27–28; Heb 13:4

3. Polygamy — God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesn’t prescribe it

• Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4–6; 1 Tim 3:2

4. Rape

• Deut 22:25–27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10

5. Incest

• Lev 18:6–18; Lev 20:11–21; 1 Cor 5:1

6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity

• Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26–27; 1 Cor 6:9–10; 1 Tim 1:10

7. Bestiality

• Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15–16

8. Prostitution

• Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3–5; 1 Cor 6:15–16

9. Sexual immorality (porneia) — catch-all Greek term — lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography

• Matt 5:27–28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3

10. Pagan sexual activity — sex tied to the worship of false gods or one’s own sexual gratification as an idol

• Ex 34:15–16; Num 25:1–3; 1 Cor 10:7–8; Rev 2:14, 20

On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list “anything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.”

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What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t?

After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith.

So we did.

We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment.

This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time.

We’ll talk about:

• How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time

• What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage

• The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid

• What they see in today’s dating culture that is harmful or foolish

• What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years

• How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase

• What they would tell their 25 year old selves about relationships

• What they think about porn, hookup culture, and sexual temptation today

• How to build a marriage that lasts through hard seasons

• The most important qualities to look for in a spouse

• What they are most proud of when they look at their lives now

This episode is not fast advice. It is long-view wisdom.

If you want a marriage that actually lasts, you need to listen to people who have already done it.

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In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:

• Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

• The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

• Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

• How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

• Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

• How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

• What it’s like dating while holding that line

• Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

• What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

• What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait
  

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

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In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:

• Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

• The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

• Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

• How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

• Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

• How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

• What it’s like dating while holding that line

• Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

• What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

• What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait
  

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:

• Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

• The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

• Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

• How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

• Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

• How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

• What it’s like dating while holding that line

• Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

• What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

• What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait
  

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience?

Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud:

What if this isn’t right?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements.

We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding.

We’ll talk about:

• The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right

• Whether they ignored red flags and why

• The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in

• How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it”

• The fear of disobeying God by walking away

• What people said and how they handled the questions

• The lies they had to fight after everything ended

• How to trust your ability to hear God again

• What healing actually looked like in the aftermath

• How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret

This episode is not about shaming anyone. It’s not about creating fear around commitment.

It’s for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if it’s too late to pause.

A broken engagement is not a broken future.

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(0:00) — Intro

(1:36) — Why we're talking about broken engagements

(3:54) — How did you meet the person you were engaged to?

(4:55) — How long were you dating before the engagement?

(5:10) — How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal?

(6:22) — How long were you engaged before it ended?

(7:31)— Who made the final call to end it?

(7:59) — What was God teaching you in that season?

(9:00) — How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice?

(14:00) — Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship?

(16:01) — What lies from the enemy did you have to fight?

(18:23) — How to respond when people ask what happened

(21:10) — Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media

(24:10) — How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement?

(27:54) — The role of therapy in healing

(29:42) — Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance

(31:24) — Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak

(35:01) — What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 — Stop feeding your pain on social media

(40:10) — How to know if you should call it off or stick it out

(43:03) — Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage

(44:06) — Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right

(46:28) — The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it

(49:46) — A broken engagement is not a broken future

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in.

If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier.

In this episode we react to stories like:

• The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy… and the next day he got arrested

• The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs

• The date that somehow ended with a trip to the dean’s office at a Christian college

• The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldn’t date her

• The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him

• The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom

• The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch
  

Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary tales about manipulation, immaturity, and confusing spirituality with wisdom.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your Christian dating experience was the weirdest one out there… it probably wasn’t.

🎧 Let’s talk about it

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