Super passionate message. Your partner needs to have a life he is happy about ok? FACT. It is not your job to fill that void just like it’s not his or her job to fill yours. I have experienced mental drain in a relationship where a person was not happy with his life. I was the supply of the happiness and I realised now miserable he really was ! Lacked drive and ambition and resented me but then was also obsessive with me ( toxic ) in other words. The imbalance of his life meant I was the supply of his happiness .. Truth is, we have to each be responsible for how we FEEL each day. It is your job no body else’s. The irony is when you do take care of you, everyone else has to as well, you know your boundaries.. Have no expectations of others, heal you & know your boundaries and choose accordingly. Be with people who want to grow with you, who are positive and uplifting ! Be that for you first 💛[email protected]