Professor Lynn Gillam, Academic Director of the Children’s Bioethics Centre at The Royal Children’s Hospital explores what decision-making really is and what it looks like – the various models of shared decision-making that are often used in the healthcare context, who shares the authority to make medical decisions for children, and when does the child’s voice count? With her usual clarity of thought, Lynn wraps up the conference presentations that have taken us on a journey to discover what ‘deciding’ means in ‘deciding with children’.