What if discipline isn’t about becoming someone better—but about learning to live from the truth of who you already are? In this episode, we continue our conversation on discipline—not as punishment or control, but as the sacred practice of forming identity through daily habits of love, truth, and presence. We explore how discipline aligns with our new identity in Christ, and how we help our children grow into that truth—not by force, but by faithfulness. You’ll hear stories of real formation—what it looks like in parenting, in marriage, and even in how we relate to ourselves. We talk about the awkward, vulnerable process of “showing up to spring training” after receiving the gift of a new identity—and how discipline is God’s invitation to grow into that gift with grace, humility, and trust. This episode is not a list of parenting techniques—it’s a reminder that formation happens in the small, sacred choices we make each day to believe what’s true and build habits that reflect it. You’re in the Right Place If… ✔ You want to help your children live from their identity in Christ—not just earn your approval ✔ You’re wondering how to grow into the truth of your own identity when it still feels unfamiliar ✔ You’re looking for a better way to parent than control—but you still want real structure and growth ✔ You long for family rhythms that feel secure, grace-filled, and aligned with the kingdom of God Key Takeaways:

• Discipline isn’t punishment—it’s the daily, steady work of forming identity and maturity.
• We’re all being formed by something—the only question is… are we choosing it, or drifting into it?
• Small, intentional habits—meaningful conversations, returning to joy, asking for help—quietly rewrite the story our families live in.
• You don’t have to get it perfect to make it powerful. Real growth happens in the ordinary, imperfect, love-soaked moments.

Let’s Keep Growing Together: Share this episode with a friend who’s longing for a better way to parent—or simply to live loved. Visit John15Academy.com for more articles and a growing library of resources to help you live, love, and lead from a place of freedom. Resources We Mention: Article: Discipline Is Not What You Think: How Habit Training Forms the Soul Practicing the Art of Being Family (eBook): A simple, grace-filled guide for real-life family transformation Episode #161: The Three Instruments of Formation—How Atmosphere, Discipline, and Life Shape Your Family’s Story Article: The Three Doors: Why Families Survive, Strive, or Find Freedom The Curated Life Newsletter: Join the community for encouragement and resources to live loved, not afraid Let’s Stay Connected: We’re a donor-supported ministry that helps families and communities restore the lost art of being family through consulting, curriculum, speaking, and storytelling. Explore more and support our work at John15Academy.com/give. Together, there is great hope.