Podcast Episode 187: Not Letting Yourself Have It All Host: Dara Tomasson, The Quilters’ Coach

In this episode, Dara dives into the subconscious ways we hold ourselves back from living our fullest lives and achieving our goals. Whether it's weight loss, quilting, or personal growth, many of us unknowingly sabotage ourselves due to fear, self-doubt, and deeply ingrained beliefs.

Dara shares insights from her coaching experience, including a powerful story of a client who resisted losing weight because she feared being judged for having "too much." This episode explores the root causes of self-sabotage, touching on topics like negative self-talk, societal expectations, and our need for emotional safety.

Using Maslow's hierarchy of needs as a framework, Dara explains how meeting our basic needs—like sleep, nutrition, and emotional security—is essential for personal growth. She also shares personal stories about her journey to self-acceptance and how she overcame barriers to success, including struggles with work-life balance and external validation.

Dara provides actionable tips, including conducting a daily "time audit" to evaluate how well you're meeting your needs and prioritizing your goals. She challenges listeners to rethink their self-imposed limitations and start giving themselves permission to have it all.

Key Takeaways:

📌The impact of negative self-talk and hidden fears on your ability to thrive.

📌How Maslow’s hierarchy of needs applies to weight loss, emotional well-being, and personal growth.

📌Practical strategies to identify and overcome self-sabotaging behaviors.

This episode will inspire you to examine your beliefs, prioritize your well-being, and start living with more intention and joy.

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