A HOLY MESS | From Shame, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout To Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery, Personal Growth

202. The 3 S's of Suffering: Service, Silence, and Self-Doubt (How to Break Free After Decades of People-Pleasing)

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🐸 THE FROG IN THE KETTLE:

Why do high-achieving, empathetic women (and men) wait until their 50s, 60s, or 70s to find their voice?

Because they're like the frog in boiling water—so adaptable to suffering, they don't realize they deserve better.

This episode explores:

  • The 3 S's of suffering: Service, Silence, Self-Doubt
  • Why you self-sabotage when life finally gets good
  • How to build capacity for joy when you've only known struggle
  • Why most women don't wake up until midlife (and why that's perfect timing)

    • If you've spent decades putting everyone else first and finally realized "I'm not even on the totem pole"—this is your wake-up call.

    You're not selfish for wanting peace.

    You're not too late.
    You're right on time.

    READY TO STOP BEING THE FROG IN THE KETTLE?

    If you want support finding more joy, harmony, and purpose in your next season, schedule a discovery call with Dani here.

    So glad you're here,

    Dani

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    A HOLY MESS | From Shame, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout To Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery, Personal GrowthBy Dani Sumner - Christian Life Coach & Faith Led Motivational Speaker, Spiritual Director, Mentor, Christian Life Transformation Coach
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