The Twenty Minute VC (20VC): Venture Capital | Startup Funding | The Pitch

20VC Alain De Botton on Why Companies Are Not Families | Why Status is Making You Miserable | Why Parents Want Their Kids to Fail | Why We Are Richer Yet More Anxious Than Ever & Why You Should Not Always "Be Yourself"


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Alain De Botton is one of the greatest philosophers of our time. His work has had a profound impact on me more than any other. I have wanted to do this episode for the last 8 years. 

In Today’s Episode with Alain De Botton We Discuss:

1. Why Status is Making You Miserable: 

  • Why are we richer yet more anxious than ever?

  • What is the right way to define status? Why do we want it so much?

  • Is it bad to want status? What are some non-obvious signs that you are seeking status when you do not realise it?

  • Does social media enhance the desire for status? How so?

  • Do the happiest people want status the least? What are Alain’s biggest observations in how truly happy people think about status?

2. Why Parents Want You To Fail: 

  • Why is the sign of good parenting when your child does not want to be famous?

  • Why do your parents sometimes want you to fail? 

  • What should parents do if their child wants to chase an unachievable goal?

  • Why should parents encourage their children to start very early? 

3. Why Meritocracy is a Fallacy & Meaningful Work:

  • Why does Alain believe a true meritocracy is an impossible dream?

  • Why is meritocracy a bad thing when taken to the extreme?

  • Why does Alain believe that companies are not families?

  • Why does Alain tell people that they should not bring their full selves to work? 

4. WTF is “Meaningful Work”: 

  • What does it mean to do “meaningful work”?

  • Why do humans need to do “meaningful work” today in a way that we did not many years ago?

  • What are Alain’s biggest pieces of advice to young people today, unsure of what they should do with their lives and careers?

  • Why does Alain believe the idea of a “calling” is BS?

5. Ambition, Achievement and Sacrifice:

  • What does Alain mean when he says “you have to tolerate your own averageness”?

  • What does Alain say to the young generation who want work/life balance?

  • What does Alain mean when he said you “cannot be at war with yourself”?

  • Does Alain agree that to achieve you must sacrifice?

 

 

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