June 19, 2025

22: Dress Codes, Divided Families & Day-Of Disasters With Lisa P.

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What happens when a dream wedding breaks more than just budgets?

In this episode, Lisa Pontius shares how her whirlwind romance turned into a wedding that fractured friendships—literally.

From unexpected parent fallout to the silent war of traditions and finances, Christa and Lisa unpack the hidden landmines of wedding planning that no one warns you about.

Plus, they dive into viral hot takes—from guest dress codes to social media restrictions—and ask: are you really ready to get married, or just pressured to?

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

When the In-Laws Stop Speaking – Lisa shares how her and her husband’s parents became friends, then stopped speaking after the wedding drama unfolded.

Wedding Planning Pressure Cooker – Money, expectations, and tradition clashed hard during Lisa’s wedding, revealing everyone’s “ugliest selves.”

The Myth of the Perfect Day – Lisa reflects on being the bride: “I wish I had been a guest at my own wedding.”

Setting Social Media Limits – Can couples really control what guests post? Lisa shares her surprisingly balanced take.

Marriage > Wedding – With 12 years of marriage behind her, Lisa offers clarity on what really matters post-vows.

Planning Regrets and Lessons Learned – Why day-of coordinators are non-negotiable, and what every bride should do first.

About Lisa

Lisa Pontius is a New Yorker-turned-Charleston housewife who brings bold opinions, vintage glam, and real talk to every conversation. A former culinary school grad and kitchen pirate, Lisa traded 12-hour shifts for southern living—and never looked back. She first began sharing her story online during the pandemic and quickly found her voice talking about motherhood, self-worth, toxic relationships, and societal norms—always with a splash of style. Now known for her blend of 1950s glamour and modern edge, Lisa dishes up a mix of fashion, fire, and unfiltered honesty that's anything but boring.

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