When "I do" turns into "I don't know what to do." Wild.

From unexpected guest list debates to a mother-in-law meltdown that left everyone speechless, Me and my best friend Ivette dive into the wild world of wedding chaos. This episode is packed with hot takes, emotional moments, and wedding horror stories you won’t believe! Should couples feel obligated to invite family? Is banning kids a crime? And why are so many in-laws acting like it’s THEIR big day?

Listen in as I and my BFF and MOH Ivette spill the tea, share our own experiences, and remind you—it’s YOUR wedding, your rules.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

Wedding guest list debates: Obligation vs. personal preference

Mother-in-law horror stories: When family feuds take center stage

Unpopular wedding opinions: Kids at weddings, guests wearing white, and more

The pressure of tradition: When “that’s how it’s always been done” doesn’t work for you

Bridesmaids & boundaries: What’s fair to expect from your wedding party?

"If you’re wearing white to a wedding and you’re not the bride, you KNOW what you’re doing." - Christa

"If you have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping your boundaries—choose YOU." - Ivette

Ivette is not just a special guest—she’s one of my closest friends and the matron of honor from my own wedding. As a supportive friend who has been part of my journey long before Here Comes the Drama was even an idea, Ivette brings warmth, humor, and thoughtful insights to the conversation. With a deep appreciation for meaningful relationships and personal growth, she shares her take on wedding traditions, family dynamics, and setting boundaries in the chaos of wedding planning. Whether reflecting on her own experiences or reacting to jaw-dropping wedding drama, Ivette keeps it real with heart and honesty.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

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Ever heard of a maid of honor who made the entire wedding about herself?

This episode features one of the wildest maid of honor stories ever submitted — from crashing bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower and stirring up chaos on the big day. Her behavior had everyone on edge.

We’re also diving into stories about controlling parents putting financial pressure on young couples, vendors who ghost or show up late, and wedding speeches so cringe you’ll feel secondhand embarrassment.

Get ready for jaw-dropping confessions, real talk, and a few laughs to help you survive the wedding madness without losing your mind.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

Rogue Maid of Honor – From stealing attention at bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower, Megan’s jealousy wreaks havoc on the bride’s big moments.

Controlling Parents – Navigating financial stress and overbearing advice from family during engagement and wedding planning.

Vendor Nightmares – Photographers, makeup artists, and florists causing stress with miscommunications or mistakes.

Wedding Speech Fails – Cringeworthy, inappropriate, and backhanded speeches that leave guests shocked.

Bachelorette Party Chaos – Territorial bridesmaids, random guests, and drama that escalates tensions.

Red Flags & Green Flags – Spotting warning signs in friends, family, and vendors to protect your day.

Friendship Breakups – Weddings bring out everyone’s real personality — red flags just show up in heels.

Therapy & Support Systems – Leaning on your partner and friends to endure drama while keeping wedding planning joyful.

“Some people just can’t let you shine, and it’s okay to snip them out of your life.” — Christa Innis

“Red flags at weddings are everywhere, from sketchy vendors to toxic bridesmaids.” — Christa Innis

“Chaos loves company, but misery loves company even more.” — Christa Innis

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

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What happens when your in-laws hate you so much they all wear black to your wedding? 

This week, I’m diving into a listener story that starts with a secret elopement and ends in family chaos. We're talking group chat meltdowns, cold shoulders, and a mother-in-law who calls her “the family shame.”

Then we’re spilling tea on a viral makeup artist who showed up late, blamed her calendar, and still thought a partial refund was enough. Spoiler: I have thoughts.

Plus, the latest round of wedding confessions, from best men brawling to guests peeing in driveways. Because no matter how pretty the venue, no wedding is safe from the drama.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

The Viral Makeup Artist Fiasco – A vendor misses her call time and chaos unfolds. Christa breaks down what went wrong and whether the bride deserved a full refund.

When to Ask for a Refund – Contracts, accountability, and why communication can make or break your big day.

Fan Feedback That Hit Home – Christa reacts to a listener review suggesting new segment cues—and reveals how she’s improving the show.

Red Flag vs. Green Flag: Wedding Edition – From brides demanding weight loss to car-obsessed grooms, Christa calls out what’s toxic vs. totally fine.

The In-Law Showdown – One bride’s family nightmare that ended in heartbreak.

Vendor Etiquette 101 – Why feeding your photographer isn’t just polite—it’s part of the contract.

Family & Guest Drama Galore – From white jumpsuits to banned phones, Christa dishes on the social politics of weddings.

Confessions Corner Returns – Real listener confessions: fights, public pee, and champagne theft.

Christa’s Takeaway – A reminder to protect your peace, laugh through the madness, and maybe rethink that guest list.

“Let’s normalize letting people go if it’s not vibing. Even bridesmaids, it’s kind of like a job, right?” – Christa Innis

“You can’t expect guests to lock their phones away in a box; it’s a wedding, not a top-secret mission.” – Christa Innis

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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What happens when wedding day expectations clash with reality?

From boundary-crossing vendors to guests who take things a little too far, this episode unpacks the chaos that unfolds when people forget who the day is really about.

Bailey Lavender joins me for a candid chat on green flags, red flags, and how to set boundaries without being labeled a “bridezilla.” We share laughs, lessons, and real talk about communication, kindness, and staying true to yourself, no matter what drama comes your way.

Because at the end of the day, the best weddings aren’t perfect, they’re honest, intentional, and unapologetically you.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

The Seamstress Saga – A wedding vendor takes “involvement” way too far, crossing professional boundaries and ruining key moments.

When Vendors Forget Their Job – Christa and Bailey share why staying in your lane is crucial on someone else’s wedding day.

The Bridesmaid Balancing Act – How to set limits and choose roles you can actually handle with love, not guilt.

Boundaries ≠ Bridezilla – Why being firm about your expectations doesn’t make you difficult—it makes you wise.

Kindness vs. People-Pleasing – Bailey opens up about learning when to say no to protect her peace (and her friendships).

The Power of Professionalism – From photographers to coordinators, why doing your job well means knowing when to step back.

The Cost of “Yes” Culture – How saying yes to everything can actually hurt the people you’re trying to help.

Reclaiming the Moment – The bride’s plan to recreate her photos becomes a lesson in healing and taking back joy.

“Being firm with your boundaries doesn’t make you a bridezilla—it makes you smart.” - Christa Innis

“There’s a reason rules exist, because someone somewhere broke them first.” - Christa Innis

“You have to show up wholeheartedly for what they’re asking of you, or you’re letting them down.” - Bailey Lavender

“I can’t enjoy your day if I’m on the clock—so pick one: stylist or bridesmaid.” - Bailey Lavender

Bailey Lavender is a vibrant hairstylist and digital creator known for her bold aesthetic and engaging online presence. She shares hair transformations, fashion finds, and lifestyle content across platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. With a passion for creative color work and community events like the San Antonio Hair Show, Bailey blends artistry with influence, inviting followers into her world of beauty, style, and self-expression.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Imagine being told to pack up your three-day-old newborn and 18-month-old toddler, drive three and a half hours through a snowstorm… all to make it to a wedding. Wild, right?

That’s just the beginning of this week’s story: because the drama only snowballs into kids being banned from weddings and a brother-in-law stuck in the middle! I’m also sharing the ultimate mother-in-law move: trying to hijack the bride’s carefully planned seating chart just to cozy up to her ex. You cannot make this stuff up.

And of course, we’ll wrap it all up with quick-hit confessions: think sabotaged bouquets, off-white dresses, and a garter-removal protest that had the whole room cringing.

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Snowstorm Showdown – A couple was expected to drive 3.5 hours through a blizzard with a three-day-old newborn and a toddler.

Fresh Out of Delivery – The bride still demanded attendance, even though the mom had just given birth days before.

MIL’s Seating-Chart Sabotage – Another listener story of a mother-in-law secretly trying to swap the bride’s seating plan at the venue.

The 11-Year Revenge Laugh – Despite her MIL predicting divorce within a year, the couple is still happily married over a decade later.

Bridal Shower Gone Wrong – The MIL’s last-minute bridal-shower invite left the bride’s family scrambling.

Family Photo Standoff – The MIL refused joint photos, forcing the wedding photographer into an awkward split-family shoot.

Confessions Segment – From a guest who slept in the groom’s bed with the best man to the cousin yelling during the garter toss.

The Ivory Dress Excuse – A rehearsal-dinner fiasco when a sister tried to pass off an off-white dress as “not white.”

Song-Stealing Drama – A future sister-in-law sparks outrage over a DJ playing “her wedding song” at someone else’s reception.

“People always say these MIL horror stories can’t be real… but I get them in my inbox every single week.” - Christa Innis

“I would love to hear these stories from the mother-in-law’s perspective. What does she think actually happened?” - Christa Innis

“If a tradition makes everyone cringe—like the garter toss, maybe it’s time we let that one die.” - Christa Innis

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Ever seen a groom so drunk the venue owner had to hold him up for the cake cutting?

Yeah… it’s that kind of episode. Christa and Cora Lakey spill the tea on one of the wildest wedding stories ever submitted: Fireball shots, a missing glass eye, and a bride in tears.

From chaotic ceremonies to healing after heartbreak, this episode dives into what happens when boundaries vanish: on the aisle and in real life. Buckle up for celebrity breakups, red flags, and hard-earned lessons about love, growth, and protecting your peace.

Some weddings are beautiful. This one? Unforgettable.

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Dream Dress Derailed – A bride’s excitement is crushed when her mom says she can’t buy the dress because of her “back fat.”

Cora’s Divorce Diaries – Cora shares how six months post-divorce brought her more growth than six years of marriage.

Celebrity Illusions – Why perfect celebrity couples (and Instagram lives) aren’t what they seem.

In-Laws Behaving Badly – The real cost of not setting boundaries early.

Wedding Horror Story of the Year – A groom too drunk to stand, a glass-eyed guest crawling on the dance floor, and a bride who ran off crying.

Generational Shifts in Marriage – How modern couples are redefining partnership and equality.

Healing After Heartbreak – Learning self-worth and the power of starting over.

Red Flag vs. Green Flag Game – The outrageous bridal party moments that test your patience (and loyalty).

Boundaries Aren’t Mean – Why saying no is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.

Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode

“Boundaries aren’t mean. They’re how you take care of yourself—especially on your wedding day.” - Christa Innis

“If someone’s money comes with strings attached, sometimes it’s better to say no.”  - Christa Innis

“Why do parents think they’re ‘giving us away’? I was already out living my life!”  - Christa Innis

“Your family should make you feel good on your wedding day, not add to the drama.”  - Christa Innis

“You deserve a wedding that feels like you—not a performance for everyone else.”  - Christa Innis

“Don’t accept money if it means losing control of your own wedding.” - Cora Lakey

“The people who push your boundaries usually have the strongest ones themselves.”  - Cora Lakey

About Cora

Cora Lakey is a lifestyle content creator and social media influencer who shares thoughtful reflections on wellness, personal growth, and life experiences, including navigating her divorce. She actively produces content on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram, offering guidance and inspiration in areas such as self-care, emotional healing, healthy living, and mental well-being. Beyond sharing tips, she cultivates a supportive online community, engaging with followers to foster personal growth and resilience. Cora also adapts her content strategy across different platforms, blending storytelling, practical advice, and authentic insights to connect with a broad audience while encouraging positive lifestyle changes.

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*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

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What’s worse: your dad bailing on your wedding and then sending you a Venmo request for the deposit, or your mother-in-law going on vacation with his ex?

Yeah… welcome to this week’s chaos. I’m kicking things off with a brand new game: red flag vs. green flag wedding edition. Spoiler alert, locking up guest phones? HARD no. Then I’m diving headfirst into one of the messiest three-wedding family sagas you’ve ever heard. We’re talking divorces, mistresses, and family photos that should’ve come with a seating chart and a referee.

And of course, I wrap it up with your confessions, the kind that remind us all that where there’s a wedding, there’s always, always drama.

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Red Flag vs. Green Flag – We rapid-fire hot takes on wedding behaviors, from cash bars to late-night Taco Bell.

The Phone Lock-Up Debate – Why banning phones is fine, but locking them away is a serious overstep.

Dad’s Venmo Request – A father skips his daughter’s wedding… then asks for the venue money back. Seriously.

Three Weddings, Endless Chaos – One family, three ceremonies, and a whole lot of awkward divisions.

Mistress to Missus – The audacity of a dad marrying the woman he cheated with and expecting everyone to play along.

The Peacekeeper Sister – Navigating sibling loyalties when parents’ drama overshadows the big day.

Confessions Corner – Listeners spill about future in-laws inviting exes, surprise proposals, and engagement slip-ups.

Storytelling Skits – Why I am ready to turn messy dad drama into my next viral skit.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Yep, that actually happened. This week, I’m spilling not one, but two jaw-dropping wedding stories where guests went full villain mode. We’re talking sisters stealing the spotlight, friends acting like frenemies, and a guest who thought white was her color—brace yourself.

From family members who just can’t let go to attention-seekers desperate to make the day all about them, I’m breaking down the messy details with my signature mix of sass, humor, and straight talk.

And it doesn’t stop there, confessions at the end of the episode include a drunken maid of honor, a mother-in-law in a massive black hat, and even a vow renewal request that will leave you SPEECHLESS.

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Unpopular Opinions Unpacked – I’m diving into engagement rings, proposals, and why surprise proposals might actually be the worst idea.

This or That: Wedding Edition – From cheesy DJs to awkward speeches, I’m debating the biggest wedding dilemmas.

Sister Showdown – Bride’s big day was almost derailed by her sister’s shocking white dress choice.

Frenemy in White – Yep, it’s the infamous Sabrina story—how one guest tried (and failed) to steal the spotlight.

Mother-in-Law Chaos – When a MIL shows up in black and white with a statement hat, you know it’s personal.

Vendor Nightmares – Let me tell you why hiring family as your photographer is a recipe for regret.

Drunk Maid of Honor – One bride’s sister turned into a tipsy disaster before the ceremony even began.

Confessions & Closing Tea – I’m wrapping up with jaw-dropping listener confessions and, of course, a little gratitude moment.

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Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

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What kind of bridesmaid shows up in white to your bridal shower… with her mom in a matching “bride” sash?

Christa and Antoinette start off with some fun chatter about Antoinette’s heroic job before jumping into the wild tale of Erica, the bridesmaid who just couldn’t stand not being the center of attention. From sulking on a pontoon boat to hijacking the bridal shower, her jealousy turned every moment into a spectacle.

This episode is full of outrageous behavior, red flags in friendships, and lessons on boundaries, jealousy, and protecting your peace while planning your big day.

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Jealous Bridesmaid - Erica sulks during a boat ride after hearing about her friend’s engagement, igniting a downward spiral of jealousy.

Disrespectful Comments - The moment Erica's jealousy flares when she makes a rude comment about the bride’s proposal ring.

Bridal Shower Drama - Erica shows up in white at the bride’s bridal shower, making the event all about herself.

Bachelorette Trip Tantrum - Erica and her boyfriend’s constant complaints and early departure from the bachelorette weekend.

Bridal Shower Exit - Erica leaves the shower early with an excuse, hinting at deeper unresolved issues.

Blocked & Uninvited - After a final confrontation, Erica blocks the bride and bridesmaids, effectively ending the friendship.

Red Flags & Final Decisions - The bride reflects on the red flags in Erica’s behavior and why she should have cut ties earlier.

Meet Antoinette (@msrazzledazzle), your reality TV and pop culture bestie. With over 37K followers and 3.2 million likes on TikTok, she’s built a vibrant community around her sharp takes, playful commentary, and unapologetic love for all things drama. From Love Island to Black Mirror, Antoinette dives into the juiciest corners of reality TV with wit, warmth, and a dash of razzle-dazzle. Whether she’s spilling tea or breaking down the latest season of Summer House, she brings a voice that’s both relatable and razor-sharp.

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Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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What happens when a bride bans her bridesmaids from getting engaged or pregnant for two years? Welcome to today’s Bridezilla saga.

Christa reacts to a viral Reddit wedding horror story filled with outrageous demands: daily group chats, pricey dress fittings years in advance, and rules like “don’t look hotter than the bride.”

Then the chaos shifts to family feuds, shower invites without wedding invites, parents footing the bill, and a brother who plays the victim at every turn. Two weddings, endless drama, and a crash course in setting boundaries.

PLUS—Christa reads a juicy snippet from book two of her Here Comes the Drama series!

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The No-Life Rule – Bride tells bridesmaids they can’t get engaged or pregnant for two years before her wedding.

The Price of Friendship – Bridesmaids expected to cover all her meals, drinks, Ubers, and bachelorette trip costs.

Dress Code Chaos – Costly bridesmaid dresses ordered a year early, plus mandatory “mock try-on” videos.

Group Chat Prison – Multiple platforms, constant tagging, and shaming if bridesmaids didn’t reply instantly.

Body Shaming Bombshell – Bride tells a postpartum bridesmaid to “lose the baby weight” for the wedding.

Copycat Behavior – Bride mimics her friend’s pets, car, hobbies, and even pregnancy timing.

Family Feud Fallout – Brother refuses to invite his own siblings to his daughter’s wedding, after demanding generous shower gifts.

Empty Pews, Full Drama – The wedding day ends with two-thirds of the bride’s side of the church empty.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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