What happens when wedding day expectations clash with reality?

From boundary-crossing vendors to guests who take things a little too far, this episode unpacks the chaos that unfolds when people forget who the day is really about.

Bailey Lavender joins me for a candid chat on green flags, red flags, and how to set boundaries without being labeled a “bridezilla.” We share laughs, lessons, and real talk about communication, kindness, and staying true to yourself, no matter what drama comes your way.

Because at the end of the day, the best weddings aren’t perfect, they’re honest, intentional, and unapologetically you.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

The Seamstress Saga – A wedding vendor takes “involvement” way too far, crossing professional boundaries and ruining key moments.

When Vendors Forget Their Job – Christa and Bailey share why staying in your lane is crucial on someone else’s wedding day.

The Bridesmaid Balancing Act – How to set limits and choose roles you can actually handle with love, not guilt.

Boundaries ≠ Bridezilla – Why being firm about your expectations doesn’t make you difficult—it makes you wise.

Kindness vs. People-Pleasing – Bailey opens up about learning when to say no to protect her peace (and her friendships).

The Power of Professionalism – From photographers to coordinators, why doing your job well means knowing when to step back.

The Cost of “Yes” Culture – How saying yes to everything can actually hurt the people you’re trying to help.

Reclaiming the Moment – The bride’s plan to recreate her photos becomes a lesson in healing and taking back joy.

“Being firm with your boundaries doesn’t make you a bridezilla—it makes you smart.” - Christa Innis

“There’s a reason rules exist, because someone somewhere broke them first.” - Christa Innis

“You have to show up wholeheartedly for what they’re asking of you, or you’re letting them down.” - Bailey Lavender

“I can’t enjoy your day if I’m on the clock—so pick one: stylist or bridesmaid.” - Bailey Lavender

Bailey Lavender is a vibrant hairstylist and digital creator known for her bold aesthetic and engaging online presence. She shares hair transformations, fashion finds, and lifestyle content across platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. With a passion for creative color work and community events like the San Antonio Hair Show, Bailey blends artistry with influence, inviting followers into her world of beauty, style, and self-expression.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

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Imagine being told to pack up your three-day-old newborn and 18-month-old toddler, drive three and a half hours through a snowstorm… all to make it to a wedding. Wild, right?

That’s just the beginning of this week’s story: because the drama only snowballs into kids being banned from weddings and a brother-in-law stuck in the middle! I’m also sharing the ultimate mother-in-law move: trying to hijack the bride’s carefully planned seating chart just to cozy up to her ex. You cannot make this stuff up.

And of course, we’ll wrap it all up with quick-hit confessions: think sabotaged bouquets, off-white dresses, and a garter-removal protest that had the whole room cringing.

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Snowstorm Showdown – A couple was expected to drive 3.5 hours through a blizzard with a three-day-old newborn and a toddler.

Fresh Out of Delivery – The bride still demanded attendance, even though the mom had just given birth days before.

MIL’s Seating-Chart Sabotage – Another listener story of a mother-in-law secretly trying to swap the bride’s seating plan at the venue.

The 11-Year Revenge Laugh – Despite her MIL predicting divorce within a year, the couple is still happily married over a decade later.

Bridal Shower Gone Wrong – The MIL’s last-minute bridal-shower invite left the bride’s family scrambling.

Family Photo Standoff – The MIL refused joint photos, forcing the wedding photographer into an awkward split-family shoot.

Confessions Segment – From a guest who slept in the groom’s bed with the best man to the cousin yelling during the garter toss.

The Ivory Dress Excuse – A rehearsal-dinner fiasco when a sister tried to pass off an off-white dress as “not white.”

Song-Stealing Drama – A future sister-in-law sparks outrage over a DJ playing “her wedding song” at someone else’s reception.

“People always say these MIL horror stories can’t be real… but I get them in my inbox every single week.” - Christa Innis

“I would love to hear these stories from the mother-in-law’s perspective. What does she think actually happened?” - Christa Innis

“If a tradition makes everyone cringe—like the garter toss, maybe it’s time we let that one die.” - Christa Innis

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Ever seen a groom so drunk the venue owner had to hold him up for the cake cutting?

Yeah… it’s that kind of episode. Christa and Cora Lakey spill the tea on one of the wildest wedding stories ever submitted: Fireball shots, a missing glass eye, and a bride in tears.

From chaotic ceremonies to healing after heartbreak, this episode dives into what happens when boundaries vanish: on the aisle and in real life. Buckle up for celebrity breakups, red flags, and hard-earned lessons about love, growth, and protecting your peace.

Some weddings are beautiful. This one? Unforgettable.

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Dream Dress Derailed – A bride’s excitement is crushed when her mom says she can’t buy the dress because of her “back fat.”

Cora’s Divorce Diaries – Cora shares how six months post-divorce brought her more growth than six years of marriage.

Celebrity Illusions – Why perfect celebrity couples (and Instagram lives) aren’t what they seem.

In-Laws Behaving Badly – The real cost of not setting boundaries early.

Wedding Horror Story of the Year – A groom too drunk to stand, a glass-eyed guest crawling on the dance floor, and a bride who ran off crying.

Generational Shifts in Marriage – How modern couples are redefining partnership and equality.

Healing After Heartbreak – Learning self-worth and the power of starting over.

Red Flag vs. Green Flag Game – The outrageous bridal party moments that test your patience (and loyalty).

Boundaries Aren’t Mean – Why saying no is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.

Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode

“Boundaries aren’t mean. They’re how you take care of yourself—especially on your wedding day.” - Christa Innis

“If someone’s money comes with strings attached, sometimes it’s better to say no.”  - Christa Innis

“Why do parents think they’re ‘giving us away’? I was already out living my life!”  - Christa Innis

“Your family should make you feel good on your wedding day, not add to the drama.”  - Christa Innis

“You deserve a wedding that feels like you—not a performance for everyone else.”  - Christa Innis

“Don’t accept money if it means losing control of your own wedding.” - Cora Lakey

“The people who push your boundaries usually have the strongest ones themselves.”  - Cora Lakey

About Cora

Cora Lakey is a lifestyle content creator and social media influencer who shares thoughtful reflections on wellness, personal growth, and life experiences, including navigating her divorce. She actively produces content on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram, offering guidance and inspiration in areas such as self-care, emotional healing, healthy living, and mental well-being. Beyond sharing tips, she cultivates a supportive online community, engaging with followers to foster personal growth and resilience. Cora also adapts her content strategy across different platforms, blending storytelling, practical advice, and authentic insights to connect with a broad audience while encouraging positive lifestyle changes.

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Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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What’s worse: your dad bailing on your wedding and then sending you a Venmo request for the deposit, or your mother-in-law going on vacation with his ex?

Yeah… welcome to this week’s chaos. I’m kicking things off with a brand new game: red flag vs. green flag wedding edition. Spoiler alert, locking up guest phones? HARD no. Then I’m diving headfirst into one of the messiest three-wedding family sagas you’ve ever heard. We’re talking divorces, mistresses, and family photos that should’ve come with a seating chart and a referee.

And of course, I wrap it up with your confessions, the kind that remind us all that where there’s a wedding, there’s always, always drama.

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Red Flag vs. Green Flag – We rapid-fire hot takes on wedding behaviors, from cash bars to late-night Taco Bell.

The Phone Lock-Up Debate – Why banning phones is fine, but locking them away is a serious overstep.

Dad’s Venmo Request – A father skips his daughter’s wedding… then asks for the venue money back. Seriously.

Three Weddings, Endless Chaos – One family, three ceremonies, and a whole lot of awkward divisions.

Mistress to Missus – The audacity of a dad marrying the woman he cheated with and expecting everyone to play along.

The Peacekeeper Sister – Navigating sibling loyalties when parents’ drama overshadows the big day.

Confessions Corner – Listeners spill about future in-laws inviting exes, surprise proposals, and engagement slip-ups.

Storytelling Skits – Why I am ready to turn messy dad drama into my next viral skit.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Yep, that actually happened. This week, I’m spilling not one, but two jaw-dropping wedding stories where guests went full villain mode. We’re talking sisters stealing the spotlight, friends acting like frenemies, and a guest who thought white was her color—brace yourself.

From family members who just can’t let go to attention-seekers desperate to make the day all about them, I’m breaking down the messy details with my signature mix of sass, humor, and straight talk.

And it doesn’t stop there, confessions at the end of the episode include a drunken maid of honor, a mother-in-law in a massive black hat, and even a vow renewal request that will leave you SPEECHLESS.

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Unpopular Opinions Unpacked – I’m diving into engagement rings, proposals, and why surprise proposals might actually be the worst idea.

This or That: Wedding Edition – From cheesy DJs to awkward speeches, I’m debating the biggest wedding dilemmas.

Sister Showdown – Bride’s big day was almost derailed by her sister’s shocking white dress choice.

Frenemy in White – Yep, it’s the infamous Sabrina story—how one guest tried (and failed) to steal the spotlight.

Mother-in-Law Chaos – When a MIL shows up in black and white with a statement hat, you know it’s personal.

Vendor Nightmares – Let me tell you why hiring family as your photographer is a recipe for regret.

Drunk Maid of Honor – One bride’s sister turned into a tipsy disaster before the ceremony even began.

Confessions & Closing Tea – I’m wrapping up with jaw-dropping listener confessions and, of course, a little gratitude moment.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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What kind of bridesmaid shows up in white to your bridal shower… with her mom in a matching “bride” sash?

Christa and Antoinette start off with some fun chatter about Antoinette’s heroic job before jumping into the wild tale of Erica, the bridesmaid who just couldn’t stand not being the center of attention. From sulking on a pontoon boat to hijacking the bridal shower, her jealousy turned every moment into a spectacle.

This episode is full of outrageous behavior, red flags in friendships, and lessons on boundaries, jealousy, and protecting your peace while planning your big day.

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Jealous Bridesmaid - Erica sulks during a boat ride after hearing about her friend’s engagement, igniting a downward spiral of jealousy.

Disrespectful Comments - The moment Erica's jealousy flares when she makes a rude comment about the bride’s proposal ring.

Bridal Shower Drama - Erica shows up in white at the bride’s bridal shower, making the event all about herself.

Bachelorette Trip Tantrum - Erica and her boyfriend’s constant complaints and early departure from the bachelorette weekend.

Bridal Shower Exit - Erica leaves the shower early with an excuse, hinting at deeper unresolved issues.

Blocked & Uninvited - After a final confrontation, Erica blocks the bride and bridesmaids, effectively ending the friendship.

Red Flags & Final Decisions - The bride reflects on the red flags in Erica’s behavior and why she should have cut ties earlier.

Meet Antoinette (@msrazzledazzle), your reality TV and pop culture bestie. With over 37K followers and 3.2 million likes on TikTok, she’s built a vibrant community around her sharp takes, playful commentary, and unapologetic love for all things drama. From Love Island to Black Mirror, Antoinette dives into the juiciest corners of reality TV with wit, warmth, and a dash of razzle-dazzle. Whether she’s spilling tea or breaking down the latest season of Summer House, she brings a voice that’s both relatable and razor-sharp.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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What happens when a bride bans her bridesmaids from getting engaged or pregnant for two years? Welcome to today’s Bridezilla saga.

Christa reacts to a viral Reddit wedding horror story filled with outrageous demands: daily group chats, pricey dress fittings years in advance, and rules like “don’t look hotter than the bride.”

Then the chaos shifts to family feuds, shower invites without wedding invites, parents footing the bill, and a brother who plays the victim at every turn. Two weddings, endless drama, and a crash course in setting boundaries.

PLUS—Christa reads a juicy snippet from book two of her Here Comes the Drama series!

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The No-Life Rule – Bride tells bridesmaids they can’t get engaged or pregnant for two years before her wedding.

The Price of Friendship – Bridesmaids expected to cover all her meals, drinks, Ubers, and bachelorette trip costs.

Dress Code Chaos – Costly bridesmaid dresses ordered a year early, plus mandatory “mock try-on” videos.

Group Chat Prison – Multiple platforms, constant tagging, and shaming if bridesmaids didn’t reply instantly.

Body Shaming Bombshell – Bride tells a postpartum bridesmaid to “lose the baby weight” for the wedding.

Copycat Behavior – Bride mimics her friend’s pets, car, hobbies, and even pregnancy timing.

Family Feud Fallout – Brother refuses to invite his own siblings to his daughter’s wedding, after demanding generous shower gifts.

Empty Pews, Full Drama – The wedding day ends with two-thirds of the bride’s side of the church empty.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Weddings can bring out the best and the worst in families but what happens when the drama takes center stage?

In this episode, Christa and Colleen Borgert dive deep into a story about a whirlwind engagement, a strained family dynamic, and a wedding that almost didn’t happen. Did the bride make the right choice when she called off the marriage after just one month?

Tune in as Christa and Colleen share candid thoughts on red flags, family loyalty, and how important it is to trust your instincts when the pressure's on. A powerful reminder that it’s never too late to walk away from a bad relationship.

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Engagement Red Flags - The couple’s whirlwind engagement raised questions about moving too fast and overlooking key signs.

Family Drama Unfolds - The bride’s experience with her fiancé’s family dynamics and how it impacted her big day.

The Sister's Role - Colleen shares her thoughts on the fiancé's younger sister and the implications of her behavior.

Unspoken Expectations - How family members’ expectations can shape wedding plans, and the consequences of unmet expectations.

The Pushback on No Kids Policy - Colleen's wedding no-kids policy and the pushback it created from family members.

Taking Control of Your Wedding - The importance of setting boundaries with family members and ensuring the wedding day feels right for the couple.

Dealing with Toxic Family Members - The challenges of navigating toxic family relationships and prioritizing your own happiness.

A Bold Divorce Decision - The courage it took for the bride to end the marriage and choose a life that was healthier for her.

Colleen Borgert is a Catholic ESL Director, wife, and mom with 15 years of experience in education. She is passionate about advocating for all students and dedicated to unlearning and growing into the best version of herself. Colleen's journey into TikTok began as a way to raise awareness for a comfort closet in her school, providing essential items like toothbrushes, socks, and deodorant for at-risk students. Her efforts gained traction, and after the election, her content evolved to reflect the changing landscape of education. Now, Colleen shares insights on shifting educational laws and provides parents with important updates on what’s happening in their local schools.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Ever wonder what happens when a mother-in-law goes full wedding meltdown mode? 

This episode dives into an unforgettable wedding story where chaos, drama, and unexpected twists steal the spotlight. From limo mix-ups and cross necklace demands to elopements and courthouse ceremonies, these real-life tales prove weddings rarely go as planned.

Listen as Christa and Paige navigate fiery family dynamics, outrageous demands, and the art of keeping your day stress-free despite unpredictable relatives.

Whether it’s dodging drama or finding joy in the unexpected, these stories remind us that love, and a little patience, always wins.

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The Guest List War – How a simple seating decision spiraled into a full family fight.

Bridesmaid Betrayal – The shocking move the bridesmaid made behind her back.

Mother-in-Law Overreach – The bold demands that crossed every line.

Setting Boundaries Under Fire – The moment the bride decided to stand her ground.

Choosing Peace Over People-Pleasing – Why walking away from tradition saved her sanity.

The Fallout After the Wedding – The lasting impact of these choices on family relationships.

What Paige Would Do Differently – Her biggest takeaway for anyone planning a wedding.

Paige is a working mother of four who shares relatable content on TikTok and Instagram, highlighting the everyday experiences of women balancing motherhood, careers, and relationships. Known for her candid insights on the mental load of motherhood and the challenges of creating equity at home and work, Paige’s content resonates with millions. She also advocates for affordable childcare, paid leave, and reproductive rights, sparking important conversations about what families need to thrive. Her impactful voice and relatable storytelling have led to features in Scary Mommy, The Today Show, Good Morning America, and more.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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Ever wonder what happens when a mother of the groom tries to hijack her son’s holiday plans?

Grab your wine, because this episode is a rollercoaster of family drama and jaw-dropping holiday chaos. Christa shares part 1 of Here Comes The Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story, diving into Kate’s controlling ways and Ferris’ careful navigation to protect his relationship with Sloan. From Thanksgiving meltdowns to snow-covered windows, emotions flare, boundaries are tested, and secrets threaten to spill.

Stick around for the jaw-dropper: a carefully planned vacation turns into a perfect surprise. Will mom ruin it or finally learn to step back? Listen in and experience holiday drama like never before.

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Birthday Special Announcement – Christa shares it’s her birthday and gives listeners a bonus look at a Patreon episode.

Podcast & Book Updates – Highlights the audiobook release and exclusive author’s note for fans.

Fiancé’s Silence – The groom-to-be stays surprisingly calm, brushing off the friend’s toxic behavior.

Family Dynamics – Relatives get involved, adding fuel to the fire and complicating emotions.

Mother of the Groom Chaos – Kate panics over Ferris and Sloan’s Christmas vacation, creating tension.

Holiday Meltdown – Thanksgiving turns dramatic with red wine stains, snow, and heightened emotions.

Ferris’ Firm Stand – Ferris sets boundaries with his mom while remaining respectful, protecting his relationship.

Subtle Support from Ted – Dad quietly navigates the drama, encouraging Ferris without escalating tension.

Vacation Planning Drama – Kate tries to insert herself into the couple’s plans despite their wishes.

Surprise Proposal Tease – Ferris plans a proposal, creating a cliffhanger moment that leaves everyone on edge.

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.

Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!

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