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230 // Pt 1: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans // Michaeleen Doucleff
"My kids never help", "It's like pulling teeth", "Our family life feels disconnected", "They don't care about me or what I do for them"; frustration over the lack of help in our homes from our children can send us into a spiral of hard days. The sentiment that "kids will be kids" and we need to cater to their whims can topple the structure of our families. In this episode, with the help of Hunter, Gather, Parent by Michaleen Doucleff, we are going to challenge the Western assumptions we all hold about parenting to bring a breath of fresh air and an ease to our parenting that just may revolutionize the way you think about your home environment!
Time Stamps
8:00 - Intro to Hunter, Gather, Parent
10:13 - The silo parenting present in western culture (WEIRD)
15:51 - The drive to help and belong is naturally present in our kids from the beginning
20:30 - In the long run, forcing your kids is detrimental
21:30 - Example of five year old girl from the Nani Gandi Tribe
23:00 - Never force a kid to stay and work
25:00 - Less praise, more acknowledgement
26:38 - Independence vs. Autonomy
30:01 - “We clean it up” vs. “You clean it up”
34:15 - Example of autonomy the Hadzabe community
41:05 - Chore charts and how they work against intrinsic motivation
Related Episodes
Systems and Values for Easier Days and Stronger Family Connections (Entitlement Trap by Linda Eyre and Richard Eyre)
How To: Create Pockets of Peace
Books Mentioned:
How to Raise Kind Kids // Thomas Lickona
Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans // Michaeleen Doucleff
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Thank you for the kind reviews! We appreciate them so much. Here is how to leave a review for us on iTunes:
Open Find the Magic in the podcast app
Scroll to the bottom of the page
Click on write a review
Tap the stars to rate us and then write us some feedback:)
Review of the week:
AngelinaEM
04/12/2023
My new best friends.
I am a busy mom of 4 (7 yo and under) and Find the Magic is something that I do for myself. I connect with these women SO well and they make me feel like I’m doing the best job, even when I feel like I’m not. Thank you ladies for being here for us mothers. ♥️
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"My kids never help", "It's like pulling teeth", "Our family life feels disconnected", "They don't care about me or what I do for them"; frustration over the lack of help in our homes from our children can send us into a spiral of hard days. The sentiment that "kids will be kids" and we need to cater to their whims can topple the structure of our families. In this episode, with the help of Hunter, Gather, Parent by Michaleen Doucleff, we are going to challenge the Western assumptions we all hold about parenting to bring a breath of fresh air and an ease to our parenting that just may revolutionize the way you think about your home environment!
Time Stamps
8:00 - Intro to Hunter, Gather, Parent
10:13 - The silo parenting present in western culture (WEIRD)
15:51 - The drive to help and belong is naturally present in our kids from the beginning
20:30 - In the long run, forcing your kids is detrimental
21:30 - Example of five year old girl from the Nani Gandi Tribe
23:00 - Never force a kid to stay and work
25:00 - Less praise, more acknowledgement
26:38 - Independence vs. Autonomy
30:01 - “We clean it up” vs. “You clean it up”
34:15 - Example of autonomy the Hadzabe community
41:05 - Chore charts and how they work against intrinsic motivation
Related Episodes
Systems and Values for Easier Days and Stronger Family Connections (Entitlement Trap by Linda Eyre and Richard Eyre)
How To: Create Pockets of Peace
Books Mentioned:
How to Raise Kind Kids // Thomas Lickona
Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans // Michaeleen Doucleff
Sponsor:
GABB WIRELESS
We LOVE devices that help our kids stay safe and be able to adventure while still being able to contact us safely and allow us to know where they are without being the kind of technology that steals their mental health and attention. Gabb wireless is an incredible company that we FULLY endorse for just that. Go to https://gabbwireless.com and use code FINDTHEMAGIC to get $50 off any device!
Thank you for the kind reviews! We appreciate them so much. Here is how to leave a review for us on iTunes:
Open Find the Magic in the podcast app
Scroll to the bottom of the page
Click on write a review
Tap the stars to rate us and then write us some feedback:)
Review of the week:
AngelinaEM
04/12/2023
My new best friends.
I am a busy mom of 4 (7 yo and under) and Find the Magic is something that I do for myself. I connect with these women SO well and they make me feel like I’m doing the best job, even when I feel like I’m not. Thank you ladies for being here for us mothers. ♥️
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