Mother Tongue

240// Parenting While Healing Trauma, Navigating Name Calling, Spitting and Punishments


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We all have negative experiences that impact our mental state day to day as we parent. It can be exhausting and disheartening to attempt to parent in this state of distress. Today we tackle a listener question on parenting while healing past trauma and parenting. We also hear from a listener seeking advice about her children's name calling, spitting and general boundary pushing.




Book Mentioned:


How to do the Work // Nicole LePera




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Time Stamps


14:00 - How to deal with trauma and parent


15:58 - Big T vs little t trauma


16:30 - Repressed trauma


17:40 - Adult trauma


19:07 - Therapy is a major tool


22:00 - Give yourself extra grace and self care


24:01 - Name your trauma


31:00 - 90 second rule with stress/anxiety


34:57 - How to handle kids being unkind


38:30 - This too shall pass


42:00 - Name calling is a hard no


46:40 - A family is a good testing ground for kids to figure out social interactions


49:39 - Foster positive interactions to start a positive momentum


53:35 - Honey vs. Vinegar analogy


54:52 - Give yourself self-care so you can be your best


1:01:00 - Laughter is a pressure relief valve




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