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247: Alyssa watched her abuser burn
If you’re in the Austin, Texas area – let’s meet up. I’ll be
in Austin the second week of March – and this is 2026, for you
listeners of the future – we’ll have another in-person Listener
Meetup on March 11. This is where you can come and hang out with me
and other podcast listeners, have a drink, ask a question, whatever.
I’d love to get to know you! All of the details can be found in the
What Was That Like Facebook group, at WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook.
And
now, on with today’s episode, which needs a content warning for
discussion of suicide.
Here
in the US, 1 out of every 3 women have experienced some form of
physical violence by an intimate partner. My guest in this episode is
Alyssa. She WAS that 1 out of 3.
This
is a Flashback episode. Alyssa told this story on the podcast way
back in episode 16, more than 7 years ago. Unfortunately, as
sometimes happens, I was not able to get in touch with her recently
for an update.
Alyssa
lives in Tennessee and she’s really into music. She’s a musician,
a songwriter, and an audio engineer. Her boyfriend, Jared, was
abusive to her - emotionally and physically – and police were
actively planning to arrest him. But before that could happen, Jared
decided he would take his own life. And he wanted to do it in a way
that would be disturbing and traumatic for anyone nearby.
Full
show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
https://WhatWasThatLike.com/247
Graphics
for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.
Want
to discuss this episode and other things with thousands of other WWTL
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If you’re in the Austin, Texas area – let’s meet up. I’ll be
in Austin the second week of March – and this is 2026, for you
listeners of the future – we’ll have another in-person Listener
Meetup on March 11. This is where you can come and hang out with me
and other podcast listeners, have a drink, ask a question, whatever.
I’d love to get to know you! All of the details can be found in the
What Was That Like Facebook group, at WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook.
And
now, on with today’s episode, which needs a content warning for
discussion of suicide.
Here
in the US, 1 out of every 3 women have experienced some form of
physical violence by an intimate partner. My guest in this episode is
Alyssa. She WAS that 1 out of 3.
This
is a Flashback episode. Alyssa told this story on the podcast way
back in episode 16, more than 7 years ago. Unfortunately, as
sometimes happens, I was not able to get in touch with her recently
for an update.
Alyssa
lives in Tennessee and she’s really into music. She’s a musician,
a songwriter, and an audio engineer. Her boyfriend, Jared, was
abusive to her - emotionally and physically – and police were
actively planning to arrest him. But before that could happen, Jared
decided he would take his own life. And he wanted to do it in a way
that would be disturbing and traumatic for anyone nearby.
Full
show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
https://WhatWasThatLike.com/247
Graphics
for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.
Want
to discuss this episode and other things with thousands of other WWTL
listeners? Join our podcast Facebook group at
WhatWasThatLike.com/facebook
(many of the podcast guests are there as well)
Get every episode ad-free, AND get all the Raw
Audio exclusive episodes to binge, by joining the other listeners at
What Was That Like PLUS.
Try What Was That Like PLUS free:
iPhone: at the top of the What
Was That Like podcast feed, click on “Try free”
Android: on your phone, go to
WhatWasThatLike.com/PLUS
and click to try it free on any app
Sponsor deals:
Visit AuraFrames.com
and use promo code WHATWAS at checkout to get $45 off.
If you’re 21 or older, get 25% OFF your first
order + free shipping @IndaCloud with code [WHATWAS] at
https://inda.shop/[WHATWAS]!
#indacloudpod
Go to ThriveMarket.com/WHATWAS
to get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift just for
signing up.
Go to Quince.com/whatwas
for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!
Get 15% off OneSkin with the code [WHATWAS]
at https://www.oneskin.co/
#oneskinpod
Try Mint Mobile for 3 months, for just 15 bucks a
month - MintMobile.com/WHAT
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