Her Mother Tongue

256 // Our Favorite Value Aligning Techniques for Intentional Parenting {Best of}


Listen Later

So often in parenting, we find ourselves...losing our cool, to put it nicely. We respond with anger; we use bribing or coercion to make our kids behave, and we hurt our relationship with our kids and ourselves in the process. In this episode, we take a deep dive into individual steps we can take anytime we find ourselves triggered by our kids’ behavior. We start with ourselves, pause, attune to our child, and then respond, not react, by setting limits and allowing logical consequences by looking at the need being expressed by our child’s behavior. This conversation will help you reframe difficult parenting situations and allow you to focus on the priority of your relationship.

  • Take a pause to connect to your intuition when making decisions.

  • Pay attention to what you fear and ask yourself why? Parenting helps us see ourselves more clearly. Don’t parent from a place of lack.

  • The Pause - Give your self time and space with your children

  • Use breath to bring yourself into the present moment and pause

  • Sometimes bad behavior is a cry for connection.

  • Time Stamps

    • 8:00- How do we live from a place of authenticity when parenting

    • 12:31 - Take a pause to connect to your intuition when making decisions

    • 18:15 - Parenting from a place of lack vs. wholeness

    • 21:00 - Meditation practice to give your child self love and acceptance

    • 24:33 - Journal out your fears with your kids to process them

    • 29:00 - The Pause - Give your self time and space with your children

    • 37:30 - Zone of zero reactivity

    • 46:50 - Come to each situation with a response vs. a reaction

    • 52:31 - Natural consequences vs. Cultivating consequences


    • You can listen to this episode on most other platforms here :)

      Are you feeling lost, unanchored or listless in your days? We use our daily planner and journal to align our core values with the tasks we do each day! You can learn more about it HERE

      Related Episodes

      Authoritative Parenting / Arguably the most EFFECTIVE Parenting Style 

      Holding Boundaries / Discipline Pt. 1

      Systems and Values for Easier Days and Stronger Family Connections

      Parenting with Unconditional Love 

      How to Embrace Childhood 

      Books and links we mentioned;

      The Awakened Family // Shefali Tsabary

      The Conscious Parent // Shefali Tsabary


      ...more
      View all episodesView all episodes
      Download on the App Store

      Her Mother TongueBy Felicia Sol

      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9
      • 4.9

      4.9

      444 ratings


      More shows like Her Mother Tongue

      View all
      TED Radio Hour by NPR

      TED Radio Hour

      21,992 Listeners

      Hidden Brain by Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam

      Hidden Brain

      43,643 Listeners

      20/20 by ABC News

      20/20

      11,880 Listeners

      The Daily by The New York Times

      The Daily

      112,376 Listeners

      Crime Junkie by audiochuck

      Crime Junkie

      368,420 Listeners

      Call Her Daddy by Alex Cooper

      Call Her Daddy

      165,663 Listeners

      Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

      Good Inside with Dr. Becky

      4,540 Listeners

      The Peaceful Parenting Podcast by Sarah Rosensweet

      The Peaceful Parenting Podcast

      117 Listeners

      The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

      The Mel Robbins Podcast

      20,193 Listeners

      Good Hang with Amy Poehler by The Ringer

      Good Hang with Amy Poehler

      9,604 Listeners