Financial Feminist

257. This Mistake Cost Me $500,000


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It took me three years — and more than half a million dollars — to learn this lesson.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the biggest business mistake I’ve ever made: ignoring my gut, following “expert” advice, and paying the price. We’re diving into what happens when you give away your power for credibility, why trusting yourself is the best business strategy, and how to rebuild self-trust after a big mistake.

If you’ve ever been told, “That’s just how it’s done,” this episode will remind you that sometimes the best thing you can do is trust your instincts — even when it goes against the norm.

You’ll learn:

  • Why “industry standard” doesn’t always mean right for you
  • The true cost of outsourcing your power
  • How to rebuild self-trust in your money and business decisions

  • In this episode:

    00:00 — The mistake that cost me $500,000

    03:00 — What it means to sign with an agency or network (and why it’s risky)

    05:00 — Losing transparency and control in my own business

    07:00 — When credibility costs more than it’s worth

    08:30 — The moment I realized I’d given away 40% of my revenue

    10:00 — The danger of doing things just because “that’s how it’s done”

    13:30 — What running everything in-house has taught me

    14:00 — The deeper lesson: self-trust, transparency, and ownership

    16:00 — How to support independent creators and shows like this one

    17:00 — Learning from mistakes without shame

    17:30 — The challenge: where can you trust yourself more?


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