Ever catch yourself comparing your motherhood to someone else’s?

In this heartfelt episode, my friend and motherhood mentor, Julie Bastedo, shares how a simple moment of comparison while cooking dinner led her to a powerful mindset shift: you don’t have to be all the things—you just have to be yourself.

This conversation is a beautiful example of the second principle in my Self-Assured Motherhood framework: Celebrate Your Strengths. When we stop trying to be the mom we think we should be, and start honoring the mom we are, everything changes.

Tune in to hear:

💜 A surprising mindset shift that can instantly deflate mom guilt

💜 A practical trick for quieting comparison (it involves a sticky note!)

💜 Why one of the kindest things you can do for yourself is unfollow

💜 How embracing your “non-strengths” can actually increase your confidence

As you listen to this conversation, I hope you feel what I always feel when I talk to Julie: less pressure, more peace, and more acceptance of who you are.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by a decision–spinning in circles, overanalyzing every possible outcome, and feeling like you can’t move forward until you get it just right–I'm here to tell you that the struggle is SO real. I’ve been there. In fact, decision-making used to be one of my biggest struggles as a mom.

But over the past few years, I’ve been on a quiet quest to become a more confident, grounded, and calm decision maker. And one of the people who has helped me the most on this journey is today’s guest: Kendra Adachi, the two-time New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way and The Lazy Genius Kitchen.

In this episode, Kendra shares three practical mindset shifts that can help you feel less frantic and more empowered the next time you’re faced with a decision–whether it’s what to make for dinner or whether to buy a piece of land for your dream home.

Tune in to learn:

💡 A simple strategy that builds your confidence as a decision-maker (and why you should start with the little things)

💡 The powerful question that brings instant clarity when you’re overwhelmed by too many options

💡 How to avoid making “everything matter” during the decision-making process

This conversation is a beautiful example of the first principle in my Self-Assured Motherhood Framework—Voice Your Values—which is all about getting clear on what matters most to you so you can make aligned decisions in your motherhood.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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Summer can be such a gift—but it can also feel like a lot. Whether you're a few days in or several weeks deep, this season tends to stretch us in new ways as moms. We want to make memories, stay present, and still meet our own needs—but how?

In this solo episode, I’m introducing you to the SAM 6, a new streamlined version of the Self-Assured Motherhood framework that I’ve been teaching for years. These six principles are designed to help you feel more grounded, fulfilled, and confident in your motherhood, including during the summer months.

If you’ve ever felt burned out from doing “all the things” or unsure of how to balance your kids’ needs with your own, this episode will help you recalibrate. I’ll walk you through each of the six principles and offer simple, specific ways you can apply them to your summer, so you can enjoy this season more fully and in a way that truly reflects you.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

☀️ Why you might be feeling burned out—and how to get back into alignment

☀️ A simple mindset shift that can help you enjoy your summer more (even in the chaos)

☀️ What your calendar might be saying about your true values

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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Making new friends as an adult is challenging—and motherhood often makes it even harder. Between family responsibilities, full schedules, and emotional fatigue, it can feel like there’s no space left for connection. And even when we do show up, it’s not always easy to know how to move from polite small talk to real, meaningful friendship.

In this episode, psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco joins me to unpack why friendship often feels so complicated in adulthood—and how we can begin to build the kind of relationships we long for.

Whether you’re starting from scratch or hoping to deepen the friendships you already have, this conversation will give you both clarity and compassion for where you are—and the tools to take a small step forward.

This episode will help you:

🤗 Break out of the “I showed up but still feel lonely” cycle

🤗 Rewire your mindset to believe people actually want to be your friend (because they do!)

🤗 Recognize the hidden habits that may be quietly sabotaging your ability to connect

🤗 Learn what to do when you feel like you’re trying…but still not clicking with anyone

If friendship has felt harder than you expected in this season of life, this episode will remind you that you’re very much not alone—and that meaningful connection is still possible.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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We want to raise kids who are responsible, capable, and financially wise—but it’s hard to know where to start. It can feel especially tricky to teach life skills like money management and personal responsibility without constant reminding or frustration.

In this episode, I’m joined by Saren Eyre Loosli, founder of Power of Families and one of my earliest parenting mentors. Saren is a mom of five and a family systems expert who shares a simple, sustainable way to teach these skills within the flow of everyday life—without turning your home into a battleground.

Summer is an ideal time to reset routines and try something new. This episode will give you practical tools and a clear framework to help your family work together more smoothly.

You’ll hear:

💰 A clear structure for helping kids earn and manage their own money

💰 How to connect allowance to responsibility and attitude, not just tasks

💰 A system for daily routines that fosters independence and ownership

💰 Tools for tracking money and chores that work for all ages

This conversation is both practical and encouraging, especially if you’ve been wanting more clarity (and less conflict) around chores, allowance, and life skills at home.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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Summer is almost here… which means it’s road trip season! If you’re gearing up for some long drives with your kids in tow, this episode is packed with practical tips to help make those hours in the car smoother, more fun, and a little less chaotic.

 Brittney Hanks—mom of four and the genius behind Home and Kind—is here to share her favorite road trip hacks that she’s developed over years of cross-country drives with her kids. She’s all about simple systems that ease the mental load for moms and bring more connection and joy into everyday moments.

Whether you're a seasoned road tripper or just trying to survive your first long haul with littles, Brittany’s creative ideas will have you feeling calm, confident, and ready to roll.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

🚗 A clever way to visually track your progress (and keep kids from asking “Are we there yet?” every five minutes)

🚗 How to turn a gas station stop into a fun, energy-boosting family relay

🚗 The best podcasts and audiobooks for a variety of ages that the whole family will enjoy

🚗 Why embracing flexibility—and letting some of your usual rules slide—can actually lead to more meaningful connection

You’ll come away from this conversation feeling inspired and equipped to make your summer road trips less stressful and a lot more special.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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What if your next family trip wasn’t about packing in more—but about slowing down, connecting, and actually enjoying your time together?

This week, I'm joined by family travel expert Meggie Busath, who shares practical ways to bring more intention, connection, and joy to your trips—without overcomplicating things or blowing your budget.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

🫶 How to stop overcomplicating travel—and focus on what actually matters to your family

🫶 Why your attitude as the parent is the most important factor in whether a trip feels successful

🫶 Practical strategies for navigating inevitable bumps in the road (without losing your cool)

🫶 The small, intentional choices—like what snacks you pack or when you schedule screen time—that can make a huge difference for your kids

If you're craving more connection and less chaos in your family travels, this episode is filled with ideas to help you get there.

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If you’ve ever felt like the problems of the world are too big, and your influence is too small to matter, this conversation with Sharon McMahon will help you realize how powerful even just your small actions can be.

Sharon is a former high school government teacher turned trusted online educator and advocate. In her new book The Small and the Mighty, she highlights 12 lesser-known Americans whose quiet courage changed history. In this episode, she shares the stories of three women whose steady choices and persistence still shape our world today—and shows how small, consistent actions in your own life can create a ripple effect too.

Tune in to hear:

🌎 Why doing the next needed thing can be the most impactful—and most accessible—form of change

🌎 How helping just one person can expand your capacity, bring you hope, and ripple outward in unseen ways

🌎 What it looks like to keep showing up, even when others don’t understand or support you

Sharon’s storytelling is rich and inspiring, and her perspective will help you reframe your role as a mother, a neighbor, and a citizen. You don’t need to be extraordinary to do something that matters. You just need to begin.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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I've never considered myself a person who cares about fashion or "style" so when I first stumbled across Julie Allen on Instagram, I didn’t expect to stick around. But something about the way she talked about clothes felt different. It was kind, approachable, and freeing.

Julie teaches women how to embrace style tools instead of style rules, and as I listened to her, I realized how much that philosophy overlaps with how I think about motherhood. There’s no one right way to be a mom—or to get dressed. It’s about finding what fits you and building a life you love from there.

Julie is a mom of six and a style educator who’s passionate about helping women reconnect with themselves through the way they show up each day. In this episode, she shares three style principles that double as beautiful life lessons for moms—and they might just shift the way you think about both your wardrobe and your parenting.

We’ll talk about:

✨ How to use style (and motherhood) tools instead of rigid rules

✨ Why you’re allowed to express different parts of yourself—on any given day

✨ The importance of building your motherhood on a foundation of your core values

Whether or not you’ve ever cared much about fashion, this episode will help you feel more confident in showing up as you.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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As moms, summer can feel like both a dream and a juggling act. We want to make magical memories for our families… but we also crave order, rest, and a little bit of time for ourselves. So, how do we actually find balance in the chaos of summer break?

In this episode, I’m joined by Jenny Layton—professional organizer, time management coach, and mom of five—who shares a beautifully simple framework that will change the way you think about your summer rhythm. Jenny introduces the idea of “family and personal seasons” and helps us understand how to honor the season we’re in, while still making space for what we need as women.

In this conversation, we explore:

✨ Why summer feels so overwhelming—and how to shift your expectations

✨ How to embrace the season of family life without losing yourself in it

✨ Why even a small “dot of personal time” can restore your sense of peace

✨ How to help your kids learn to rebalance themselves when they’re bored or off-track

Whether you’re a full-time stay-at-home mom, a working mom, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you create a summer that feels more aligned, more joyful, and more you.

For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.

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