Emily Fishman is a mother of four, including a set of 18 month old twins. While she's had three different postpartum experiences, the common theme has been a big strain on her relationship - both with her ex-husband and current partner. 

Emily and I chat about how birth and breastfeeding can result in an overwhelming sense of responsibility and loss of freedom, feeling resentful when partners returned to work and the "I can cope" attitude that left Emily feeling isolated and unsupported. 

Having a birth injury which left her unable to walk for four months after her twins arrived via emergency c-section meant that she was in a position where she was unable to look after  herself or her children - but relying on the support of others turned out to be an incredibly valuable experience.

We talk about why Emily and her partner created YUM, a game for couples that aims to increase connection, the strategies she's learned to feel fulfilled and grounded, and how she's found ways to connect with her partner when they're time poor.

To find out more about YUM: https://www.playyum.com/

Emily's twin breastfeeding cushion recommendation: https://www.babybunting.com.au/my-brest-friend-products.html