Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges

306. Belief 4: Their Push for Independence Isn't Rejection


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Few things hurt like this: the child who once couldn't get enough of you now barely looks up from their phone. Doors are closed. Eye rolls are constant. And somewhere deep down, a quiet fear creeps in—Did I lose them?

In this episode, we're talking about one of the most misunderstood parts of parenting teens: their push for independence. So many parents experience it as rejection, disrespect, or loss—when in reality, something very different may be happening beneath the surface.

I share a client story that perfectly captures this moment, and a perspective that completely changes how parents understand distance, detachment, and emotional growing pains during the teen years.

If you've ever wondered whether your teen's need for space means you did something wrong—or if the closeness you once had is gone for good—this episode will bring relief, clarity, and a much-needed reframe.

Because the goal was never to keep a child. It was to raise a strong, functioning adult who still wants a relationship with you.

If you're feeling disconnected and want help understanding what's actually happening in your relationship, I'd love to support you.

Book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern consult call here

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