DEPTH Work: A Holistic Mental Health Podcast

31. Building Trust in Intimate Friendships: Conflict, Repair, Authenticity, and Commitment with Caitlyn Lune


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There is no cap to the depth and intimacy of our friendships. Yet most of us never learn that we can have this kind of intimacy outside our romantic relationships. In today's episode, you'll hear a vulnerable, real life story of conflict and repair in my friendship with Caitlyn Lune, professional dominatrix and communication nerd, who I have learned so much from when it comes to healing attachment wounds and building trust in friendships.

We also talk about: 

  • Early childhood experiences impacting our attachment styles
  • Bisexuality in female friendships
  • Authentically relating 
  • Undoing the mother wound and mother projections onto friendships
  • How we can use boundaries to avoid intimacy
  • Learning to tell the "microscopic truth" while undoing our stories and projections
  • Commitment in both friendships and romantic relationships

  • Caitlyn is a professional dominatrix, performer, and sacred touch provider in Portland, Oregon. Coming of age in the wildest city in the world, NYC, parties, kink, and psychedelia became part of her lifestyle with a true north on personal growth and radical self-expression. In 2016, she began throwing parties for swingers and sex curious to have a safe place to explore. Combining her fascination for the erotic with deep emotional embodiment practices, she pursued training in tantric teachings. Caitlyn loves the home she shares with two partners and is connected to broader community through the pulse of the life force that ties us all together. 


    Caity's Website : heiresstoeros.com


    Links

    Get bonus episodes on substack! ⁠⁠https://depthwork.substack.com/⁠⁠

    Reclaiming All Parts of You: Healing Shame Workbook & Meditation :  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://witty-creator-9045.ck.page/e89cafda64⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Resources

    Conscious Loving - the Journey to Co-Commitment: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/235625.Conscious_Loving


    Disclaimer: The DEPTH Work Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Information on this podcast in no way to be construed or substituted as psychological counseling, psychotherapy, mental health counseling, or any other type of therapy or medical advice.

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