This week’s conversation is hosted, as always, by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Turning Towards Life

02:21 The Importance of Time and Choices

05:37 Practicing What Matters: Insights from Chloe Caldwell

10:08 The Impact of Our Practices on Our Lives

15:07 Awareness of Time and Intentions

19:09 The Role of Social Media in Shaping Us

24:28 Exploring New Practices and Joyful Experimentation

32:32 The Value of External Perspectives on Our Practices

38:01 Conclusion and Reflection on Our Practices

Here’s our source for this week:

My dad passed away last December, and he was in the top three closest people to me over my life. He used to have a phrase he used with his guitar students: “You get good at what you do. If you practice guitar, you get really good at guitar. If you don’t practice, you get really good at not practicing.”

I love this phrase because you can apply it to every single thing in life, in ways both literal and abstract. If you write, you get good at writing If you look at Instagram, you get good at looking at Instagram. If you walk, you get good at walking. If you swim, you get good at swimming. If you write, you get good at writing. If you don’t write, you get really good at not writing. If you look at Instagram, you get REALLY good at looking at Instagram.

I think my dad’s lesson seeped into my brain from hearing him say it so much. It wasn’t advice as much as a notion. Now I pass it along to my students and think about it once a day. It seems simple and like something we all know, logically, but the way it is phrased really drives it home.

When he died, one of his guitar students wrote, “Rob was good at love and music. It’s what he did.”

via Cheryl Strayed’s Substack

Photo by Majkl Velner on Unsplash

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Cheryl Strayed

Chloé Caldwell

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