April 09, 2025

435: MAKE YOUR MOVE! Kait & JJ Tomlin Drop the HEAT on Why Love Is Forged, Not Found, Red Flags vs. Deal-Breakers, Sliding into the DMs, and Why Women SHOULD Drop the Hanky

1 hour 9 minutes

In today's swipe-right culture, many believe love is something you stumble upon—a serendipitous event. But what if that mindset is sabotaging your relationships? What if true love is less about finding and more about forging? This week on Win Today, Kait and JJ Tomlin, renowned dating coaches and hosts of the Heart of Dating podcast, join us to dismantle dating myths and offer raw insights into building intentional relationships.

They delve into:

The myth of "the one" and why love is intentionally built, not passively found.
Differentiating between red flags and deal-breakers—and why knowing the difference can save you heartache.
The art of sliding into DMs with authenticity and respect in the digital age.
Empowering women to "drop the hanky"—taking initiative without compromising femininity.

In an era where ghosting is rampant and commitment is fleeting, Kait and JJ provide a refreshing perspective rooted in authenticity, intentionality, and faith. Whether you're single, dating, or reevaluating your relationship approach, this conversation offers actionable insights to navigate modern romance with clarity and purpose.

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April 09, 2025

435: MAKE YOUR MOVE! Kait & JJ Tomlin Drop the HEAT on Why Love Is Forged, Not Found, Red Flags vs. Deal-Breakers, Sliding into the DMs, and Why Women SHOULD Drop the Hanky

1 hour 9 minutes

They delve into:

The myth of "the one" and why love is intentionally built, not passively found.
Differentiating between red flags and deal-breakers—and why knowing the difference can save you heartache.
The art of sliding into DMs with authenticity and respect in the digital age.
Empowering women to "drop the hanky"—taking initiative without compromising femininity.

Episode Links