When we become caregivers, any illusion we had of being in control in our lives can be lost. We are often unable to control disease progression, our loved one's pain, and broken systems, just to name a few. This lack of control can make some people cling more tightly to what they have left and can make others let go altogether. In this episode, Justin and Allison talk about how they have experienced this lack of control and how supporters can help.