The Stepmom Side Podcast

#86: The Stepmom Identity Crisis – Doing the “Mom” Things Without the Credit


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In this episode, Alicia dives into a common struggle many stepmoms face: doing all the “mom” things but not getting the recognition or credit for it. As a stepmom, it can feel emotionally draining to pour your heart and energy into your stepkids, only to be seen as “just” the stepmom.

Alicia discusses the disconnect between the work you’re putting in and the lack of acknowledgment, especially when your partner and the ex are in constant communication. Even in the most amicable co-parenting situations, it’s hard not to feel like an outsider. This feeling of being undervalued can make you feel less than and emotionally drained.

Throughout this episode, Alicia shares how to manage these emotions, why your role is important, and how to reclaim your confidence as a stepmom. Learn how to handle this identity issue with grace, find recognition within yourself, and embrace the love you give your family, even when it doesn’t come with the “mom” title.

Takeaways from this episode include:

  • Understanding the emotional toll of doing the "mom" things without the credit.
  • How the constant communication between your partner and the ex can make you feel like an outsider.
  • Tips for reclaiming your worth and embracing your role as a stepmom, even if you’re not "the mom."
  • How to avoid burnout and feel validated in your role within your blended family.

If you're a stepmom who has struggled with feeling undervalued or out of place, this episode is for you. Remember, you're not alone, and your role matters – even if it's not always recognized.

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