Description:
 Life is hard—and family and marriage, as part of God’s design, come with their own challenges. Just because something is hard doesn’t mean it’s wrong. In this episode, we unpack the tension between fulfilled dreams and unmet expectations. We explore the trap of believing, “I’ll be happy when…” and how comparison can steal our joy. What happens when reality doesn’t match the dreams we had?

We dive into the truth that God’s dreams for us are often bigger—and harder—than what we imagine. Yet, it’s through surrender and perseverance that we discover deeper joy. Drawing from Scripture, we reflect on what it means to embrace the hard work, steward what’s been given, and trust that barren places can become fertile ground for God’s purposes.

Key Themes:

• The mindset of "I’ll be happy when…" and the dangers of unrealistic expectations
• How comparison leaves us disappointed
• Trusting that God’s dreams for us are greater than our own
• Enduring hard seasons with faith, knowing that God rewards those who steward well

Scriptural Truths:

• Romans 12 – Living as a sacrifice, transformed by God
• Luke 9:23 – Taking up our cross daily
• Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trusting and submitting to God’s plan
• Psalm 23 – Finding comfort and provision in every season

Reflection Questions:

• How do I surrender and grieve disappointments when things don’t go as planned?
• What does it look like to truly give my dreams to Jesus?
• Is the joy I seek found in a fulfilled dream, or in surrendering my dream to Him?
• Can the barren places in my life become fertile ground for God’s purposes?

Join us as we reflect on the joy that comes not from ease, but from faithfulness, endurance, and trusting God’s bigger picture—even when it looks nothing like we imagined.

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