A HOLY MESS - CHRISTIAN, ANXIOUS, REGRET, SHAME, GRIEF, AA

Hello you awesome humans!

We're diving deep into something not many are talking about: the real difference between shame and guilt. 

You know that feeling when you mess up (like forgetting to mail thank you cards for four months... yes, I'm calling myself out) and suddenly you're spiraling into "I always do this" and "I'm not enough"?

That's not just guilt, friend.

That's shame talking.

And there's a bigggg difference.

In this episode, we're unpacking:

If you're exhausted from being your own harshest critic, this one's for you.

Let's break free from shame together, shall we?

Remember: You get to be human AND holy at the same time. And nothing - absolutely nothing - can separate you from God's love. Not even those unmailed thank you cards. 🤍

Grateful YOU'RE here!

Much love,

Dani

P.S. To look at your life, no one would ever guess at the regret and secret limiting beliefs inside. If this is you, email me at [email protected], and I will send you a link to an upcoming free workshop I'm hosting that you won't want to miss. Just email the "workshop link," and I will get you the Zoom link. 

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Today, I'm talking a little bit about forgiveness and how I've come to realize that true forgiveness is a healing journey, not a one-time decision.

And what a process it can be... if you're struggling with forgiveness, hang in there!

Enjoy today's episode!

To look at your life, no one would ever guess at the regret and secret limiting beliefs inside. If this is you, email me at [email protected], and I will send you a link to an upcoming free workshop I'm hosting that you won't want to miss. Just email the "workshop link," and I will get you the Zoom link. 

Much love,

Dani

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Welcome! Today, I'm just sharing from my heart and a bit more about my struggles and the process of finding peace in this messy world...one day at a time.

Enjoy! 

Glad you're here!

xo!

Dani

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Do you ever feel like you're getting tackled from every direction?

In this episode, we're talking about hearing God's voice through the chaos-- AND one way to keep the faith as we move through it all.

And, I'm sharing a story about Zac and his football game last week.

The video of the awesome play I'm talking about is coming soon... join my email list to see it first, or follow my YouTube Channel.

🙏 Key Encouragement:

• You're not alone in your struggles

📖 Scripture Reference: Hebrews 12:1-2 - "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders..."

🎵 Featured Song: "Winning Streak" by Jelly Roll Key lyric: "Nobody walks in on a winning streak"

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Remember: You're loved, you're valuable, and you're worth it. Keep running your race - there are people in your corner cheering you on.

I'm so glad you're here,

Dani

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Hi friend!

I first heard this quote in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous, and I LOVE it.

It has made even the most difficult days brighter for me.

I encourage you to find quotes like this or use this one to remind yourself on hard days, things will get better.

One of my other favorite quotes is, "This too shall pass... it may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass!"--laughter is also the best medicine when you're struggling. :) 

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Keywords: Grief, Hope, Healing, Perseverance, Faith, Self-doubt, Overcoming shame, Emotional health, Spiritual growth, God's grace, Prayer, Community, Resilience, Acceptance, Personal growth, Transformation, Encouragement, Mental health, Spiritual warfare, Christian living, AA, Christian recovery, Christian hope, Jesus

Hey there, beautiful souls! 🌟

Ever feel like your faith and your messy life are on two different planets?

You're not alone. In this episode, we're diving deep into The Feel Better Journey - a lifeline for all of us stumbling through this holy mess called life.

We're talking:

• Life recovery that doesn't ignore your faith 🙏

Join me and my amazing therapist, Jim Beebe, in today's episode as we unpack this transformative program- The Feel Better Journey.

It's everything I wish I had 15 years ago when I was fumbling through recovery, trying to reconcile my faith with my reality.

If you're wrestling with grief, shame, regret, or just feeling stuck in your spiritual growth, this episode is your permission slip to seek help and hope. AND join this round of my program!

Doors are open to The Feel Better Journey program and community now and close Friday, Oct 4th, but don't wait.

🎉Join now and access the program right away. 

💪Sign up here.

I can't wait to see you inside the program. Let's feel better together.

Much love,

Dani

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Keywords: Life recovery, Spiritual growth, Christian coaching, Emotional healing, Faith struggles, Community support, Personal transformation, Biblical wisdom, Grief and loss, Overcoming shame, Anxiety management, Finding purpose, Holistic healing, Christian mental health, Practical faith tools, Spiritual direction, Recovery and faith integration, Overcoming life's challenges, Christian self-improvement, Faith-based personal development

Hey friend!

Life got you feeling like Mike Tyson just gave you a right hook? Yeah, we've all been there.

Remember, your holy mess is exactly where God does His best work.

So, if you're feeling kicked in the teeth by life, tune in, and let's rediscover those dreams together. Because guess what? Jesus is NOT done with you yet!

I share a bit about dropping our daughter off at college for the first time, and wow, has it been a doozy season adjusting for me? Change is never fun! But it can be purposeful. Our time at her college reminded me how hopeful youth can be. It reminded me how, after living through different aspects of life, we can become cynical and even lose hope.

So, that was the inspiration for today's episode. I hope it blesses you!

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Your sensitivity is a superpower, not a weakness

📖 Scripture Reference: Romans 15:13 (Check it out – it's a game-changer!)

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Remember, you're more loved than you can imagine...

xo! Dani 💖

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So, I had this weird morning where I wore my shirt backward (don't ask 😅). But you know what? It got me thinking about how we sometimes feel in life - like everything's just... off.

So today, I'm briefly talking about:

• Feeling stuck or out of place (been there!)

I also mention a song by Lauren Daigle and that old "Footprints" prayer - because sometimes we need the reminder, right?

Bottom line: You're not alone in this mess. There's hope, I promise. Let's keep trudging through together!

So much love to you!

Dani :)

P.S. I'm cheering you on...

P.P.S. If this hits home and blesses you, please share it because sharing is caring! 😉

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Not many of us would choose our struggles or the paths of hardship we have to walk out in this life.

So when you meet someone walking through hell, and they say, "I wouldn't trade or give up all I've gained walking this hard road." --I think it's 100% worth listening to what they say!

And that's our guest today. My dear friend Deb Schultz is with us, and her journey has been inspiring and challenging. She's walking through stage 4 ovarian cancer, and it's been a difficult and long road. And somehow, through it all, she's finding joy and purpose within her suffering. Her resilient spirit and attitude are contagious.

I hope her words of wisdom and encouragement bless you! And she's hilarious! Enjoy this conversation and getting to know Deb.

Glad you're here,

Dani

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159. One Of The Real Reasons You're Feeling Distant From God--Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with God Despite Past Hurts

One of the Real Reasons You're Feeling Distant from God—Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with God Despite Past Hurts

Feeling distant from God? You're not alone, friend. In this episode, we explore how our earthly relationships, especially with our parents, can impact our connection with our Heavenly Father. But don't worry—there's hope!

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Remember, you're more loved than you can imagine and less broken than you feel. Keep trudging through your beautiful mess—God's right there with you.

Song: Check out CC Winans' "The Goodness of God" for an extra dose of encouragement!

Enjoy.

Much love,

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Keywords: Reconnecting with God, Healing past hurts, Emotional triggers, Spiritual growth, Father wound, Self-regulation, Overcoming shame, Accepting God's acceptance, Faith and courage, Emotional healing, Spiritual resilience, Inner peace, Mindfulness in faith, Overcoming spiritual distance, Transforming pain into purpose, Work-life balance, High-achiever struggles, Spiritual self-care, Balancing success and spirituality, Emotional intelligence in faith, Christian Life Coach.