When you hurt someone, you immediately know that you've placed an emotional barrier between you and your spouse. Your relationship is now fractured, and it's time to apologize. Make sure you apologize to them in their primary language of apology.

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What if you and your spouse score equally on the love language test? Express your love for them in all 5 love languages, but make sure you emphasize your love for them in their primary love language.

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When you and your spouse are separated due to travel, how do you express your love to them if their love language is physical touch? Call and tell them how much you would want to express your love in a physical way if they were at home. Your spouse will feel your love emotionally.

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We are emotional creatures, and one of our deepest desires it to feel loved. The feeling of being in love isn't meant to last forever. The heart of love is making the choice to affirm your love in the love language of your spouse.

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What is the true source of anger? Anger is rooted in our God-given sense of right and wrong because we are made in God's image. We want what's just and fair because God desires justice and fairness.

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Research shows that the "in love" feeling isn't really love at all. Falling in love isn't a conscious choice, it's a feeling. True love is a choice that requires effort and seeks the well-being of the other person.

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What do you do when your "in love" feelings begin to wear off? Understand that those feelings will wear off over time, but emotional love will endure the test of time if you learn to speak each other's love language.

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When you discover that your marriage has areas that need to be improved, make it a point to attend a marriage conference for a tune up.

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The euphoric experience of falling in love may give you the illusion of having an intimate relationship. It's not that you're insincere about what you think and feel, but it's unrealistic to assume you and your spouse will never hurt each other in the future. 

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Sometimes you may say "I forgive you" but it's obvious by your behavior that you haven't. You won't be able to forgive if you haven't lifted the penalty of their offense.

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