Danny Lavery welcomes back his wife, Gracy Lavery, a writer and academic based in Brooklyn.

The Lavery’s offer advice to someone who is wondering the next step in a marriage where one person desires polyamory. Another letter writer is wondering if she should response to an email from her younger brother who made her high school years hell.

Need advice? Send Danny a question here.

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