A submissive wife should pause before venting to friends or family about her husband's flaws. Those imperfections you want to change? They’re the very traits that may have made him choose you instead of someone else. Remember—he’s the man you fell in love with. If he changes into someone else to fit your mold, will he still be the man who stole your heart? Submission means accepting him fully, not trying to remake him. Support him, love him, pray for him—but never belittle him or try to reshape him to your liking. What you call flaws may be the very pieces of him that complete your life.