The Power of Consistency in a D/s Dynamic | Dom Sub Devotion Podcast

Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we delve into the importance of consistency and persistence in maintaining a loving 24/7 D/s dynamic. 

We discuss how a steady and predictable approach creates a safe space for the submissive partner to relax and let go of control. 

We also explore the emotional aspects of dominance and submission, emphasizing the need for the dominant partner to manage their own discomfort and emotional reactions to foster a deeper connection. 

By sharing personal experiences and insights, we aim to help listeners understand how to navigate and thrive in a power exchange dynamic.

Enjoy! 

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources: 

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

00:33 The Importance of Persistence and Consistency

01:43 The Role of Structure in a DS Relationship

02:38 Embracing Chaos and Letting Go

05:58 The Journey of Unwinding Patterns

11:00 The Shift in Leadership Dynamics

14:54 The Path to Authenticity and Freedom

24:20 The Challenge of Letting Go of Control

27:47 Balancing Submission and Voice

28:23 Finding Worthiness and Speaking Up

31:01 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Authenticity

32:37 Dealing with Discomfort in Relationships

33:05 Living Beyond the Box

36:10 Emotional Expression and Intimacy

38:43 The Journey of Dominance and Submission

43:46 The Power of Emotional Connection

50:52 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

Enrollments are open for Rapture, our 5 month course teaching you how to build a healthy, loving D/s dynamic. Click here to learn more about Rapture. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture We begin on January 16th, 2025, so don’t wait! 

Episode 69: Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage

In this episode, we reflect on six years since the beginning of our Dom/sub dynamic. 

When we began this journey together, we were already 8 years deep into a very vanilla, and very unconscious relationship. And the process of integrating power exchange dynamics into our marriage has made every part of our relationship better. 

We had to learn new skills. Unlearn old ways of connecting and experiencing intimacy, and find a deeper, more honest, transparent way of relating each other in order to make D/s work. 

We’ve experienced such drastic improvements in every part of our relationship as a Dom/sub couple, compared to our relationship as it was before. Power exchange, and Dominance and submission, have led to better communication, relationships with ourselves, ability to speak up and express our true desires with each other, brought us closer together, reignited our sex life, more respect for ourselves and each other, healing from past traumas,  and so much more. 

Tune into this episode and witness how these power exchange dynamics have improved a marriage and brought us to new levels of intimacy, passion, and connection, even after 14 years of marriage and commitment.

Enjoy! 

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Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources: 

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion

00:33 Reflecting on Six Years of DS Marriage

01:28 The Evolution of Communication

05:21 Building Self-Awareness and Presence

08:57 Trust and Self-Trust in Relationships

19:56 Expressiveness in Dominance and Submission

25:20 Taking Action and Letting Go

32:13 The Role of Dominance and Submission

32:49 Communication and Avoiding Landmines

33:54 Letting Go and Taking Charge

37:27 Responsibility and Ownership

44:04 Commitment and Trust

58:45 The Skill of Patience

01:03:06 The Transformative Power of D/S Dynamics

01:04:00 Conclusion and Gratitude

Enrollments are open for Rapture, our 5 month course teaching you how to build a healthy, loving D/s dynamic. Click here to learn more about Rapture. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture We begin on January 16th, 2025, so don’t wait!

Episode 68: D/s without punishments, overcoming “nice guy” syndrome, and more!

Welcome to the latest episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we have an engaging discussion surrounding the use of punishments within a 24/7 DS (Dominant/Submissive) marriage. We address questions from our Instagram followers about our personal choice to exclude punishment from our dynamic and share insights about why it doesn't work for us.

We also delve into the challenges of maintaining authentic communication, and how to navigate changes in your dynamic. Additionally, we reflect on the inaccuracies of DS depictions in movies and books, explore how to have healthy communication check-ins with your partner, and reflect on the challenges for good men stepping into Dominant roles.

Tune in to gain thoughtful perspectives and practical advice for fostering a deeply loving and intimate DS relationship.

Enjoy!

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Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

01:14 Discussing Punishments in DS Dynamics

02:35 Personal Boundaries and Experiences

04:50 The Impact of Punishment on Self-Worth

06:52 Fun and Play in DS Relationships

08:55 Correction vs. Punishment

19:28 Questioning the Role of Punishment

24:21 Advice for Couples on Punishment

27:26 The Power of Questioning

28:11 Respect in Communication

30:21 Emotional Expression in Relationships

32:35 The Importance of Open Communication

39:20 Navigating Changing Desires

43:11 Addressing Lower Sex Drive

46:10 Inaccuracies of D/S in Media

51:18 Overcoming Fear in Dominant/Submissive Dynamics

54:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Enrollments are open for Rapture 2025! This five month program begins on January 16th this year, and will take you through a deep instruction and integration of everything you need to know to make D/s work in a long term relationship, whether you're a couple who is already working on this, or solo and wanting these dynamics in your next relationship.

Click https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture to learn more and save your seat before we fill up!

We are ending 2024 with a look back at an incredible year for our lives, our marriage, our D/s dynamic, and this podcast and our business, Infinite Devotion.

And for those of you who are curious, we share a peek ahead into 2025 and some of what we have planned for creating more community amongst our followers, and some other exciting surprises we have in store!

And as we always do on our livestreams, we answer a BUNCH of our viewer questions live, and on the spot!

**Please forgive the audio quality issues we had in this episode...we've made upgrades to prevent this from happening on any of our future episodes!

Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook

Episode 66: Polarity and Masculine/Femin acine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2

Welcome back, Devoted ones!

In this second part of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships.

These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information.

We can’t wait for you to hear next week’s episode as well, so make sure you’re subscribed!

Enjoy!

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Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook

Episode 65: Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1

Welcome back, Devoted ones!

In this first of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships.

These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information.

We can’t wait for you to hear next week’s episode as well, so make sure you’re subscribed!

Enjoy!

~~~~~

Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

01:21 Understanding Polarity in Relationships

07:34 The Concept of Masculine and Feminine Energies

14:19 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

18:39 The Masculine Shield and Emotional Sensitivity

27:21 Understanding Receptive and Expressive Energies

27:46 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

29:25 Personal Experiences with Energy Inversion

30:54 Living Authentically in Relationships

34:09 Divine Masculine and Feminine Roles

46:44 Balancing Submissiveness and Responsibilities

52:58 Conclusion and Next Steps

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me!

Episode 64:Embracing the Unknown: Nomadic life and our Dom/sub dynamic

Welcome back, Devoted ones!

We recorded this episode about three weeks after leaving home to become full time nomads, living on the road in our RV and traveling the country.

This nomadic life is something we’ve looked forward to for many years, but the actual process of leaving the only place Dawn has ever called home has been an intense one, to say the least.

Up until now, she’s never lived more than 20 minutes from the place where she grew up, and there are many generations before her who have almost all stayed very close to home. So this uprooting was an even bigger deal than either of us could have anticipated.

This episode discusses what some of that process has been like for her, and how our Dom/sub dynamic has given her the space to let go of what was, so that she can embrace more of herself.

We lean pretty heavily into the concepts from Don Miguel Ruiz’s book “The Four Agreements” in this discussion, and if you haven’t read it, we highly recommend it!

Enjoy!

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Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

00:33 Embarking on a Nomadic Journey

01:02 Emotional Challenges and Self-Discovery

02:08 Confronting Deep-Seated Beliefs

10:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission

16:40 Breaking Free from Programming

22:05 Choosing Self and Authenticity

34:50 Exploring Feminine and Masculine Roles

35:25 Tuning into Intuition and Experience

36:01 Disconnect from Source and Societal Expectations

36:56 Encouragement to Be Yourself

39:01 Journey of Self-Commitment

41:01 Facing Fears and Authenticity

43:07 The Challenge of Letting Go

45:28 Confronting Relationship Fears

53:45 Inner Child Meditation Experience

01:01:42 Physical Manifestations of Emotional States

01:06:48 Embracing Change and New Beginnings

01:09:41 Conclusion and Gratitude

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me!

Episode 63: Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth

Welcome back, Devoted ones!

In this episode, we focus a lot on how Andrew has helped lead Dawn towards more freedom in her life.

One of the highest callings we have, when someone submits to us, is to use that power for good. Not to use that person for our own purposes, but to guide them to the best place we can in their own life.

My goal for Dawn has always been to set her free from her own constraints and limitations. And this episode is a deep and vulnerable look into that whole process.

And what I have had to become as a man, in order to lead her towards this freedom has been the biggest gift of my own life. Click here to see more about how I have worked to become the Dominant that I have. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1

Enjoy!

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Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

04:11 The Concept of Presence

11:16 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Freedom

12:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission in Personal Growth

16:08 Dealing with Emotional Triggers and Fear

24:53 The Impact of Fear on Daily Life

30:28 Embracing Uncertainty

31:34 The Role of Control in Submission

33:17 The Importance of Presence

34:38 Navigating Real-Life Dynamics

37:16 The Art of Patience and Persistence

42:15 Understanding Fear and Triggers

44:49 The Dominant's Perspective on Fear

50:17 Trust and Communication

55:22 The Role of the Dominant

58:27 Concluding Thoughts

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips

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Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship.

We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we’re separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other.

This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness.

Enjoy!

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Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion

00:33 Understanding Codependency

02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency

03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission

05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships

07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery

08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence

10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union

14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness

18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns

28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions

29:17 Facing Deep Wounds

32:11 The Importance of Authenticity

33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence

36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics

38:53 Overcoming Codependency

41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections

48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships

53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the topic of 'mindless obedience' within the context of a loving 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic.

Inside this episode, we explore the intricacies and challenges Dawn has faces in letting go of control and embracing submission, and how doing so has helped to enhance intimacy and connection.

And she shares her personal experiences and challenges she has faced in surrendering ego and consciousness to achieve a deeper, more authentic D/s dynamic.

The episode highlights the journey of overcoming fears, the importance of trust, and the profound impact of true submission on mutual growth and fulfillment in a power exchange dynamic.

Social Links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion

YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion

Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe

Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Free Resources:

FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance

FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass

FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds

FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations

01:43 Exploring Mindless Obedience

01:57 The Kink of Dominance and Submission

02:37 Consciousness and Awareness in Obedience

03:06 Personal Journey into Obedience

03:51 The Role of Masculine and Feminine Energy

09:00 Challenges of Obedience Outside the Bedroom

09:31 Overcoming the Fear of Becoming a Doormat

10:46 Mindless Obedience vs. Ego

13:53 Practical Examples of Letting Go

19:16 Fitness and Control: A Personal Struggle

23:12 The Importance of Feeling Safe

27:30 Agency and Self-Ownership in Submission

33:34 Embracing Self-Love and Connection

33:53 Overcoming Self-Judgment and Hatred

34:23 The Journey to Inner Peace and Freedom

35:16 Living in the Present Moment

37:28 Trust and Surrender in Relationships

38:07 The Concept of Surrendering Consciousness

39:24 Facing Resistance and External Forces

41:06 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Freedom

43:37 Navigating Fear and Pain

55:21 The Role of Memory and Forgetfulness

01:04:01 The Joy of Mindless Obedience

01:05:42 Final Thoughts and Encouragement