Mike S. from Denver, CO and David M. from Palm Springs, CA speaking about steps 8 and 9 at the Fellowship of the Spirit in Conyers, GA - April 7th 2014

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Mike & David delve into the critical steps of making amends in Alcoholics Anonymous, focusing on Steps 8 and 9. Mike shares his journey of initially doubting the existence of God but ultimately finding faith through the amends process. He emphasizes that true change happens when we become willing to take responsibility for our past actions without excuses, writing out detailed amends to prevent self-justification. He recounts life-altering experiences, including turning himself in for old warrants and making amends to dangerous figures from his past, proving that either the program works or it doesn’t. The discussion highlights the importance of making amends with an open heart, not as a selfish act to clear one's conscience but as a means to restore relationships and integrity. Stories of financial amends, amends to deceased loved ones, and the profound realization that most people don’t even remember the harms we agonize over further illustrate the ego-deflation required for deep spiritual growth. The takeaway is clear: the amends process isn’t about protecting ourselves; it’s about stepping into the world fearlessly, knowing that honesty, responsibility, and faith will guide the way.