Actor Problems

There's a lot of us who want and deserve a different life than the one we're getting. And what kills me is that many of us aren't taking action to make that life happen. This week is pure tough love, plus motivation. It's followed by three action steps you can take toward reaching that life.

Notes and things…

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Previous Episodes Referenced….

Episode #32: Why I Hate Being Excellent

Episode #34: How to Be Bulletproof, Even Through Hardship - With Ross Grant

Books....

The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks

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Other links…

Alexi Panos - "Who Are You?"

Resources to check out

Courtney Rioux - Life Coach and founder of The Whole Artist; Actor and VO artist; Recurring on NBC's Chicago Med.

Breathe University: "Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location." (BU Website)

Vagabond School of the Arts: One of my favorite acting schools in Chicago! From on camera classes to voice over introduction, all the way to the amaaaazing business classes: You gotta check them out :)

Backstage.com! These blogs are GREAT for when you're killing time in the train, or looking for something on your phone when you need a break from social media. Here's a list of some of my favorites….(I'm a little biased…..)

The Actor CEO podcast: One of the best acting podcasts I've found featuring Mike Moreno.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good now...)

For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Ross Grant is #notperfect. He'll always admit that part.

But what he's especially vulnerable is how he spent his early 20s - drinking, going into work hungover, and hoping one day he'd just "make it" as an actor….

Fast forward to today: The guy runs an online acting community called Act on This TV with TON of hours of interviews with actors, agents, casting directors, and other receognizable names all across the UK entertainment industry. You can also find him on his vlog, #WatchRoss, as well as connect with his high performance mindset program for actors, "Bulletproof Actor."

Ross is a class act. It's my pleasure to introduce him to the #notperfect community here in the states.

Notes and things…

The #NotPerfect Family:

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Previous Episodes Referenced….

Why Failure Isn't a Bad Thing - With Bobby Wilhelmson

Books....

• Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers
• The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks

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Other links…

• Ross Grant's Vlog: #WatchRoss
• Act On This - The TV Actor's NetWork
• Come check out Ross' Facebook group, live chats, and online community for actors!
• Join Ross' Program: bulletproofactor.com until 15th of November!

Email Ross for Free Videos!: [email protected]

Coaching Recommendations

Anthony Meindl- Anthony Meindl's Actor Workshop

• Website
• YouTube Channel

Ross Grant's Program

• Bulletproof Actor

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching

Instagram: @tony.rossi

Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show.

For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

The Red Sox Won It All…..

….I still wasn't satisfied.

On Sunday night, I learned the hard way something reeeeeeallly important to remember - even after your favorite sports team wins it all.

Notes and things…

The #NotPerfect Family:

The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me and the rest of my #notperfect-ers twice a month. You'll get exclusive content just for being in the group, plus access to a private #notperfect facebook group. Click here to join!

Want more free content?

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Wanna hear more about my story?

The gang over at Therapy without a Degree (hosted by Joe Fucarino) had me on as a guest - listen to my full interview here!

Previous Episodes Referenced….

Episode #29 - What You Haven't Considered That Stress Is Doing To You - With Amber Maria Gerbode Grant

Episode #31 - Conquering Your Limitations, Even With Depression - with Joe Fucarino

Books....

The Five Second Rule - Mel Robbins

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

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Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching

Instagram: @tony.rossi

Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good now...)

For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

I used to think being excellent was a good thing.

And then I read The Big Leap by Gay Hendrix.

All I'm saying is we need to raise our standards - even higher than we think. This week's podcast is going to give you a taste of the #NotPerfect Family, as you'll hear a clip from a call where I told group members why not live in your "zone of excellence."

Notes and things...

The #NotPerfect Family:

The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me and the rest of my #notperfect-ers twice a month. You'll get exclusive content just for being in the group, plus access to a private #notperfect facebook group. Click here to join!

Breathe University:

"Breathe University is the eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location. It includes video courses taught by Dr. Eric Thomas, with 451+ exclusive on-demand videos and 187+ total hours of online instruction, mastermind calls, live events, and resources. You can start anytime and you can work through the material at your own pace." (via breatheuniversity.com)

My #SundaySelfcare: Everyone who has ever worked in customer service needs to hear this

I do Sunday Selfcares ever week on facebook and instagram! Connect with me there - or tune in live :)

Books....

The Big Leap - by Gay Hendrix

"New York Times bestselling author Gay Hendricks demonstrates how to go beyond your internal limits, release outdated fears and learn a whole new set of powerful skills and habits to liberate your authentic greatness." (via amazon.com)

Crushing It by Gary Vaynerchuck

Crushing It! is a state-of-the-art guide to building your own path to professional and financial success, but it's not about getting rich. It's a blueprint to living life on your own terms." (via amazon.com)

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

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I think sometimes we think the world is out to get us.

Which is silly. Y'all - the world only hates us if we tell ourselves that story, then look for evidence for it to be true.

Say it with me: It's. Not. True.

What is true is that there's a lot of people in the world who truly want to connect with us. The trick? We have to let them connect with us. Unfortunately, many of us have a wall up that prevents others from getting anywhere remotely close!

This week, I'm going to share with you a story of how a reeeeeally embarrassing moment actually let to a cool connection.

And I think you're gonna like it :)

Things to check out! Wanna join the family? The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me twice a month. You'll get bonus Tony-tips, plus a chance to chat about whatever's on your mind. It's hard enough when things suck...but harder when you go about it alone. So...don't :) Join the #notperfect Family. Jump on the phone twice a month with me and the rest of the fam (sometimes more!). You'll get access to all the recorded calls, plus a private group just for us. https://www.tonyrossicoaching.com/the-notperfect-family

Previous episodes referenced:

Episode #24: An Interview With Kelsey Mathes

Episode #27: Why Failure Isn't a Bad Thing - With Bobby Wilhelmson

Check out my articles on Backstage!

https://www.backstage.com/magazine/author/tony-rossi/

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Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good now...) For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

"This is not how my story ends." 

Those were words that Amber Maria Gerbode Grant said after she found herself very sick in her late 20s. Despite the confusion from her doctors, Amber decided to dig deeper, keep looking, and find a way to be a whole, healthy person. 

Today she's an integrative and holistic nutrition coach and certified life coach. She works with women in a year long program to help them develop sustainable, healthy habits without any shortcuts.

What do shitty politicians, that one casting director who won't call you in, and all your haters have in common?

They're stopping you from reaching your goals.

....except it's not their fault. It's yours.

We all have a choice where we focus our energy. Are you focusing on the task....or are you looking at the noise?

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Previous Tony Rossi Show episodes referenced:

• Episode #22: The Fears I Have When Others Think "Things Are Going So Well For You!"
• Episode #28: The Tony Rossi Show - LIVE!

Helpful resources referenced:

• Ryan Holiday Article for the Observer - "Seriously, You - OK, We - Need To Stop Watching The News This Year

• Shakeology: With a potent blend of premium superfoods, proteins, probiotics, antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals, Shakeology is daily fuel for your goals.

• The Chalene Show: Get healthy, balance your life, and improve relationships and productivity with New York Times Best Selling Author, Celebrity Fitness Trainer & Diet Debunker Chalene Johnson and guests. No BS. Chalene delivers straight talk and simple strategies (with a side of humor) so that every show delivers a return on your investment of time.The De-Clutter Project (Part 1 of 4):
• Marie TV: Marie Forleo's mission is to help you realize your greatest potential and use your unique talents to change the world. In her award winning online show, MarieTV, Marie answers viewer questions and provides tips for living life to the fullest, and turning your dreams into a profitable reality

Decision Fatigue

• Lewis Howes School of Greatness Podcast: Lewis Howes is an American author, entrepreneur, and former professional Arena League football player. Learn and hear the stories from various successful people around the world, become inspired, motivated and educated with the SCHOOL OF GREATNESS. Tracy McMillian Episode

• Vagabond School: "You've taken the classes. You have the talent. You're ready to take your passion and make it your CAREER. Vagabond's offering of Acting as a Business classes can help you do just that."

• Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within

Audible:

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show? An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever! For a free trial, visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching

Instagram: @tony.rossi

Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good now...) For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey, just remember... you are enough. Regardless of where you are in your life and career.

#notperfect #stillenough

Today's podcast is an interview with Chicago actor and fitness trainer Bobby Wilhelmson.

Bobby has been focusing on self care and improvement for the last 5 years and now wants to pay it forward by helping out anybody that needs it. Along with his wife, Jessi, he continues to stay motivated and hungry by applying what he's learned about health and fitness into his career as an actor. Ideas such as mindfulness, process-oriented mindsets, and investing in people has already started to get him results after just living 6 months in Chicago. More information about Bobby can be found at bobbywilhelmson.com.

Bobby is currently offering to work with Chicago based actors for a STEAL. Check him out at https://www.bobbywilhelmson.com/fitness

Instagram: instagram.com/bawbee_w

Links from me!

• Tony Rossi Show Live Episode#25
• Facebook Live: A message to Andover, North Andover, and Lawrence, Massachusetts.

Note: You can now donate to the cities recovering from the tragic events in the Boston area by visiting this link here.

#Notperfect family sign up...

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Books:

"Notes to an Actor" - Ron Marasco

Youtube links:

• "None of this comes with you" - Preston Smiles
• "The Secrets of Happiness & Longevity" Dan Buettner & Marie Forleo discuss Blue Zones"

Audible:

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show? An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever! For a free trial, visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching

Instagram: @tony.rossi

Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good now...) For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey, just remember... you are enough. Regardless of where you are in your life and career.

#notperfect #stillenough

• I just need that one big paycheck.
• I just want a boyfriend.
• I just need that one, big juicy spthingseaking role on television.

I'm not saying those things aren't nice, nor am I saying that they won't be helpful. What I am going to say to you this week is this: You need more than just "one thing" in order to be happy.

Links and things...

Books

"Why You're Not Married" - Tracy McMillian

"Don't Get Lucky Get Smart" - Alan Cohen

Note - this is only $1.99 on Amazon! (link above)

"Awaken the Giant Within" - Tony Robbins

"The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle" - Jim Rohn

"Sleep Smarter" - Shawn Stevenson

Wanna listen to these? (And get one of them for free?)

Audible: Listen to the books we talk about on the show from where ever you want - the car, the gym, or your commute to rehearsal. Even if you switch devices - you won't lose your place. 30 days for a free membership with the link above and cancel anytime.

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Tracy McMillian

Tracy McMillan is a relationship author, television writer, and matchmaker on NBC's READY FOR LOVE

Below are links to her interview with Lewis Howes School of Greatness podcast as well as a clip from her Super Soul Sunday interview.

5 minute clip

Full interview

Clip from Super Soul Sunday with Oprah Winfrey

Next Door Chicago

A creative community space and café where anyone can ask questions about finances and insurance stuff and find answers. No pressure. No sales pitch. No kidding!

Sign up for free financial coaching at www.nextdoorchicago.com

Do you like the ideas discussed in the Tony Rossi Show? Consider joining the family!

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Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the new sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yes. That's why I sound so good this week.) For editing services (or just to see who the hell this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey friend, just remember... you are enough. Regardless of where you are in your life and career.

#notperfect

The following was recorded at Vagabond School of the Arts on Monday September 4th, 2018.

My cohost was the wonderful Kelsey Mathes

NEWS!

The #notperfect Family is now accepting new members!

DISCOUNT CODE: Use the code TONYROCKS to join at a discounted rate of $27 a month. (Expires Saturday 9/8)

What is the not perfect family??

The #notperfect Family is a monthly membership group.

You'll have access to me, other #notperfect family members, and exclusive monthly content that I won't share anywhere else.

It includes:

-Phone calls twice a month with me.

-A private facebook community

-Exclusive monthly content (new audio, video, or better each month)

Calls with be Sunday evening at 8:00pm central time every other week

FIRST CALL: THIS Sunday 9/9

All members will have a chance to ask questions and listen to others who might be going through something that you are. This gives you the opportunity to get help with your #notperfect challenges, as well as bonus information that you get just from being with others

All members receive access to recorded calls - regardless of whether or not they are present

There will be a "group thread" in our private FB group if anyone wants to comment on what we're talking about.

Links:

Vagabond School of the Arts:

An acting school in Chicago held in high regard by Tony Rossi.

Mission: Our mission is to strengthen the performing artist community in Chicago by giving them a home.

Vision: Our vision is to strengthen the performing artist community in Chicago by giving it a creative, supportive and professional home.

-#SundaySelfcare: The Customer who made me cry

-Tony Rossi Show #24 - An Interview with Kelsey Mathes

-The Naked Angels - Tuesdays at 9

Tuesdays@9 is a free weekly cold reading series founded by the renowned Off-Broadway theater company, Naked Angels, in NYC. Annoyance is proud to be the Chicago outpost for this series. Each week, excerpts from very new work (teleplays, pilots, plays, screenplays, musicals, songs, etc) are cold-cast and presented within a communal and social environment.

Books

Crushing It - Gary Vaynerchuck

Notes to an Actor - Ron Moroscow

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Videos

Why I stopped watching porn

Shoutouts!

Thanks to everyone who asked questions during the Q&A portion!

Scott Hanada

Ali McGarel

Kelly Tietjen