Actor Problems

It's a little TOO easy to focus on the negatives in our acting careers...And when we focus on the negatives, we find more of them. And more...

So let's switch that. I'm sharing three crazy stories that are so crazy they feel like magic.

By listening to these stories, you're giving yourself a better chance of expecting better things to happen to you.

Which - you deserve.

It's all on episode #55 on the Tony Rossi Show.

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You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (Just sayin'.)

NOTE: Don't see an open slot? Email me at [email protected] with the subject "Free chat" and we'll work something out :)

People Tony likes:

• Kendall Ficklin
• • Website
  • Instagram
  • Business of Coaching and Speaking program

• Emily Parrish
• • Instagram (she's coming to Chicago!)

Things Tony likes:

• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.
• Premiere Allergy: Allergy, Asthma & Sinus Care: Tony's highly recommended allergy office in Chicago! (Tell them Tony sent you…)

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

This podcast was edited by Emily Ember

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

WARNING FOR ACTORS: Don't do this.

Please don't. Like, for real. It's toxic. You'll regret it. It never feels good.

...but sometimes, despite knowing alllllll of this…. we'll do it anyway.

It's okay. Don't beat yourself up.. As someone who studies hours upon hours of self care principles- I still do it.

In fact - I did it last week.

Today's podcast covers what this toxic thing is, plus a crucial element that can help all actors when we do inevitably fall victim to it.

It's all on episode #54 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Wanna chat with me? (For free?)

Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.

You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (Just sayin'.)

People Tony likes:

• Kendall Ficklin
• • Website
  • Instagram
  • Business of Coaching and Speaking program

• Ali McGarel
• • Blog
  • Instagram

Books:

• Respect for Acting by Uda Hagen

Listen to it for free on Audible with a free trial! (Sign up here)

Backstage articles:

• Articles written by yours truly

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "Tony Rossi Show Sponsor" in the subject line.

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

We celebrated my birthday.

We celebrated St. Patrick's Day.

It's time to celebrate Women's History month.

Looking at the list of mentors in my life - a lot of them are women. Here are three who have helped me immensely, plus three things you're going to want to write down to remember the next time you're super stressed :)

It's all on episode #53 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Wanna chat with me for free?

Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.

You deserve some help. You're a hard worker.

People Tony likes:

• Kelsey Mathes
• • Website
  • Instagram
  • Meditation for Actors (Sunday March 24th!)
  • The Bliss Party (Sunday April 7th)
• Courtney Rioux
• • Website
  • Instagram
• Dallas Travers
• • Website
  • Instagram

Books....

You are a Badass - Jen Sincero

OR

Listen to it for free on Audible with a free trial! (Sign up here)

Previous episodes

• Episode #16: An Interview with Heather Hiatt
• Episode #24: An Interview with Kelsey Mathes
• Episode #35: Remember This The Next Time You're Being Hard On Yourself
• Episode #44: Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck - A Deep Dive with Kelsey Mathes
• Episode #47: Dealing with Comparison and Feeling "Enough" - with DaJuan Johnson

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "Tony Rossi Show Sponsor" in the subject line.

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Everybody….DRINK!

"....um, do I have to?"

No.

"But - I want to! Is that okay?"

If you're 21 - yes.

"Actually….I feel guilty. Is it wrong that I enjoy drinking?"

As someone who didn't start drinking until college (listen to the episode to find out when in college this was) - I have a lot of thoughts on this topic. At the end of last year, I took a three month break from drinking. I discovered a few things about myself...

Whether you're a drinker or not, it's important to be conscious of how you want to feel as you're allowing yourself to indulge. For some people that's drinking. For others, it's eating sweets. And for some, it means taking a day off to not do work, but instead watch sports….(For the record - I fall into all three of these indulge categories.)

In honor of St. Patrick's Day - let's talk about drinking. And buckle your seat belts….I'm about to get reeeeeally #notperfect and share some more vulnerable moments….

It's all on episode #52 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Disclaimer: If you couldn't tell already, this episode deals with adult topics, including the consumption of alcoholic beverages. It is intended for those who are 21 years of age or older. Thank you for skipping this episode if you are under 21 years of age! We'll be back for more episodes next week :)

Resources:

• Rethink drinking: For anyone who drinks, this site offers valuable, research-based information. What do you think about taking a look at your drinking habits and how they may affect your health? Rethinking Drinking can help you get started.
• Alcoholics Anonymoys: Need help with a drinking problem? Want to know more about AA? Visit this link here. (Don't worry - no one on the Tony Rossi Show team can see if you click the links. Your privacy is safe :) )

Wanna chat with me for free?

Look, hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You deserve some help. You're a hard worker.

Books....

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

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Previous episodes

• Episode #51: BIRTHDAY EDITION! Embrace Getting Older, Even If You're "Not There" Yet…
• Episode #48: The Beautiful Gifts Actors and Single People Have to Offer
• Episode #42 : More Results, Less Effort, More Joy - with Wendy Braun

Other podcasts to check

• Marriage Ain't For SuckaZ: The Marriage Ain't For SuckaZ program, hosted by Quest Green and L. David Harris is a major component in a movement to support couples in their marital success. They provide live interactive and prerecorded programs about love, sex, having children, money, spirituality, life, communication, and anything else to help you thrive and win in your relationships.

Things Tony likes:

• Beachbody On Demand: Stream 700+ Beachbody Workout Programs! You'll get online access to complete fitness programs for any body type and any fitness level. World-class Beachbody programs including 80 Day Obsession™, 21 Day Fix®, PiYo®, 22 Minute Hard Corps™ and Core De Force™.
• • Yoga, cardio, dance, strength & more
  • Download workouts for offline use
  • Workout calendars & progress trackers

    Get your free trial here!

• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

(She's on vacation this week, but we love her all the same!)

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

It's my birthday!

I did a special edition, live on facebook and instagram, all about how I'm not where I thought I'd be at this point in my life….

I love setting goals. I bet you do too. But what happens when we don't hit them by the time we thought we should??

I get reeeeeeally vulnerable with some #notperfect stories this episode and share what didn't happen for me - plus some perspectives for you to use if you ever go through this "Why is this taking so long?" perspective….

It's all on episode #51 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Wanna chat with me for free?

Look, hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You deserve some help. You're a hard worker.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

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Books....

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

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Previous episodes

• Episode #47: Dealing With Comparison and Feeling "Enough" - With DaJuan Johnson
• Episode #34: How to be Bulletproof - Even Through Hardship - With Ross Grant

Friends of Tony!

• Kendall Ficklin (also serving as a coach for Tony. )

Things Tony likes:

• BOSC Master Class - Become a professional coach and speaker through training with Kendall Ficklin

• Think Bigger Tribe - a FREE group for actors run by working LA actor, DaJuan Johnson

• Ali McGarel's Blog - An honest perspective from a young actor, fresh to LA, an incredibly hard worker, and who is just trying to figure out life...

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Wanna be a contributing donor to the podcast??

Head over to www.patreon.com/tonyrossi to learn more!

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Have you ever felt like you weren't as far as you should be in your acting career?

While I always catch myself doing this to a certain degree, I remember it being really bad three years ago….

I was watching the 2016 Tony Awards. And I saw someone I knew. (In Hamilton….)

CUE THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS…

What's wrong with me?

Why am I not getting results??

But you don't need to know someone in Hamilton to start comparing yourself to your peers. This week we're going debunk some myths about comparison, plus give you a perspective on why you're doing better than you think.

It's all on episode #50 of the Tony Rossi Show.

I have a gift for you….

How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend?

...and next weekend?

……..and every weekend for a month?

FOR. FREE :)

For the first time, I'm offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You'll have access to our weekly "Refresh and Reset" calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

Want more free content?

Sign up for my email list and get all my free content in one place. And if there's any discounts - you'll be among the first to hear about it :)

www.tonyrossicoaching.com

Books....

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

To get your first book for FREE visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow and sign up for a 30 day trial. (Keep the book even if you don't keep the membership!)

Previous episodes to check out:

• Episode #48 - The Beautiful Gifts Actors and Single People Have to Offer

Friends of Tony!

• Nick Christopher
• Brad Bass
• David Weiss

Places Tony likes:

• Vagabond School of the Arts:

• Broken Nose Theatre

Article: At the Table wins big at the Jeffs

Article: Chris Jones, 4 Star review

• Steep Theatre

Other stuff to check out!

• Fanatics Commercial (with a swanky, #notperfect guym wearing a Cubs jersey),,,

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Wanna be a contributing donor to the podcast??

Head over to www.patreon.com/tonyrossi to learn more!

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

It's hard enough when you're having a go-through and everything sucks.

It's extra hard when that go-through overstays its welcome.

It's like winter in Chicago: November is meh. December is extra meh (easier with Christmas). January is rough. February…..we Google rent prices in Atlanta.

I'm in the midst of a go-through - and it's HARDER with the cold weather ;)

This week I'll share with you exactly what's been going on, plus three tips I recommend the next time you have your own go-through.

It's all on episode #49 of the Tony Rossi Show.

I have a gift for you….

How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend?

...and next weekend?

...and every weekend for a month?

FOR FREE?? :)

For the first time, I'm offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You'll have access to our weekly "Refresh and Reset" calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

Want more free content?

Sign up for my email list and get all my free content in one place. And if there's any discounts - you'll be among the first to hear about it :)

www.tonyrossicoaching.com

Books....

• Obstacle is the Way - Ryan Holiday

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

To get your first book for FREE visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow and sign up for a 30 day trial. (Keep the book even if you don't keep the membership!)

Previous episodes...

• Episode #48: The Beautiful Gifts Actors and Single People Have to Offer
• Episode #44: Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck - A Deep Dive with Kelsey Mathes
• Episode #17: Some Thoughts on Body Image

Check this out...

• Eric Thomas: "The Tow"

Friends of Tony!

• Kelsey Mathes is a Chicago-based world traveler, and Life-Coach, specializing in Vedic meditation and holistic nutrition. Kelsey's mission is to help clients uplift their lives utilizing ancient, tried-and-true systems, while making them practical for the modern person.
• Website: www.kelseymathes.com
• Instagram: @kammeditation

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Not getting the results you want in your acting career?

I can relate. In more ways than just acting.

On this Valentine's Day, I want to share a message of love. More specifically, times when I didn't receive love. When I reeeeeeally wanted it….

...and yet - my story, as #notperfect as it is - still has a happy ending. Even as a single guy. Listen to the full episode and I'll share with you some mindset shifts, plus why you might not be getting the results you want.

I have a gift for you….

How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend?

...and next weekend?

……..and every weekend for a month?

FOR. FREE :)

For the first time, I'm offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You'll have access to our weekly "Refresh and Reset" calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

Want more free content?

Sign up for my email list and get all my free content in one place. And if there's any discounts - you'll be among the first to hear about it :)

www.tonyrossicoaching.com

Books:

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

To get your first book for FREE visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow and sign up for a 30 day trial. (Keep the book even if you don't keep the membership!)

Previous episodes:

• Episode # 35 - Remember This The Next Time You're Being Hard On Yourself
• Episode #47 - Dealing With Comparison and Feeling Enough - With DaJuan Johnson

Resources to check out:

• Vagabond School of the Arts: An acting school in Chicago held in high regard by Tony Rossi. Their mission is to strengthen the performing artist community in Chicago by giving them a home.Their vision is to strengthen the performing artist community in Chicago by giving it a creative, supportive and professional home.
• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Wanna be a contributing donor to the podcast??

Head over to www.patreon.com/tonyrossi to learn more!

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

You have high standards….yes?

And you're great at setting big goals.

But like….do you ever find yourself waiting to be happier until you've achieved something external?

• "Once I quit my day job, I'll be a lot happier."
• "I just need to book a national commercial. I'll be happier then."
• "Now if I could just find a girlfriend - oh man, then I'd be happy….."

Sure. All of these things would make you happy. But what if I achieved alllll of the awesome things - and still felt unfulfilled??

Meet DaJuan Johnson. He's an actor recurring on BOSCH (Amazon), with credits including Grey's Anatomy, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Days of Our Lives, and General Hospital. Despite having an impressive resume to his name, he still felt he was missing something. So he started Think Bigger Coaching, where he helps actors "STOP spinning and start focusing their dreams, setting some attainable goals and getting to that Oscar speech they've practiced so many times in the mirror!"

He also runs a free facebook group, the Think Bigger Tribe, where he's constantly giving away free information to actors!

Check out today's interview, plus his links and resources below:

Think Bigger Coaching: www.thinkbiggercoaching.com

Think Bigger Tribe: www.facebook.com/groups/thinkbiggertribe

DaJuan's Actor Website: www.dajuanjohnson.com

Connect with DaJuan!

Instagram: @dajuanjohnson

Twitter: @dajuanjohnson

I have a gift for you….

Speaking of less stress…..how would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend?

...and next weekend?

……..and every weekend for a month?

FOR. FREE :)

For the first time, I'm offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You'll have access to our weekly "Refresh and Reset" calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

Want more free content?

Sign up for my email list and get all my free content in one place. And if there's any discounts - you'll be among the first to hear about it :)

www.tonyrossicoaching.com

Books....

• 33 Ways to Love Louder - Preston Smiles
• Ego is the Enemy - Ryan Holiday
• Obstacle is the Way - Ryan Holiday

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

To get your first book for FREE visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow and sign up for a 30 day trial. (Keep the book even if you don't keep the membership!)

Previous episodes

Episode #44: Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck - A Deep Dive with Kelsey Mathes

Episode #5: An Interview With Robyn Coffin

Resources to check out

Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Wanna be a contributing donor to the podcast??

Head over to www.patreon.com/tonyrossi to learn more!

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

Need I say more?

Some backstory: Five years ago, I experienced my first polar vortex. I was also going through a rough time at work. Between the two, I felt pretty defeated...

Not. This. Year.

I'm five years into my personal development journey. I've learned a few things that help me stay positive during not-so-positive times (aka....when it's stupid cold outside....)

We'll talk strategies to stay sane and positive, regardless of the weather or other life conditions.

I have a gift for you….

Speaking of less stress…..how would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend?

...and next weekend?

……..and every weekend for a month?

FOR. FREE :)

For the first time, I'm offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You'll have access to our weekly "Refresh and Reset" calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only.

Use the promo code "stillenough" (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!

Click here to join!

Want more free content?

Sign up for my email list and get all my free content in one place. And if there's any discounts - you'll be among the first to hear about it :)

www.tonyrossicoaching.com

Wanna listen to the books we talk about the show?

An audible membership gives you one credit a month to use on any book you want. Credits rollover to the next month, and you get to keep the books forever!

To get your first book for FREE visit www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow and sign up for a 30 day trial. (Keep the book even if you don't keep the membership!)

Shows that Tony watches

• Atypical (Netflix)
• Returning the Favor (Facebook Watch)

Previous episodes

• Episode #42: More Results, Less Effort, More Joy - With Wendy Braun
• Episode #44: Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck - A Deep Dive with Kelsey Mathes

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

• Facebook: facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching
• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. (Yup. That's why I sound so good.)

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Wanna be a contributing donor to the podcast??

Head over to www.patreon.com/tonyrossi to learn more!

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough