Actor Problems

Have you ever cried for no reason at all?

I did. This past week.

...until I realized, "OH. That's why…"

Actors are emotional. We don't always know we're in a bad mood until we're hit with (what feels like) a wave of negative energy. And suddenly, we're like, "Where the hell did this come from?!"

This is why it's so important to a) stay in tune with our feelings, and b) learn to recognize where those feelings are coming from. It's not easy work. (In fact, it's one of the reasons why I offer coachings.)

Just know that this can be learned. But it takes a lot of work and lots of awareness.

Here's my story of having an ugly cry in a Starbucks bathroom, and how I figured out where those feelings came from.

It's all on episode #65 of the Tony Rossi Show podcast.

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• Food Can Fix it - Dr Oz**

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• Courtney Rioux

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Salem State Theatre

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Question: How are we as actors supposed to be sane and positive when facing rejection all the time?

Second question: How are we supposed to do the same when we're getting rejected from even auditioning? Or rejected from getting an agent to get those auditions? HOW?!

First off - please stop shouting. Second - I got you.

This week I share a very personal story of when I got rejected twice during my college journey: First time from my top choice university. Second time at my backup university. (Yeah. It really sucked.)

Here's why it's a good thing - and why it might be a good thing for you too.

It's all on episode #65 of the Tony Rossi Show.

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Things Tony likes:

Salem State University

• Web

• Facebook

• Instagram

Salem State Theatre

• Web

• Facebook

More Things Tony likes...

• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

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• Nellie Osborne: Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show.

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

If you've read the first article I've ever written for Backstage.com you know that I once embarrassed myself at a charity event: I didn't think I fit in. I told one of the volunteers who asked "So, who do you do?" that I was in the restaurant industry. Because I didn't even think that I could call myself an actor if I wasn't earning a full time living as one.

Today's episode is for any actor who thinks that "I can't call myself an actor" unless I have something shiny to show for it.

You might be surprised after listening just how much you have to give yourself credit for. (Even with a restaurant day job).

Wanna chat with me?

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one.

NOTE: Don't see an open slot? Email me at [email protected] with the subject "1-on-1 Inquiry" and we'll work something out :)

Books....

• You Are A Badass At Making Money**
• Listen for free on Audible with a free trial!**

People Tony likes

• Courtney Rioux
  • Website
  • Instagram

• Eric Thomas
  • Website
  • Instagram

• Heather Hiatt
  • Instagram

• Dallas Traverse
  • Website
  • Instagram

Previous Episodes

• Why Hardship is a Blessing In Disguise - with Sain-R Edwards, Jr.
• An Interview with Heather Hiatt

Things Tony likes:

• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

• Beachbody On Demand**: Stream 700+ Beachbody Workout Programs! You'll get online access to complete fitness programs for any body type and any fitness level.
  • World-class Beachbody programs including 80 Day Obsession™, 21 Day Fix®, PiYo®, 22 Minute Hard Corps™ and Core De Force™.
  • Yoga, cardio, dance, strength & more
  • Download workouts for offline use
  • Workout calendars & progress trackers
  • Get your free trial here!**

Other stuff to check out:

• Backstage Article: The Secret to Booking More Work
• Purple Affair for the Bear

Special thanks!

• Nellie Osborne: Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show.
• For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Want to sponsor the podcast??

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

If you're an actor with a day job, I'm guessing you're a hard worker.

I'm also guessing that sometimes - juuuuuust sometimes - you need a good kick in the rear to work on your acting goals….you know, the ones you keep putting off. (Yes. That one.)

Meet Sain-R Edwards, Jr. A member of the US Coast Guard, father of four, who somehow balances a work life/family life - despite living in a different time zone from them. In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of morning routines, why self help books are so damn important, and how being caught on fire is sometimes a blessing in disguise. (Like, literally).

Wanna chat with me?

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Get to know our special guest!

Sain-R Edwards Jr.

• Instagram
• Youtube
• Personal Facebook
• Personal Instagram

Books:

• You Are A Badass At Making Money**
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People Tony likes:

• Eric Thomas

Things Tony likes:

• Breathe University - Breathe University is the brand new eLearning platform led by Dr. Eric Thomas. Inside BU, you get access to Eric Thomas, along with all of his proven tools, strategies, and resources you need to jump start your greatness in one convenient location.

• Beachbody On Demand**: Stream 700+ Beachbody Workout Programs! You'll get online access to complete fitness programs for any body type and any fitness level.
  • World-class Beachbody programs including 80 Day Obsession™, 21 Day Fix®, PiYo®, 22 Minute Hard Corps™ and Core De Force™.
  • Yoga, cardio, dance, strength & more
  • Download workouts for offline use
  • Workout calendars & progress trackers

Get your free trial here!**

Special thanks!

• Nellie Osborne: Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Want to sponsor the podcast??

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Have you ever thought this "acting thing" is unfair?

The way this industry works can be really unfair - but does that mean we have to be miserable because of it?

This week's episode gives a different perspective of how to view this "unfair game of acting."

#notperfect #stillenough

This podcast was based off my latest article for Backstage.com. Full article can be read HERE

Wanna chat with me?

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Are you an actor who is stressed AF?

Day jobs. Last minute auditions. Late night rehearsals. Let's not talk about our bank accounts... Oh! And have you checked IG lately to see how many gigs your friends have booked?! (Hint: It's more than you.) This acting thing can make us stressed AF. While there's a plethora of classes out there on how to audition and how to book the job - where are the classes telling us how to stop being so damn stressed - specifically for actors??

Come to my pay-what-you-can workshop at Vagabond School of the Arts this coming Sunday, May 19th at 5pm! RSVP below:

You're an Actor, You're Stressed AF, Let's Fix That

Previous episodes

• Handling Rejection & Playing the Long Game w/ Spenser Davis

People Tony likes:

• Spenser Davis

Things Tony likes:

• First Love is the Revolution @ Steep Theatre
• Broken Nose Theatre

Special thanks!

Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show.

For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "Sponsor" in the subject line.

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

It's okay. You're allowed AND encouraged to take breaks from the "acting thing." Just like what our special guest is doing. Like, right now. Aneisa is from Asbury Park NJ who's been slowly making her way west since. She started out with a 20 year plan of going into the armed forces, getting a degree in psychology and, helping troops with ptsd but, ended up on stages telling stories instead; hopefully creating spaces for the audience to heal in different ways. Currently on a break from the stage to give herself some space but, you can catch her whipping up her original body butter for anyone who is craving deeply moisturized skin!

Wanna chat with me? (For free?)

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Come to my event!

You're an Actor, You're Stressed AF, Let's Fix That

Get to know our special guest!

• Anesia Hicks

• Etsy Page
• Instagram

Books....

• The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
• Listen for free on Audible with a free trial!

Previous episodes

• Ep 16 Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck- A Deep Dive w/ Kelsey Mathes

Other podcasts to check

• The Secrets to Success Podcast Ep 174: A Foul Reward

People Tony likes:

• Eric Thomas

Other stuff to check out:

• Hot Ones w/ Sean Evans-S8 Ep12 Scarlett Johansson

Special thanks!

• Nellie Osborne: Shoutout to Nellie Osborne, the sound editor of the Tony Rossi Show. For editing services (or just to see who this Nellie is), head over to https://eleanorosborne.org/

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "Tony Rossi Show Sponsor" in the subject line.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

• Why you can relax about your next audition…
• Why it's okay that you didn't book your *last* audition….
• What to remember when you JUST CAN'T
• How to get to know those important decision makers - without being salesy or annoying ;)

This week, we're talking to Spenser Davis, Director of Programming for Broken Nose Theatre. He'll share a bunch of "sigh of relief" gems for actors, plus some of his own challenges he's had transitioning from actor to director & playwright.

It's all on episode #59 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Wanna chat with me? (For free?)

Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're a good fit.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.

NOTE: Don't see an open slot? Email me at [email protected] with the subject "Free chat" and we'll work something out :)

Get to know our special guest!

• Spenser Davis

• Website
• Instagram

Get to Know Broken Nose Theatre!

• Website

• Instagram

• See their current production: Language Rooms (through 5/18/19)

• Attend their Gala! (June 9, 2019

Books....

• You Are a Badass at Making Money - Jen Sincero

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Previous episodes

• Taking Action And Pursuing Acting Excellence - with Leigh Foster Interview

Other podcasts to check

• Action: The Pursuit of Acting Excellence - "How to Book Costar Roles"

• Actor CEO - "From Musicals to Film with Bret Shuford"

People Tony likes:

• Tiphani Montgomery

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "SPONSOR" in the subject line.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Why should you see a life coach instead of a therapist?

Why should you work on your insecurities about yourself before transitioning to a new job?

What should you know about some of those actors recurring on TV - that you might not know about them already?

….we're talking ALL of this with Courtney Rioux on episode #58 of the Tony Rossi Show.

Courtney Rioux is an actor, author, and coach based in Chicago. As an actor, you may have seen her as paramedic Courtney on Chicago Med, the "Hot Shot Mom," or heard her voice on commercials like Hershey's, Jimmy Dean, and Happy Meal. Beyond her work on TV and Voice Over, she offers custom coaching to help you get unstuck and design the life you want. One client described it as therapy without the therapy - more like a great chat with a best friend, reminding you who you are and what you dreamed of as a kid. She is currently working on her book, The Whole Artist. She also teaches at the Green Room Studio in Chicago, and is on the board of many committees on SAG AFTRA

Wanna chat with me? (For free?)

Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're a good fit.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.

NOTE: Don't see an open slot? Email me at [email protected] with the subject "Free chat" and we'll work something out :)

Get to know our special guest!

• Courtney Rioux:

• Website
• Instagram
• Book a session with Courtney!
• VIP Day with Courtney

Books....

• Big Magic: Elizabeth Gilbert
• Courtney Rioux's recommended reading list

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Previous episodes

• Taking Action And Pursuing Acting Excellence - with Leigh Foster Interview

• More Results, Less Effort, More Joy - with Wendy Braun Interview

Other podcasts to check

• Leigh Foster's Interview with Courtney Rioux

People Tony likes:

• Kendall Ficklin

• Leigh Foster

• Wendy Braun

• Dallas Travers

Things Tony likes:

• Vagabond School: An incredible acting school in Chicago run by working professional actors.

Want to sponsor the podcast??

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Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Us actors are SO darn excited sometimes…

We get out of college. We move to a big city. We start auditioning left and right. We are SO EXCITED BECAUSE #ACTING!

... and then we get tired. We burn out. We constantly tell our friends that we can't see their show because, "Sorry!.....but #brokeactorproblems."

Most actors don't resonate with the word "patience" - which is what makes Kelly Piliouras stand out.

Hailing from Michigan, she decided to move to Chicago before moving cross country to LA. Once she got there, she made sure to hang tight and get a steady job before diving into the acting scene.

And if you think she's been patient all her life - you're mistaken.

This week we're talking with standup comedian and fitness model, Kelly Piliouras, as we learn about self care, patience, putting our health first, and avoiding burnout.

It's all on episode #57 on the Tony Rossi Show.

FREE WORKSHOP THIS MONDAY 4/22!

You're an artist. You love what you do. But you also work a day job, you don't love it, and you're broke AF trying to make strides with your creative endeavors. What if I told you that you don't have to wait to be earning loads of money before you started feeling like a complete, whole human being?

Come learn from your favorite #notperfect guy (that's meee!) who is still in the thick of it - working day jobs, convincing family that it's going to work out - who has learned that there's a better way to live before we "make it big." (Which, you will, duh.)

Where: Next Door Chicago - 659 W Diversey

When: Monday April 22nd, 6:30pm

Register for this free workshop here!

Get to know our special guest!

• Kelly Piliouras:

• Instagram

Books....

• We're big fans of reading here on the Tony Rossi Show. To start listening to self care books, head over to audibletrial.com/tonyrossi show and get your first book for free :)

Things Tony likes:

• Vagabond School: An incredible acting school in Chicago run by working professional actors.
• The 4 Animals - personality assessment

Other stuff to check out:

• Meditation apps

• Calm
• Headspace

Want to sponsor the podcast??

Let's chat - shoot an email to [email protected] and put "Tony Rossi Show Sponsor" in the subject line.

Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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• Instagram: @tony.rossi
• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough

Leigh Foster is a working Chicago actor.

He's been a guest star on Chicago Med. He's recurred on Chicago Fire. You've seen him on Empire, commercials, and print ads.

And as of early 2015 - he had never been on a TV show.

Having no acting degree, Leigh took it upon himself to "pursue acting excellence." He's also shared with us many parts of his journey on his popular podcast, Action: The Pursuit of Acting Excellence.

This week, we'll discuss why he started his podcast, what he did to become "acting smart,"and his advice to others who are looking to advance their career.

It's all on episode #56 on the Tony Rossi Show.

Wanna chat with me? (For free?)

Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.

Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.

You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (Just sayin'.)

Don't see an open slot? Email me at [email protected] with the subject "Free chat" and we'll work something out :)

Get to know our special guest!

• Leigh Foster:

• IMDB
• Instagram
• Twitter
• Leigh's podcast: Action: The Pursuit of Acting Excellence
• Action Podcast - Free Facebook Group

Books....

• How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
• You Are A Badass At Making Money - Jen Sincero
• Audition Psych 101 - Michael Kostroff
• Now or Never - Present Smiles and Alexi Panos
• Never Eat Alone - Keith Farrazzi

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Previous episodes

• Episode #47: Dealing with Comparison and Feeling "Enough" - with DaJuan Johnson
• Episode #44: Meditation Doesn't Have to Suck - with Kelsey Mathes

Things Tony likes:

• Vagabond School: An incredible acting school in Chicago run by working professional actors.
• Next Door Chicago: A spot to hang out, take classes, and talk with Financial Coaches—all for free.

NOTE: I'll be hosting a free class, You're a Broke Artist. It Doesn't Have to Suck. Course is on Monday 4/22 at 6:30pm. Spots are limited, so grab your free spot over at www.nextdoorchicago.com.

Other stuff to check out:

• Meditation apps

• Calm
• Headspace

Special thanks!

Thank you to Emily Ember who edited this week's episode.

Want to sponsor the podcast??

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Are we connected? (We totally should be….)

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• Twitter: @_tonyrossi

Hey...you're enough. Without all those things you want and deserve.

You're enough. Like, today.

#notperfect #stillenough