Advice That Hurts & Helps (formerly E-rotic by Eden Mitelman)

GET "THE LIST": https://edenic011.gumroad.com/l/thelistI almost never shared this… the ultimate list to becoming your best self in 2026. No fluff, no excuses—just the habits, mindset, and moves that actually work. Consider this your glow-up blueprint.GET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #modernlove #selfworth #attachmentstyles #relationshipgoals #emotionalintelligence #selfimprovement #selflove #confidence #sexeducation #intimacy #healthyrelationships #datingcoach #redflags #situationship #toxicrelationships #highvalue #masculinity #femininity #mindset #communication

In this episode, I'm discussing the real truth that no one is honest about when you move in together: not the aesthetic, not the highlight reel, but the day-to-day reality that makes or breaks relationships.We cover:• How responsibilities & chores quietly create resentment• The money conversations couples avoid (bills, splitting costs, financial imbalance, do you pay their mortgage?)• Why intimacy and sex change after moving in — and how to protect it• The conflicts that suddenly surface — and how healthy couples actually resolve them• Red flags vs. normal growing pains when living togetherIf you’re thinking about moving in, already living together, or wondering why your relationship feels different, this episode is your reality check before resentment sets in.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #modernlove #selfworth #attachmentstyles #relationshipgoals #emotionalintelligence #selfimprovement #selflove #confidence #sexeducation #intimacy #healthyrelationships #datingcoach #redflags #situationship #toxicrelationships #highvalue #masculinity #femininity #mindset #communication

Dating in your 20s can feel confusing, chaotic, and overwhelming. In this episode, I’m sharing real advice every girl in her 20s needs to hear. The shit I will tell my daughter one day. Whether you’re dating casually, looking for something serious, healing from past relationships, or trying to raise your standards, this video will give you clarity, confidence, and direction.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiQ_mxQv41U https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #modernlove #selfworth #attachmentstyles #relationshipgoals #emotionalintelligence #selfimprovement #selflove #confidence #sexeducation #intimacy #healthyrelationships #datingcoach #redflags #situationship #toxicrelationships #highvalue #masculinity #femininity #mindset #communication

Do you actually need to be hot or rich to get the girl? DEPENDS on the girl.

In this episode, I share my honest opinion on this contentious debate. Not the internet highlight reel, not the “alpha” advice, and not the toxic takes.

Suppose you want a level-headed woman who wants a life partner... THIS is what she is actually looking for. And it goes against what all the angry, sad men say online. SHOCKER.

GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

In this episode, I break down why no one is having good sex anymore, from emotional disconnect to unrealistic expectations, porn culture, and couples who don’t know how to communicate. Whether you're in a relationship or casually dating... This is worth a listen. GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-ex

GET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

In this episode, I answer a DM from a listener who needed advice about her loser boyfriend... and let’s just say, the red flags were flying. But here’s the twist… sometimes, the “loser” energy doesn’t just come from the person we’re dating. It might be coming from us.

I’m breaking down the most common traits and behaviours that define a “loser” in a relationship. From lack of ambition and emotional immaturity to avoidance, codependency, and more.

If any of this sounds a little too familiar… this episode is your wake-up call.

🎙️ Listen if you’ve ever asked yourself:

“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of men?”

“Am I settling for less than I deserve?”

“Could I be the problem in my relationships?”

It’s time to raise your standards for who you date and who you are in love with.

💬 Tune in, reflect, and maybe take some notes... because if you’re tired of dating losers, it’s time to make sure you’re not being one.

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Does your partner’s body count really matter? 👀 In this episode, I’m explaining why asking for a number can do more harm than good in dating, what it says about trust and values, and healthier ways to have real conversations about the past without sabotaging the present.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/d9n7WdS-bSIALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach

Are you setting healthy boundaries, or are you being controlling? In this episode, I break down the subtle but powerful differences between the two, why so many of us get them confused, and how to recognize what’s really driving your behavior.

We’ll talk about:

• The difference between boundaries and control

• Why guilt often shows up when you set limits

• How to communicate needs without overstepping

• Signs you may be leaning into control instead of self-protection

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I protecting my peace or just trying to control my partner?” — this is the clarity you’ve been needing.

GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman

If you’re tired of feeling anxious, over-invested, or emotionally reactive in dating, this episode is your reset.I explain how to master detachment through impulse control and emotional regulation practices. This isn’t about pretending not to care — it’s about learning to slow down your responses, observe your emotional triggers, and choose self-respect over instant gratification.You'll learn:🧠 How to pause before reacting emotionally💌 Why slowing down actually makes you more magnetic🚫 How chasing kills attraction and how to stop doing it💡 Practical tools to help you stay grounded, even when dating feels uncertain👑 How detachment leads to emotional power, peace, and better romantic outcomesThis is about choosing alignment over attachment.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5XybjQV7QVYALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman

In this episode, I explain the real difference between love and attachment and how to tell if you're falling for someone or just your own idea of them.If you keep mistaking intense feelings for real connection, this one’s for you.Let’s cut the fantasy and get into the facts. GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedWATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/EJ7vn9WuHh4ALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #sexcoach