The bar has been set high for holding a grudge. Quentin Tarantino revealed he hasn't given a single dime to his mother after she dismissed his screen writing dream when he was a kid. It's easy to spend money that isn't yours, but that's a long time to hold a grudge. Obviously AJ & McCall can't say who's totally right and wrong without the full story, but carrying that anger for so long, motivating or not, is detrimental to overall mental health. How do you throw away $25,000?! A family in Ohio was lucky their money was returned from the dump. Also, why do people put money in the freezer?