Today's question comes from a comment that was left on the website. I'll read it out: Girlfriend gets me down with her drinking, and it's destroying me. I'd like to have some advice, I really love my girlfriend but alcohol destroys our lives. She drinks heavily pretty much daily. We have aspirations but she always collapses under the weight of alcohol when it comes time to act on them. She gives up alcohol, she always drops me and runs to the bottle. She always